Buddha said: Looking back 500 times in the past life, I only got a pass in this life.
Everything meets because of karma and thoughts.
The cause and effect of three lives, the leading edge of the afterlife, can get married in this life.
However, it is not easy to meet and get along with each other. Husband and wife live in harmony.
If the husband and wife are not in harmony, the family will fail! Husband and wife love each other, and the whole family is harmonious. No matter how poor they are, they will be rich.
If the husband and wife are not in harmony, the family will fail.
"Guanzi" said: internal troubles and foreign invasion.
If there are constant disputes at home, more problems and troubles will come to you.
A couple owned a bakery. Because of busy life and lack of self-restraint, they lost their temper and quarreled.
On this day, the two quarreled as a bee. I saw the husband excitedly say to his wife, "If you want to oppose everything, I will kill you with a knife!" " "
The wife also said loudly: "Kill! Kill! I don't want to live anyway! "
Neighbors pulled them away and tried to persuade them, but the husband and wife swore louder and acted more violently.
At this time, a person looked at them like this and deliberately ignored them. Instead, he said to the onlookers, "Look, there are many cakes here. Come and get it for free! "
Hearing this, the couple became impatient and quickly stopped. The man just said, "Anyway, one of you wants to kill and the other wants to die. What's the use of keeping these cakes?"
Two people listened to, silent. The man said slowly, "Husband and wife are predestined friends. They should respect each other and tolerate each other. Your cake is the result of your careful efforts, and quarreling will only ruin everything you have now! "
Noisy, noisy away wealth, can't keep the blessing, noisy, what's good for yourself?
Shi Tiesheng once said: I really want to warn all children not to lose their temper with the dearest people. I see, but it's too late for me.
A estranged couple not only affects the family atmosphere, but also the child's personality. In a noisy family, children are on tenterhooks and old people are annoyed. Even if this family is not separated, there is no happiness.
We always lose our temper easily and leave the people who love us the most. The quarrel is pleasant for the time being, but the scars are inevitable.
Learn to control your temper, so that husband and wife can live in harmony and keep your blessings.
Family harmony, no matter how poor you are, you can get rich.
There is a cloud in the Book of Rites: father and son are faithful, brothers are harmonious, husband and wife are harmonious, and the family is fat.
In other words, no matter father and son, brother or husband and wife, trust each other and live in harmony, the family business can flourish.
Famous calligrapher Wang Xizhi. His wife, Jessica Hester Hsuan, is a famous talented woman with a unique art of calligraphy. After marriage, the couple often learn from each other and never quarrel. This harmonious family atmosphere not only helped Wang Xizhi to become a generation of famous artists, but also taught excellent children.
According to legend, when Wang Xizhi was young, although his calligraphy was somewhat successful, he was still a generation behind. Until he was in his forties, he still tried to understand calligraphy by copying.
One night, he was lying in bed, still pointing to the words copied during the day, and accidentally scratched his wife. Xuanxuan just said humorously, "Where is your own body? Just copying other people's copybooks, can you have your own style? Can others still admit that you are a family? "
After listening to this, Wang Xizhi had an epiphany. From then on, I began to integrate all kinds of calligraphy and finally created my own royal style.
Wang Xizhi and his wife have seven sons and a daughter. According to the biography of Wang Xizhi in the Book of Jin, Wang Xizhi has "seven sons and five names". Wang Xizhi never married other concubines in his life. In his spare time, Wang Xizhi likes to go out for a walk with his beloved wife Jessica Hester Hsuan. They walk in the mountains, which makes the flowers and trees all over the mountain lose their colors.
There is a saying in "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions": The family is smooth sailing, and although it is embarrassing, it enjoys it.
Family harmony, no matter how poor you are, you can get rich. A loving couple will make the home full of laughter and relax, and even the biggest difficulties can be solved.
Home, love can lead to harmony, and harmony can lead to prosperity.
A family depends entirely on the care of husband and wife. Without a warm home, it is no different from an ice cave; A home without love is not far from home.
Between husband and wife, admitting mistakes is not admitting defeat, but tolerating and cherishing. Life, accommodation, tolerance, harmony, harmony, home will flourish.
Family, what is the most important?
Yan Jiaxun: When parents are dignified and wise, children are timid and filial.
It means: If you have dignity in front of your children and care about them, they will be awed, cautious and filial to their parents.
It can be seen that the key to children's behavior lies in their parents. Parents have harmonious feelings, and children will have a good future.
What matters to a family is not how much money it has, nor how big or small the house is, but harmony.
There used to be two neighbors, one surnamed Wang and the other surnamed Zhang.
Lao Wang has a bad temper. Once, his wife poured him a glass of water and put it on the table. At that time, Lao Wang didn't pay attention and knocked over the tea. He said, "Why can't you even do such a small thing well?" Can't the cup be put away? "
The wife was also very angry and shouted, "Do you blame me for being careless? ! "
Lao Wang thinks it is his wife's fault, but his wife thinks it is obviously Lao Wang's own carelessness. As a result, the quarrel between the two sides was fruitless and the mood became worse and worse. At this time, Lao Wang went to ask Lao Zhang, a neighbor next door.
Lao Wang asked, "Lao Zhang, how come your family never quarrels?" What's going on here? What's your secret recipe? Ask me! "
Lao Zhang replied: "Our secret is that we all feel that we have done something wrong. No matter what happens at home, we first reflect on ourselves and don't blame each other, so there is nothing to argue about at home. "
After hearing this, Lao Wang realized something and opened his heart.
Home is not a battlefield, but a haven for the soul. Family harmony leads to happiness; With my family around, I am not lonely.
Whether a family is prosperous or not depends on both husband and wife. Life with rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea is inevitable, but you can learn to be tolerant and patient. Husband and wife are United, and the family can go in one direction.
San Mao said: "Home is the source of everyone's happiness, no matter how bitter it is, it is warm."
Home is the destination of our life. When I was a child, I had parents. When you grow up, you have to rely on yourself. So, treat your partner well, protect your career together and make your family more and more prosperous.
Life, seeing all over Qian Fan, lost the warmth of home; It is better to have a light meal at home than to taste all the delicacies; There is nothing like a bowl of clear soup at home. When people reach middle age, after discovering the change of human feelings, only home is the only comfort for our hearts. Family is home.
Husband and wife live in harmony, and the family is prosperous and rich. Love makes home, Qi Xin makes home prosperous!
The most beautiful thing in life is to stand with you in the evening when you are free and ask for porridge in front of the stove with a smile.
In the rest of my life, I wish you understanding, companionship, tolerance and someone to accompany you to grow old together. In life, if you have a home, you have a way home, and peace of mind is happiness.