Jackson Yee enrolled in an interest class at the age of five, and was forced to learn dance by his mother at the age of five, which made his future.
However, Jackson Yi's mother is very clever. After she discovered Jackson Yee's dancing talent, she focused on this aspect. China dance, folk dance and Latin dance were all arranged.
Therefore, netizens will think that Jackson Yee's dance in "Three Little Ones" is the best!
However, not every mother is as smart as Jackson Yee's mother. It is not necessarily a good thing for parents to blindly enroll their children in interest classes.
The other day, Douma saw an example on the Internet.
"Devil Mother" spent 200,000 yuan in 4 years and enrolled her children in 14 interest classes. What was the result?
This mother, known as "the devil's mother", spent 200,000 yuan in four years and enrolled her children in 14 interest classes.
However, what is the effect of interest classes?
It's been about a year and a half since the child was 6 years old, but both the mother and the teacher tried their best to arouse the child's love for piano.
In this regard, the child's father accused:
"It's too blind and rational for you to choose interest classes for your children! I don't know the advantages and interests of children at all. If the child has no talent and refuses to work hard, your persistence is a waste of time. "
So, this "devil mother" summed up the interest classes that she reported to her children in recent years.
1. Art painting
Features: low threshold, many partners, and children are not disgusted.
The child insisted on learning painting for 2 years at a cost of 20 thousand, but the "devil mother" gave up. The reason is that although painting has a low threshold, it pays attention to talent!
In artistic matters, it is difficult to have a sense of accomplishment without talent and hard work.
2. Language Enlightenment-Offline Children's English
Features: recommended by friends, young contacts.
"Devil Mother" gave her children initial English tutoring at home, and thought there should be systematic tutoring, so she signed up for an English class.
But she is pregnant with a second child, and the interest class is too far from home. The child insisted on 1 year and didn't give up, but she gave up. It was really hard!
3. Wushu-Taekwondo
Features: keep fit.
Children study 1 year and a half, and the cost is 1 ten thousand yuan. However, the child is not interested in taekwondo at all. Even so, he got the green belt, which shows that he has talent, and the "devil mother" feels very sorry.
4. Sports-Football
Features: Group activities
There are too many foggy days in the city, and children will only run around the field. Moreover, children passing by international schools to play football while learning English may affect their English learning. After half a year, they gave up and spent 4000 yuan.
5. Subject Enlightenment-Online English
Features: young and convergent
"Devil Mother" thinks that English learning can't be interrupted. After giving up offline English for children, she chose online English.
The child is not disgusted with English, and his listening and speaking ability is excellent, which shows that he is very interested in English.
Although the cost is 40 thousand, "devil mother" thinks it's worth it.
6. Art-Piano
Function: musical instrument
When the child was 6 years old, the "Devil Mother" gave him a piano lesson and studied it for 1.5 years. The result was not significant, and the children really didn't like it. All the 30,000 bills were wasted.
7. "Tool Man"-solfeggio in France
Features: with piano.
"Devil Mother" wants to learn piano by solfeggio in France, which can cultivate children's knowledge of music theory and sense of music.
However, children don't like musical instruments and music, so they have to give up.
8. Social category-recitation
Features: cultivate self-confidence
"Devil's mother" thinks that children are handsome and articulate, and practicing reciting will certainly cultivate self-confidence.
But my husband was too lazy to send his children to the recitation class and gave up after learning 1 year!
This shows how correct this sentence is, "You are not afraid of God-like opponents, but you are afraid of pig-like teammates".
9. Sports-skiing
Features: the pursuit of freedom
My child learned to ski when he was 6 years old, and he has been sticking to it until now. Although it costs 50 thousand, the children really like this sport.
10. Art-Calligraphy
Features: cultivate sentiment
The child began to learn calligraphy at the age of six and a half, and insisted on going to class even if he was sick with a fever. This is the power of true love.
The remaining four projects are golf, table tennis, Lego and math thinking class. Children like it better, so they also learn something.
However, children began to attend interest classes at the age of three and a half, and spent 200 thousand in four years, but what they learned was very limited!
"Devil Mother" enrolled her children in 14 interest class, but few children really benefited from it. As a result, money and time were spent, but the children didn't get much. This 200 thousand flower is really worth it!
Until now, this "devil mother" has understood the true meaning of the interest class. It is not a tool for parents to "not lose at the starting line", but a "paradise on earth" according to children's interests.
If children are not interested, then interest classes will become "purgatory on earth", parents will waste money and children may waste time.
Professor Li Meijin: These three interest classes are not recommended for children. They are ineffective and time-consuming and expensive.
Now many parents want their children to develop in an all-round way. When we look at the introductions of the top candidates in the college entrance examination, we will also find that they all have many specialties, which may be the credit of the interest class.
However, can interest classes be reported casually? The answer is ready to come out. In that case, isn't it as time-consuming and expensive as the "mother of the devil" and has limited effect?
Professor Li Meijin of China Public Security University once said publicly: "The more interest classes, the better. It is not recommended to give children three interest classes. "
1. Interest classes that children are not interested in.
In recent years, many parents have enrolled their children in calligraphy classes, painting classes and dance classes. Some children learn quickly, the piano exam is extremely easy, and the promotion of Go is also very easy!
However, some children learn slowly. For example, they learn painting. Some children draw fast and well, while others draw slowly and poorly. The difference is not only talent, but also hobbies!
Interest is the best teacher for children. If children like this activity, they will study hard. Otherwise, they may have resistance, not only failing to learn skills, but also affecting other subjects.
Sign up your child for a cram school.
A cram school is not an interest class! Interest class is an extracurricular class to improve children's knowledge, stimulate children's interest and broaden children's horizons, which is often called "super long class".
A cram school is an extracurricular class for parents to help their children with their lessons after school when they see that their children are not doing well in school. The purpose is to improve their academic performance.
We can understand that junior high school students and senior high school students attend cram schools. However, children in kindergartens and primary schools may be overwhelmed by cram schools.
Cram schools may not help children improve their grades. Their minds are not yet fully mature, and they only hate that their parents and cram schools occupy their freedom.
3. Interest classes that are too far from home
When the interest class chosen by parents for children is too far away from home, children will be troublesome and waste time, and it is inconvenient for parents to pick up and drop off their children.
It only takes two hours for children to attend class, but it takes half a day to go back and forth.
In the long run, not only parents will feel bored and lazy, but children will also feel tired of learning.
In a word, parents should choose interest classes for their children, think from their children's point of view, respect their opinions, and try to change the subjects they choose as soon as possible if they don't like them!