How to understand your own personality and identify the personality of others, psychologists have countless methods. For us ordinary people, those methods are not easy to master, but there are some interesting personality identification methods in daily life that are very practical and magical.
(1) Determine the other person’s personality through gestures. From a person’s gestures when talking, you can see the person’s personality and his mental state at that time.
People who let the other person see their palms when speaking are open-minded and social people. But it is easy to make the mistake of chattering incessantly and being eager to express yourself. Therefore, feelings are fickle and it is easy to get close to others, but it is also easy to hate them.
People who touch their mouths when speaking are introverted and shy. Because they use words to express their sincerity, they can easily be misunderstood by others. This gesture is often seen in stressed children.
People who touch their hair with their hands when speaking often pay attention to the people around them. They also care about the people around them and often pay attention to what others think of them. They often worry about failures and mistakes and are very concerned about them.
Most people who hold their arms when speaking have a bad impression of the other person and are psychologically repelled. Crossing your arms sometimes means you don't want to hear what the other person is saying and want to end the conversation.
A person holding hands together while talking. Most of them are people who are easily nervous. When they talk to each other in a serious manner, they may subconsciously behave like this.
(2) The first type of character is judged by the mantra: Tell the truth, be honest, and I really won’t lie to you. This kind of person has a mentality of worrying that the other party will misunderstand him. He has a somewhat impatient personality and often feels unfair in his heart.
The second type: should, must, and must be. This kind of person has strong self-confidence, appears to be very rational and calm, and thinks that he can convince the other party and make the other party believe. On the other hand, saying "should" too much reflects a "wavering" mentality. People who have been in leadership positions for a long time are prone to such spoken words.
The third type: I have heard, heard, and heard from others. Although this kind of person has broad knowledge, his decision-making power is not enough. The reason why he uses such spoken language is to leave himself some room. Many smooth people tend to use such words.
The fourth type: maybe, maybe, probably, people who speak this kind of spoken language have a strong self-defense instinct and will not completely expose their inner thoughts. He is calm in dealing with people, so his work and interpersonal relationships are good. It also means retreating in order to advance. Once things become clear, they will say: "I had expected this." People who are engaged in politics often have this kind of colloquialism. This kind of spoken language hides one's true feelings.
The fifth type: But, but people who speak this kind of spoken language are a little willful, so they always put forward a "but" to defend themselves. The "but" language is used to protect oneself, reflecting the gentleness of the speaker. It is said tactfully and without any categorical meaning. People engaged in corporate relationships often use this kind of colloquial language because it has a euphemistic meaning and will not make people feel left out.
The sixth type: ah, ah, this, um, this kind of spoken language is often formed because of a small vocabulary or slow thinking, and the habit of using these words as an intermittent method when speaking. Therefore, people with this kind of spoken language are slower to respond. Some proud civil servants use this colloquialism because they are afraid of saying the wrong thing and need to take a break to think.
(3) Understand a person’s psychology and character from a handshake. A handshake means many things. Because you can understand a person's heart from a handshake. The person holding the finger: When shaking hands, only holding the other person's finger parts, most of the time occurs in situations where a woman is to a man. This handshake means that the woman is very careful and does not want to transfer her body temperature to the other person. If it appears in a male-to-male situation, it means that you have a good impression of the other person.
People who hold the other person's hand forcefully: This happens when you want to show the other person that you are strong. It means that this person is a person with a strong sense of confrontation and confrontation.
Hand-holding person: A person holding each other's hands when shaking hands means that he wants to convey his thoughtfulness, sympathy and intimacy to the other person. This kind of action usually occurs when pleading with others.
Those who shake hands with one hand and pat the other person’s shoulder or arm with the other hand: want to show that they are the other person’s supervisor at work, or that they have a strong desire to lead the other person. People of this type have a strong desire for status and reputation.
People who shake their hands very much up and down: Such people are socializers and like to help others. This type of person is easy to reveal his feelings, easy to show enthusiasm, and easy to cool down. Once this kind of person becomes your friend, he is a reliable person. But once they turn against each other, it will be very scary.
People whose hands sweat easily when shaking hands: This type of person is easily moved emotionally, is very afraid of strangers, and has strong likes and dislikes for people. In conversation, he was still very naive even when he was talking about very serious matters. On the contrary, people whose hands are less prone to sweating when shaking hands are mostly endurance and stubborn people.
(4) Shopping depends on the staring type: He likes to visit stores and seems to be interested in all new products, but he can never make up his mind on what to buy. The advantage of this kind of person is that he is enthusiastic towards others, active and willing to work hard, and enjoys talking about new things. But his or her narrow-mindedness and calculating personality have hindered his or her development.
Surveying type: Always budgeting carefully, therefore, when friends want to find bargains, they often ask him or her to be a consultant. The advantage of this kind of person is that he is very self-controlled, but he does not pay enough attention to taste. Therefore, this kind of person might as well indulge himself at the right time.
Impulsive type: This kind of person has an enthusiastic personality and intuitively sees something he likes and will buy it home without thinking, and will not give up any opportunity to buy something. In order to cope with the demands of daily life, such people must allow reason to overcome emotional impulses.
Investment type: This kind of person always comes prepared and makes a plan before going out to buy. Such people can always wear clothes for a long time, but they lack variety. If such people can diversify their choices, life will become more colorful.
(5) The taste and personality of eating fruits. If you especially love to eat peaches, then you are psychologically in harmony with most of the people around you. You are a sociable person, but sometimes in difficult situations He seemed helpless in front of him. If you particularly love pears, then you are a quiet, kind-hearted person with a sense of humor who can accept criticism from others and advice that you think is helpful.
If you particularly love eating grapes, then you are good at keeping secrets about yourself and others, but people around you will never trust you.
If you especially like to eat watermelon, it means you have a good temper, never complain or quarrel, and care about others more than yourself, but you lack principles.
If you particularly like plums, then you are an optimistic and hospitable person, good at getting along with others, and good at cherishing beautiful things. You are not jealous and are very calm.
If you particularly love eating cherries, then you are a gentle, soft-hearted, honest person with a spirit of sacrifice, but you love to stir up trouble and are narrow-minded. In love, you are immature.
(6) Call us to see your personality. In daily life, many of our behaviors are often unintentional, but these unintentional behaviors can reflect people’s personality characteristics. From the different types of phone calls below, you can also get a rough idea of ??some people's personality traits.
Relaxed and comfortable type: This type of person sits or lies comfortably while talking on the phone, looking calm and composed. They live a calm and calm life, and they do not change their composure even when the mountains are overwhelming.
Use the pen to represent the finger type: I am accustomed to using the ballpoint pen in my hand to dial the numbers. This type of person has a more impatient personality, is often in a state of tension, and does not allow himself to have a moment of leisure.
Walking and talking type: They never like to sit or stand in the same position when talking on the phone, and like to walk around the room. This type of person is extremely curious, likes new things, and hates any rigid job.
Shoulder instead of hand: They like to hold the receiver between their ear and shoulder. People of this type are cautious by nature and must consider everything carefully before making a decision. They act carefully and rarely make mistakes.
Double-tasking type: When they are on the phone, they often have to do some trivial tasks, such as organizing stationery, wiping the table, etc. Such people are enterprising, cherish time, and seize every second.
Cord-twisting: Playing with the phone cord constantly while on the phone. Such people are open-minded, cynical, and very happy-go-lucky.
Doodle type: While talking on the phone, scribble on the paper. Most of these people have artistic talent and temperament, and are full of fantasy and unrealism. However, their unique cheerful and optimistic character often makes it easier for them to get out of difficult situations.
Hold the lower end of the handset: Hold the lower end of the handset firmly during a call.
This type of person is round on the outside and square on the inside. They appear timid and docile on the surface, but in fact they have a persevering personality. Once they make up their mind about something or someone, they will never change it.
Mediocre type: This type of person has no special habits and all actions come naturally. They are friendly by nature, full of self-confidence, able to control their lives freely, and can stretch and bend.
(7) Judging personality from handwriting: "Books are also paintings from the heart." From this, "a gentleman meets a villain". Books, that is, calligraphy and handwriting, mean that one can understand a person’s character from his handwriting. The ancient Yang Xiong may not have thought that his insight has developed into a knowledge today - handwriting can mark a person.
It is difficult to find two people in the world with exactly the same appearance and personality, and it is also difficult to find two people with exactly the same handwriting. "Words are like the person they are." People's inner worlds vary widely, and their handwriting also has its own characteristics. Based on a person's handwriting, analyze his personality, abilities, hobbies, and various mysterious and complex impulses and ideas. It is widely used in fields such as school education, talent evaluation, company recruitment, clinical treatment, psychological consultation and judicial appraisal. For example, in developed countries, handwriting is receiving more and more attention, and there are many specialized analysis institutions. Many universities list it as an important professional course. In Germany, 80% of companies use handwriting analysis as a means of recruiting employees.
Why can one’s psychology be revealed from handwriting? "Handwriting is the expression of the soul" and "Handwriting is the brain's trace." It seems that writing is the hand moving, but in fact it is the brain writing - handwriting is the idea transmitted from the brain to the hand. Due to differences in personality, the characters written by different people will show unique characteristics in terms of structure, size, strength, writing speed, and the distance between characters and lines. The calligraphy of Yan Zhenqing, a great calligrapher of the Tang Dynasty, was steady, broad and thick, reflecting his strong, upright, simple and bold character. Another example is Mao Zedong's handwriting, which is majestic, grand in shape and rhyme, and extremely powerful, highlighting the great man's open-mindedness and extraordinaryness.
“I saw the wrong person”, people often lament like this after suffering setbacks in interpersonal relationships. This is because most people often judge people based on appearance, words and even status, and appearance can be "packaged". There is a big gap between the "packaged" appearance and the true heart. However, handwriting is different. It is a manifestation of people's subconsciousness (I am not aware of it). It is difficult to disguise and will always give away flaws. Words can deceive, but handwriting cannot. Handwriting begins to take shape in a person's childhood, and is basically finalized in adolescence, which remains with him throughout his life. No matter how clever the "packaging" is, it can't fool the experts. Not long ago, a kidnapping, extortion and murder case occurred in Hebei, my country. When the criminal wrote the blackmail letter, he crossed his left and right hands and wrote upside down, but in the end it did not escape the eyes of the experts and the criminal had to plead guilty.
So, what can be seen from the handwriting?
The writing speed is as fast as lightning, and the last painting is very long: act first and think later, easy to be impulsive, react quickly, but lack self-control, do not consider the consequences, have poor patience, and are thoughtless.
The font is tilted to the right, and the lines are tilted upward as you write: naturally emotional, prone to emotion, easy to be tempted, highly dependent, subjective, and jealous.
The font is full and the pursuit of beauty: the body feels delicate, has strong desires, is good at attracting people with its own charm, covets comfort, and has a high appreciation of music and delicious food.
Many people like to scribble on paper when they have nothing to do. This graffiti-like behavior can also reveal real information: drawing sharp-angled patterns or messy parallel lines means Inner anger and frustration; people who draw symmetrical figures are very organized; people who draw running animals symbolize trying to escape; people who draw eyes are suspicious; people who draw portraits are easy to make friends and enemies.