How did you meet?

I met Luo Xiaoli at a calligraphy exhibition. We happened to be walking in front of a calligraphy exhibition created by the same calligrapher. Later we found out that we liked the same calligrapher.

She is very beautiful, with delicate facial features and a tall and thin figure. I was attracted to her immediately. So I took the initiative and said, "Hello, do you also like this calligrapher's works?" She smiled and said, "Yes, yes, I particularly like every one of his works." I continued to ask, "I My name is Zhang Feng, what about you?" She didn't hesitate and said, "My name is Luo Xiaoli." After that, we talked about some calligraphy topics. Her words and deeds were very elegant, which impressed me deeply. She is the goddess in my mind. After it was over, I left her phone number, and we started chatting on WeChat.

We have the same hobbies and naturally speak the same language. As time goes by, the two of us develop feelings for each other. But emotionally I already had a bitter history. My ex-girlfriend and I were engaged, but she had a big fight with my mother the day before the wedding, so we broke up. As for Xiaoli, who is six years younger than me, I am not very sure that we can be together for a long time, but in the end, our feelings are not worth it, and we are together.

Later, we held a romantic wedding. After the marriage, she was like a child, prone to tantrums and acting out, but I didn’t hate her at all and thought she was very cute. She lives her life like a princess in a fairy tale, but maybe because I am six years older than him, I am not at all as chic as a prince in a fairy tale. I get up early to make breakfast every day as if I were serving my master. I can't come home late at night. I have to go home to eat, go shopping, buy clothes, and watch movies with her. We are almost inseparable. Later, an old friend asked me to go out for a dinner. I couldn't go, so I asked my wife's permission to come back early in the evening. Later, the phone ran out of power and I didn't go back until 1 a.m., so she sat on the sofa and burst into tears. From then on, I rarely went out.

Then there was something that still makes me sad when I think about it. She was already two months pregnant at the time. I was going on a business trip and she wanted to go with me. I was afraid that it would be unsafe for her to be pregnant, so I didn’t agree. Let my mother take care of her. For more than ten days in a row, she made more than a dozen calls every day, no matter what happened. Many times I didn't answer the call because I was busy. When I answered the phone again, she would cry and ask me to go back. I was very busy and wouldn't let her go. She was making trouble unreasonably, but she said that I liked someone else again. I had no choice but to let her make trouble and didn't answer her call. The person who called later was my father. He said anxiously that Xiaoli had gone to the hospital to abort the child, which made my mother breathless.

I ran back quickly and saw both of them in the hospital. I immediately thought that if Xiaoli didn’t apologize to my mother, she would get divorced. After a stalemate for more than a month, Xiaoli sent a text message saying that she was wrong and shouldn't be so impulsive. My mother asked us to reconcile, and I thought about it and finally forgave her. After all, I still love her.