You don’t have to be what anyone says you are, just be yourself!
Strongly improve yourself, improve your cognition and structure,
If there is no sun today, then be your own sun,
If there is no Prince Charming around you, Then be your own queen!
Methods for women to break the constraints of being defined and perceived:
1. Never stop reading and learning
People will never understand things beyond their cognition , if you stop reading and learning, you will always stay in the existing knowledge and never make progress.
Many people stop reading and learning after leaving school, but in fact, only by continuing to read and study can we not be abandoned by the times, and can we gradually find the direction of life that suits us.
Book list:
"Lifelong Growth", "Deliberate Practice"
"Cognitive Awakening", "Human Weakness"
" "Tear Down the Wall of Thinking" "The Conflict in Our Hearts"
2. Choose a direction to delve into
Everyone has a different starting point. Some people have just entered the workplace at the age of 25. Some people have been working for several years at the age of 25, but no matter what, truly widening the gap between people requires the right direction and long-term hard work.
Find the direction that you are suitable and good at, make short-term and long-term plans, firm up your ideas, and continue to work hard in the direction of the goal. Don’t be afraid of the cost of trial and error. Allow yourself to trial and error, and be bold in trial and error. .
Documentaries:
"Seven Years in the Life", "Female Justice Ginsburg"
"I May Be Late in the Forest", "The Story of the Symphony"
"Hexi Corridor" "Our Planet"
3. Cultivate your own skills
Cultivating your own skills will not only enrich your life, but also Improve your self-worth and allow yourself to grow in the process.
A sense of security is always something you give yourself. This technology may not be of much use now, but it may suddenly become a personal bonus at some point in the future.
While continuing to learn and improve yourself, you can also develop some hobbies:
Baking, cooking, tea ordering, flower arrangement, calligraphy, painting, dance, music, etc.
4. Don’t indulge in low-level entertainment
Watch short videos, play games, follow soap operas, read romance novels, etc. Low-level entertainment can easily make people fall into a black hole of time. Mobile phones Five minutes, two hours in this world, has been swallowed up by a black hole without even realizing it.
Low-level entertainment will only cause the brain to secrete dopamine, producing short-term happiness, while high-level entertainment will cause the brain to secrete endocannabinoids, producing long-term happiness.