The most important thing is that while we have a career, we should also have a hobby, and this hobby should also be positive and truly pleasing to the soul. If your hobby has nothing to do with your happiness, it's not really a hobby. Either you are following others' opinions and sensationalizing to satisfy your own or others' vanity, or it is a pure waste of time and energy. I think a hobby must be a behavior or thought activity that comes from the heart, has nothing to do with utilitarianism, and is closely related to your true happiness. Moreover, it should have a personality that suits your own characteristics and should not be obstructive or harmful to others. . Only in this way will you have the true meaning of life and understand what I say: career is very important in life, and hobbies are even more important. ? Take me personally. Strangers may think that I am very cold. In fact, I am not cold but I don’t like to gather in groups to discuss people’s strengths and weaknesses, and I don’t like to join in the fun. I find it very boring. I am a person who likes to be "alone". I once asked myself if I am tired from work? The answer is: one word "tired", two words "very tired"! How can you call life if you are not tired, especially those who have entered their forties, there are old people We have children to support and educate. For the happiness of our family, we not only have to work hard, but also live a good life. People in the world are in a hurry every day, and they are just struggling for a few taels of silver. People in the world are excited, so they work hard to do a good job. But the prerequisite for doing a good job is to have a happy body and mind. If you want to maintain a happy body and mind, you have to have your own hobbies. Doing a good job will inevitably make you tired, mentally and physically. Tiredness will affect your work. At this time, you have to find ways to release yourself, decompress yourself, use your own hobbies to clear your inner world, and relax your physical needs. At this time, I either picked up a novel and got involved in the charming storyline, or took out my copybook to practice some calligraphy, or opened a diary and wrote down my depression, or clicked on "National Karaoke" "Let yourself vent by singing a song, and all the tiredness and resentment will disappear. Maybe this is the greatness of the power of hobbies! This is also the hobby of a "alone" woman.
After reading the above text, I hope everyone can really understand what I said. However, my language is a bit awkward, so it is best not to affect your understanding. It would be even more gratifying to me if you and I could produce some cries. Maybe your understanding and perception are far superior to mine, and I would also like to hear your feelings. As I once said to a friend: The so-called good teachers, friends, and close friends are things that can be met but not sought, and can only be understood and cannot be expressed in words. It is not communicated by position, education, age, appearance, gender, it is 100%. The soul echoes... Everyone has different experiences and growth. They will always have different feelings about things and different thoughts. The results of their actions are often very different, but no matter what, it is always important to have a love for life and a positive heart. What you desire is still looking for, how can you give up what you have? Whether you love or hate, gain or lose, it will not be everything in life. The sun is new every day. As long as you are kind, beautiful, healthy and happy, you will be the happiest and most comfortable. Regardless of whether it is profound and timeless or plain and simple, don’t pursue it deliberately. The natural may be the best... Things in the world may not always be satisfactory, and perfect results are almost impossible. It is precisely because of such regrets that we have desires. Only then can you have dreams, and then you can sift and summarize from memories and experiences over and over again, so that your soul can be comforted. If you can't change the world, you must learn to change yourself. Persistence is not stubbornness. The world cannot completely accommodate you, so you might as well Accommodate the world appropriately, romance must always give way to reality, reason will always trump innocence, if life is unbearable, smart people will pretend to be deaf and dumb...
? The world is so big, I want to see it , for a better life, you should have your own hobbies after work!