Delayed treatment is certain, especially if it has become a serious disease. Because my husband has to walk on crutches! It dates back to two years ago, and I made up my mind to go to the hospital for a thorough examination and treatment. I don't want him to be hospitalized with sudden stomach bleeding. After admission, he refused to cooperate with the doctor to do gastroscopy to find the focus for him! Because of stomach bleeding the year before last, I had a gastroscope. He said it was too uncomfortable! Swear that I will never do gastroscopy again in my life!
Then do it painlessly. But he is worried that his brain will be affected, which will lead to his brain not thinking normally. No matter how much the doctor and I enlighten him, he is single-minded: don't do it! The doctor can't help but stop bleeding and give him blood transfusion every day, and all the bags of blood are lost, but I don't know where to go. His face is getting worse every day, and he has to lose his temper. He felt that everything was not satisfactory. He offended the nurses to walk around him and let his son go home crying ... until the hospital issued two "critically ill notices" in succession, I didn't want to take care of him anymore before I was willing to be examined. After the examination, the doctor told me that there was a big blood vessel ruptured in the corner of the stomach, and the situation was very bad. He told me to be psychologically prepared, saying that he had temporarily stopped bleeding with hemostatic forceps and would have surgery tomorrow. But that night, he lost his temper with his son and even pulled down the curtain of the hospital bed, which naturally led to more bleeding: hemostatic forceps fell off and blood gushed out of his mouth! People fainted ... later, if the best surgeon in the hospital doesn't give up his vacation and go to operate on him, his life will definitely be gone!
Because of excessive blood loss, people are too weak, upset and unable to resist, so the wound is repeatedly inflamed after operation and it is difficult to heal. They stayed in the hospital for more than two months before they could go home! Nearly two years later, my body slowly recovered and I came to see a doctor.
Finally, the answer given by the doctor is: if you don't have surgery, you will definitely be paralyzed, just a matter of time; Let's have an operation. It's too risky Maybe you can't get off the operating table, or just sit in a wheelchair. Let's decide for ourselves!
We decide for ourselves! How to decide? Two-thirds of his stomach was cut off, and he may have just grown up and his body has not fully recovered. Can such a dangerous cervical surgery stand it? This really gave me a big problem! But his own decision was quick: no! He said: "Instead of sitting in a wheelchair or dying on the operating table immediately, it is better to stick to that day and wait for him to collapse in bed and end himself ..."
His stubbornness returned and he never went to the hospital again. I really want to abandon him, I really can't stand him! However, think about it or not! He used his rest day to visit the hospital without telling him. I have mastered some tricks of seeking medical treatment, and I am no longer blind.
After seeing two hospitals, I felt little hope. I came to Yueyang Hospital not far from home that day. This is a hospital of integrated traditional Chinese and western medicine. Although she is not well-known in Shanghai, I once heard a friend say that the doctors there have good medical skills and she went there to treat diseases. I went with the mentality of seeing.
When I walked into the hospital gate and looked around, I was immediately attracted by several posters on the left side of the gate. It is the spine department that is publicized! My eyes suddenly lit up, and I watched it carefully over and over again. Specifically, Dr. Tang, the leader of spine department, led his team to cure one serious patient after another with their superb medical skills! ……
I really got a treasure: looking for Dr. Tang, yes, looking for Dr. Tang!
I found out his clinic time, went to the appointment office to ask for details, and then rushed home to tell my husband. I told him my thoughts: if Dr. Tang's diagnosis is the same as that of the previous doctors, I decided to resign, accompany him to live in the country and wait on him ... he finally agreed!
Two weeks later, we made an appointment with Dr. Tang's clinic. It's almost noon. It's Mr. Tang's turn to see a doctor.
Dr. Tang is less than 60 years old, and his confident eyes give people a feeling of peace of mind! He first examined Mr. Wang, then carefully examined the films taken by Mr. Wang in the previous hospital, and then made a decisive decision: go to the hospital immediately and prepare for the operation!
Go to the hospital at once. Prepare for surgery? My husband and I stayed!
He said, "Yes, what are you waiting for? I'm very ill. When are you going to postpone it? You can still come with crutches today. Maybe you have to take a wheelchair next time or even carry it in! "
My husband and I looked at each other!
Dr. Tang quickly gave me a hospitalization slip and asked me to go through the hospitalization formalities immediately. His assistant said, "But there is no bed!" "
Dr. Tang told him categorically: patients with extra beds and one bed in one room will be discharged in two days, and then arrangements will be made for him first.
"What will happen after the operation?" Mr. Wang was uneasy and couldn't help asking this sentence.
"That depends on how your rehabilitation ability! But at least you won't collapse in bed soon and let your wife pick up your urine ... "
Don't worry, sir! A smile finally appeared on his face.
"But I," I mumbled, "I'm sorry, we don't have much money with us today!"
Dr. Tang asked where we lived. I told him.
After listening, he said, "Nothing, it's not far." Then he went on gently: "You send him to the ward to settle down first, and then you can go back and get the money, just take what he needs for hospitalization." Go through the formalities in the afternoon! "
He gave me the ward number again, told me how to get there, and asked the assistant to show us the way!
On the day before May, Mr. Wang lived in a formal bed. Dr. Sun, Dr. Tang's assistant, came to inform me that my husband's operation was scheduled for May Day, and he was free in the afternoon, and asked all of us to go to his office in the afternoon. He wanted to explain to us my husband's handiwork.
Dr. Sun is in his mid-thirties and has a baby face like a pure girl. If you only look at the photo on his work permit on his chest, you will definitely think that he is a girl who just left school. His speech is soft and soft, which makes people feel very kind!
He let us into the office and told us to sit down one by one. I stood by the computer screen, let the screen face us, showed us the projection of Mr. Wang's focus on the screen, and began to explain the cause, condition and condition to us. ...
He knows that we don't understand, but he gives us detailed guidance and patient and meticulous explanations just like facing his own students and peers:
The most serious lesion and the less serious lesion; Which cervical vertebrae need to be replaced, what materials are used, and what are their properties? What are the advantages, etc ... because it is imported materials, how much price is needed, and how much medical insurance can only be reimbursed at most; How long does the operation take, what drugs and equipment are needed; This includes necessary and unnecessary neck protectors, and even neck protectors to be used after surgery. He also told us in detail that there are two kinds of imported and domestic products, and they are made of several different materials. What are their advantages and disadvantages? , we should choose.
Finally, according to statistics, how much will it cost, which ones can enter medical insurance and which ones can't. Tell us how much money we need to prepare at most! Say we know, so don't panic! Wait, wait, wait.
He just stood and talked, unhurriedly and quietly. He was confident that their actions would succeed, and at the same time he eliminated all our worries and tensions!
He explained it to us for over an hour! During this time, I advised him to sit down and talk or drink water several times. He said, "It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter to me. I don't have to sit down or drink water! "
I was embarrassed and stood up again and again to stand with him, but he insisted that I sit down!
Finally, when it comes to the date of the operation, he asked me where I worked and what class I went to.
I told him where I worked, and I told him that I would have a rest, and I would have a weekend in May. Can you set the date of the operation on my day off?
He readily agreed, saying it was the 4th or 6th, and let's choose another day. Sir wants to choose number 6, I disagree, I said number 4! I prefer a quick decision to a delay. Besides, 1 3 is a national holiday, and the doctor just took three days off, which is the best day!
Dr. Sun took my advice, so the operation date was set for May 4th.
The operation went smoothly and successfully, and everything ended as planned. There was no adverse reaction after operation. Mr. Wang said that the degree of pain is much better than he imagined, and there is almost no discomfort, which is many times better than the last operation. He is in a good mood and cheerful! The wound naturally recovered quickly, and after more than ten days, it was helped out of the hospital gate!
After a year's rest, he has been able to take care of himself completely In order to be more conducive to rehabilitation and restore his walking ability, he went to the country to live alone, leaving enough time to exercise every day, playing chess and practicing calligraphy with his neighbors and friends in his spare time, and occasionally drawing a few strokes, leading a carefree and happy life!