Let me start with a happy case after retirement.
There is a retired leader who is the deputy director of a certain unit. Every time I drink, I am more heroic than before, and I don't mention anything before I retire. When people talk about his work, he always says it happened before. Now I am a free old man, and then I talk about drinking, talking about my children and grandchildren, talking about learning to drink tea and learn calligraphy after retirement, and caring about young people who are still working, so the atmosphere of drinking is very good.
There is another person who was the head of the company before he retired. Every time he drinks, he laughs. If he talks, he just remembers being happy with the people at the same table. Whether young or old, drinking is polite and restrained, which really makes people feel like spring breeze.
Such people, of course, are pleasant boosters on the wine table and people like them.
Say a few unpleasant speakers.
There was an old comrade who was the principal person in charge of several units before he retired. But after retirement, every time he drinks, as long as the official position is younger than him, the young one is called the younger generation, and the old one is called by his first name. Then he will tell his previous work experience like a story, which makes people feel that drinking is like listening to his beautiful history. After a long time, everyone didn't want to eat with him.
And some retired leaders. Every time I eat, it's because I have recently done something with your so-and-so leader, or I often eat with your so-and-so leader, or I have such a close relationship with your leader, which makes people feel that such people seem to live in the shadow of others every day. It's really fall in price.
I have retired. There is a new director in the old unit. The new director is very modest. Soon after taking office, he personally organized a forum for retired veteran comrades and invited everyone to have dinner together at noon. The new director said that he was young and inexperienced, especially in business, and hoped that the old-timers would care for guidance. And took a small notebook to prepare records, secretaries also warmly greeted, all kinds of tea, fruit and melon seeds are readily available. Old comrades are also very happy. After retirement, few people will think of themselves and start scrambling to introduce their work experience. They all care about the new director with the attitude of the old leader, reminding the new director from time to time what to do in the future. Someone asked me to say a few words, and I explained that I was dizzy and had nothing to say. After preparing for the forum for 2 hours, just 40 minutes later, the new director's phone rang again. He pushed open the meeting room door and went out to answer the phone. I didn't come back after waiting for more than ten minutes, then the secretaries went out slowly one by one, and finally I wanted to drink water myself. See where the director's notebook is still. Most of the conference rooms are retired anyway. I went to see it, and the notebook was empty. Near noon, a secretary invited everyone to the canteen for dinner, but the new director didn't come. Some old comrades asked the secretary to call the new director. The secretary said that the new director had gone to a meeting. The above is my personal experience, isn't it interesting? When you retire, you should behave yourself. Eat well, dress well and have fun. Good health is the most important thing!
The old leader of this department has retired for many years. At the end of the year, the unit informed him to come back for dinner and carry out the Spring Festival networking activities together. When the old leader came early, he went to our office for tea and chat. After a few commonplaces, the old leader introduced us to life after retirement and went out several times. He went to several provinces, used to be a leader, and his colleagues in the office began to look at him with new eyes. We got information from each other's eyes, looked at each other to protest and pouted at each other unreasonably. The lively atmosphere suddenly became extremely embarrassing. I realized that my emotional intelligence was ok, and I quickly asked like a circus: "It doesn't matter if everyone is a retired and idle old man, and it doesn't matter if they are leaders. Isn't it a kind of enjoyment? " The old leader didn't seem to feel the change of the atmosphere at the scene, but still said, "We only play with people who have been leaders." This completely annoyed several colleagues in the office, and everyone picked up their cups and slipped out of the office.
Since then, the old leader has returned to the unit, and no one has ever brought him tea or water. This incident was also regarded as a slot for colleagues to spit out retired veteran comrades, and it was lively for a while.
Before my father retired, he was at a high level in the unit. The community where he lives is the family building of the unit itself. The neighbors around him are old colleagues for many years. Before he retired, he was basically a person with a certain rank in the unit.
Father, their unit invites these veteran cadres to participate in activities for three time periods every year to introduce the development of the unit in recent years and invite them to sit by. Under normal circumstances, the veteran cadre department of the unit is responsible for the reception, and the competent leader will chat with you face to face and visit the living conditions of the veteran cadres.
Before retiring, Uncle Lin was the "second-in-command" of his father's unit. After retiring, he still couldn't put down his old shelf. When talking to people, he always likes to carry it and always likes to show off his old qualifications.
Every time my father's unit holds a reception for veteran cadres, Lin Shu is the most active participant, complaining and talking the most. I remember the most interesting time, at the old cadre association held by my father's unit, the unit leader introduced the development and achievements of the unit in recent years. Lin Shu couldn't help interrupting the leader's speech. These are all his thoughts when he was in office, but the conditions are not allowed. You have picked the fruits of victory.
Lin Shu, who retired for nearly 20 years, didn't know him at present, so he asked, what was Lin Shu's position in those days? Uncle Lin proudly reported his post in that year, and as a result, the staff around the leader came up with a sentence: "There are seven or eight people who have retired from Uncle Lin's post in the last twenty years. I really can't remember what Uncle Lin did when he was in office. " This made the scene very embarrassing. Since then, Lin Shu has never participated in the activities of retired cadres organized by the unit. He felt he had lost face.
First, the dinner that you can attend after retirement.
1. Mutual banquets between old colleagues: The mutual banquets between old colleagues are basically because their children get married after retirement. Such opportunities are rare, and it is difficult to give everyone a chance to talk and communicate, which is basically a normal human exchange.
(2) Entertainment held by the unit: Now there are fewer and fewer entertainment held by the unit, basically only two or three times a year, mainly depending on whether the leaders in charge of the unit have this idea. After all, after retirement, the distance from the original unit is getting farther and farther. Can the original unit do this kind of thing?
3. Dinner with friends: Unless retired old people especially like to join in the fun, there are not many dinners between friends in a year. This is mainly to exchange feelings, and everyone will basically hold such a dinner.
2. What are the most fall in price words you said at dinner after retirement?
1. Complaining about things in the current unit everywhere is actually mainly to gain some benefits for yourself. In this way, people who are currently working will be very dissatisfied and will not achieve the expected results. Finally, it can only be annoying.
(2) I don't put myself in the right position. I also like to show my old qualifications. I like to brag about my energy with people who are working now, or show people how to handle things. This is actually particularly fall in price and annoying.
I like to brag about my heroic deeds. I want to know that heroes don't mention their bravery in those days, and few people will remember the past. Any unit can operate without anyone.
1, follow the "three noes" after retirement: don't go into the office door, don't see people in the office, and don't talk about the office;
2, after retirement dinner, you are friends, regardless of superiors and subordinates, the most taboo to call the position, the older brother, the younger brother;
3. After the retirement dinner, the leader asked you not to go generally, because the occasion was too hypocritical. Unless it is his family's wedding;
4. After retirement, you are no longer invited to the leaders' dinner. It used to be because of work. Now you are nothing;
5. After the retirement dinner, don't evaluate your current job, because times have changed and this time is no different;
6. Have dinner after retirement and don't show off your personal achievements. After the official voice went, public opinion was chatting;
7. You are unhappy when someone invites you after retirement. No one invited you, and you're not lost. There is no big success in the workplace for a lifetime, and it is still Ma Xie Buyi to go to the post;
8. After retirement, we don't evaluate the quality of drinks at dinner, but we drink friendship.
9. Have a dinner after retirement, and no longer fight with others. Even if you drink, you are free.
10, no frustration and loneliness after retirement. Because promotion was inevitable in the past, you never spent a dime on promotion, and now you are unloading your responsibilities and burdens.
1 1. You have no hatred after retirement. You were falsely accused, framed, hacked, and hurt, all for a reason. It is the duty to ask you, check you and judge you. They also have a bowl of rice to eat.
Say anything, drop the price! ! !
People live all their lives. Go to school since childhood and be disciplined by teachers. When it comes to work, unit leaders are responsible. I dare not say this or that. Afraid of offending people and losing face, and of course afraid of fall in price?
You know your destiny when you are 50, and you are 60. Still paying attention to how others feel about you, for fear that fall in price will lose face.
Hey, are you tired? !
Retired. If you want to eat, go ahead. If you don't want to go, don't go. Let alone how to talk while eating. Price drop? What is the price? Who has this price? Whose price is higher?
Get along with people, be sincere and frank.
You're retired, and you still can't see through this?
Human freedom is not what you want to do, but what you can do; It's about doing nothing if you don't want to do anything.
Men don't mention the courage, Lian Po is old, still can eat? People will retire when they are old, and their energy will be exhausted. It's time to retire and go home for the elderly.
Just have a meal, don't be so serious, just say what you should say, and say what you should say at ordinary times. If you retire, you will be inferior, and if you are not in power, you will not keep your word?
"It's better to look at Fuchunjiang River than fish." People in Kunming, China have a big problem with saving face and stressing ostentation and extravagance. It's really embarrassing to die. People want face, trees want skin. People strive for a sigh of relief, and Buddha strives for a fragrance. Especially those who used to be leaders, they were in power, bossing around, smiling and keeping their word. All the subordinates around are greeted with smiles, and they are passive to Nuo Nuo and Nuo Nuo, with boundless scenery, crowding round and bursting with popularity. It's easy to get carried away, as if a person's ability level can be nine days, but he can catch turtles in five oceans, laughing with scholars and having no contact with Ding Bai.
The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit. Short-sighted people only look at the present. If you are in power today, people will naturally flatter you. If you retire tomorrow, you will be lonely, and there will be fewer and fewer cars and horses in front of her. The huge difference between before and after contrast makes many old leaders almost unbearable mentally, but it is human nature to take a closer look, and there is nothing to make a fuss about.
In fact, a person's accomplishment is closely related to his quality. The horizon is directly proportional to his experience, and the pattern is commensurate with his mind. Leaders with high self-cultivation and high positions often put down their postures, mingle with the people, never put on airs and stress social status, only serve the people with different jobs, and never distinguish between high and low. However, those who are troubled by bureaucratic ideas are used to bossing around all day as soon as they take office. Once they retire, they lose their power, which is really unbearable.
An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. If a person can become a leader by virtue of his own ability, he must have something extraordinary. How can this little thing be hard to see? How can a person who doesn't know what others think be a good leader? Of course, the ability to sing what songs on what mountains, watch food and eat, tailor and cope with a small dinner is not to mention.
Even ordinary people, even at work, have no value, and even after retirement, have no value at all. No matter what you say at dinner, the price has not dropped at all. He who has no long-term worries must have near worries. Everything should be optimistic. Don't haggle over everything. Be small-minded, far-sighted and broad-minded. If you often get angry because of a little thing, it is very bad for your health.
After retirement, you should live in seclusion and provide for the elderly. Put an end to boring social interaction, dull mind, old ideas, mouth and mouth not responding to your heart. My teeth are crooked, too. What's the point of going
They are all retired. Is there anything that you don't want to get from falling prices? No matter what kind of dinner, as long as you treat people sincerely, make friends with your heart, and sell the old without seniority, I believe you won't talk about what's bad for you!
Think about it, how many dinners can we attend once we retire? Even if there is a so-called dinner party, it is just a gathering of classmates or old colleagues. People won't invite me to a serious dinner. Besides, even if I am invited, I will try to refuse. I'm retired and mixed up with others! We should also be self-aware. After all, we still understand the truth that "politics is not in place"!
On the other hand, even if old classmates or colleagues have dinner, who doesn't know who and who doesn't know who? Does it matter what we say at this time? Old classmates and colleagues are nothing more than reminiscing about their parents' shortcomings, and they are so familiar with each other. Sincerity is natural. Do you need to say anything grandiose to express yourself? Even if you say that life is not satisfactory, you won't be labeled as "falling in price", will you?
So, we are all retired, and we do what we should do, and we don't need to worry about what to say at a dinner. Why live so tired? Besides, isn't it wonderful to do something you like every day?