How to treat the "teacher-student love" of "ignorance" correctly?

Teenagers are in the development period of adolescence, and although they have developed rapidly in all aspects, they have not yet reached the level of psychological maturity. Your ideas are often naive and wishful thinking. You like teachers not because they are beautiful and handsome, nor because they are rich, but because they are rich, deep and tasteful. Especially for many girls, it is often easier to be deeply attracted by the inner temperament of the opposite sex teacher, such as knowledge, ability and morality, and have a good impression on the opposite sex teacher.

When you meet a teacher you like or admire, even a teacher who communicates with each other, everyone should learn to treat them correctly. Even if you have this subtle feeling in your heart, you should learn to turn this feeling into the power to improve your study.

Yu Fei, a Chinese representative in the third grade of a middle school, writes beautifully and is often read as a model by a Chinese teacher. Her handwriting is beautiful. She won the first prize in every calligraphy competition. It's beautiful. However, one day, she found that she liked her Chinese teacher.

Every time in class, she will secretly observe the teacher's words and deeds. Her humorous words, gentleman's manners, profound knowledge and handsome appearance all fascinate her. Even once, when she was intoxicated with this appreciation, she was discovered by the teacher and her face turned red at once. But as a clever student, she did not continue this feeling, but regarded it as a driving force to promote her study.

In the example, Yu Fei correctly treated his ignorant love between teachers and students and saved himself. Once you find yourself in love with a teacher, you must first learn to adjust your psychology.

First of all, we should think that teachers are excellent, but after all, they are teachers, and most of them are two generations from themselves;

Secondly, we should also understand that what we see is only one side of the teacher after all, and we don't know everything about the teacher. Just as we worship many stars, we can only see their talents, but we can't know their character and whether there are any bad deeds. Many girls like you once said, "I once had a crush on my physics teacher and looked at him perfectly, but since I happened to see him arguing with a vendor about a dime while shopping, he has spat and even made rude remarks." Suddenly, his tall image collapsed. " Many boys and girls often beautify their love objects, which is a psychological mistake and an immature performance.

Therefore, you are in an ignorant adolescence, and you urgently need to learn how to treat the love between teachers and students correctly.