family status
Ye was born in June of 16 10. When Wan was born, her parents had been married for five years. After a long period of infertility after marriage, the widowed grandmother has always had the idea of playing with her grandchildren, and her parents are also eager to have children. When Wanwan was born, her parents were beaming. "Newborn girls love more than men", and after birth, Wan Wan's eyes are as delicate as a strange calyx. Grandma takes good care of her eldest granddaughter and often holds her in her hands. No matter whether it is hot in summer or cold in winter, my granddaughter will take care of her and even get up in the middle of the night to have a look. I felt my grandmother's care since I was a child, and wrote a birthday poem when my grandmother was 70 years old. The poem "Celebrate your brow and wish you a long life" (this poem was handed down from her grandmother's memory) not only congratulates her on her longevity, but also prays for her happiness and longevity.
Reiki talented woman
Ye, loved by her parents, showed the aura of talented women very early. When I was three years old, my mother taught me to read Song of Eternal Sorrow. I can recite it four or five times and speak clearly. Everyone was amazed and thought it was wonderful. Since then, the more her parents taught her to read, the greater her progress. She is young and has read many Tang and Song poems. When I was thirteen or fourteen, my parents taught me to write poetry. In a short period of ten years (until my death), I wrote many poems. Most of these works were abandoned by Wanwan himself, leaving only one tenth. Today, there are more than one hundred poems. Try to read his work "Boudoir Love" when he was studying poetry at the age of fourteen: "Boluo tried Liu first, and the lonely boudoir painted spring long. The strange wind is warm and clear, and I sleep in a silent embroidered bed. " When I was a teenager, I lived happily in my mother's house. Although I am not materially rich, I have enlightened parents, brothers and sisters, or study or have an outing, advocating and loving life and pursuing happiness. It's different all year round, and all the seasons are lovely. Hu Fen Zhi Zhu's ci describes the scenery of the four seasons, especially the scenery of his hometown. Hu Fen has ten * * * poems about Zhi Zhu, which show the different scenery and scenery of Hu Fen in four seasons. This difference is actually the difference of the poet's inner feelings, which are expressed through the scenery. In the spring season, willows droop, blue waves ripple, and Bai Ou spreads her wings on the lake. This kind of poetry is not intoxicating. How can you not feel that spring is infinitely good and life is infinitely good? The autumn wind is blowing, and it is full of harvest. The water in the lake is as fresh as the whitebait crab on the table. Every family sells and tastes, and a festive harvest is more than enough. In addition, there are fruits and vegetables with water chestnut and taro, which are placed on a happy face. "Every family cooks crabs and sells village wine, which is more than enough for a good year." There is even a shepherd boy's flute at night, and the sound fills the sky. Whether Qiu Guang is rich or poor, it is very pleasant to enjoy the moon on a good night. Even in the cold winter, people are preparing for next year. The vast lake and the scenery at four o'clock all leave good memories. "The lake is far away, and the sky around the tree is greener than the smoke. The grass by the lake is green every year, and the sails in the sky hang every day. "
Extraordinary knowledge
As the eldest daughter of the family, Ye has been clever and sensible since childhood, knowing how to help her parents take care of her siblings, and also helping her mother teach her siblings poetry. She is like an extraordinary teacher. Like big brother, when he was young, he was playful, patiently enlighten him and let him know how to study hard. Looking at her mother's hard work, Ye often takes the initiative to share some things for her mother. Father is an official outside, and taking care of his family is nothing more than affection in his family letters. In order to let his father work outside with peace of mind, Ye, together with his mother and siblings, always comforts his father and doesn't have to worry too much about home. 1630, Ye sent a poem to his father, in which he wrote: "People are healthy if they are worried" and "I hope to eat more and forget my home", which is really a great comfort to my father who is away on business. After Wan Wan died, his father Ye reread the poem and choked up. How sad it is that his daughter was sent by a white-haired man instead! In the first few years of his father's resignation and retirement, there was constant laughter and frequent chorus at home, which was a productive period for thousands of works. My father wrote eight poems "Autumn Village Residence", and Ye You wrote a poem of peace with his mother and siblings, which won his father's praise. Ye described a scholar's leisurely life in the countryside in his and his father's eight poems "Autumn Village Residence". The piano and books were in bed, and the wind was against the moon, which had nothing to do with the world. "The books on the wooden couch are scrolls, which are spent on the glass." "Stone walls can be painted, and rattan beds can lie in clouds." This kind of country life is simply the life of a fairy. The master is indifferent to worldly honor and disgrace, willing to be poor and simple, and give up his official career. "Seclusion is lonely, and my vision is broad." As long as there is a book to read, "it is just hidden by the book", regardless of the ups and downs of the world, facing the bleak autumn wind and surging water, laughing at the ups and downs of ancient and modern times, just like the fleeting water, as if it were just a moment. "Ancient and modern vibrations, flowing water alone." Picking up a glass of wine, in the bleak west wind, several people quickly looked back and all the clouds and smoke flew away, leaving the "empty jathyapple room." It is also the author's vision of life to pursue getting rid of the world as great happiness. Influenced by family style (especially mother's family style), Ye usually pays great attention to his words and deeds. She must make her words and deeds conform to etiquette, be generous and kind to others, and even be kind to each other between servants and handmaids, and form a sister relationship with them. Wan Wan, who is similar in age, often travels together, plays together and has a harmonious relationship with them. In a set of words in "Huanxisha", several poems are addressed to handmaids, such as "I am lighter than flying flowers", "My waist is graceful and my socks are covered with dust" and "I am deeply immersed in Qin bamboo shoots", which vividly depicts the beauty of a young woman's appearance and posture, like a poem praising handmaids, which is rare in ancient times.
unhappy marriage
The happiness of early life and the ease of family life can't hide the sadness of Wan Wan's heart, all of which stems from an unfortunate marriage. Wan Wan's marriage was betrothed by her parents to Yuan Shi, the third son of Yuan Ruosi in the same city, when Wan Wan was less than one year old. Yuan Jia and Ye Jia are family friends, and Ye Chongdi are fellow scholars. Ye was sent to Yuan Jia since childhood, and Ye and Yuan Ruosi (real name, Yuan, an expert in Confucian classics) were classmates since childhood, and then they were admitted to Jinshi together (in the same year). Therefore, Yuanyuan betrothed Wan Wan to Yuan Ruosi's son, so that the friendship between the two families could be consolidated and developed. Ye, who thought she had found a good husband's family for her daughter, never imagined that she would live an unhappy marriage life from now on.
/kloc-When he was 0/7 years old, Yuan Ruosi wrote a letter to Ye, and Ye married his son because he wanted to be in Guangdong. In October, Wan Wan married Yuan Jia. The following year, Yuan Ruosi was transferred to Guangdong as the county magistrate of Gaoyao County and went to Guangdong with her husband and other family members. From Hufen Lake, a water town, to the hot south, we have to pass through many mountains along the way, and we can imagine the hardships and hardships. Wan Wan wrote two poems during her trip, namely "I don't know when to return to Japan" and "I don't know when". Halfway through the trip (Qingxi, Zhejiang), Wan Wan separated from her husband and others and didn't go any further. She went back to her husband's house along the road, which made Wan Wan suffer a little less from the journey. Only two or three years after returning to China, Yuan Ruosi died in office (later in the county shrine), and the coffin was transported back, and the whole family mourned. Since then, the Yuan family has gradually declined. Mother-in-law made an analysis of the property and gave it to Wan Wan and his wife to manage, so Wan Wan was able to arrange things in an orderly way at home. After marriage, wan wan's married life is very unfortunate. Her parents arranged the marriage, which made the two sides lack understanding before marriage. After marriage, the two sides are very different in personality and lack the basis of living together. Therefore, although Wan Wan and her husband are husband and wife, they are not husband and wife, which is undoubtedly a great pain for both sides. Wan Wan's pain has nowhere to tell, even parents and sisters can't say it, but can only be buried in their hearts. After doing housework, I worship Buddha and read the Shurangama Sutra and other Buddhist scriptures. After reading it, it's already a "sunset window cage", and I hope that "the white clouds will not come away, and we will spend our carefree days together." The lingering pain in my heart has caused a cavity of sadness, and the only thing that can be slightly relieved is to practice calligraphy and write poems. Wan Wan is an expert in calligraphy, especially fine print, and her calligraphy attainments are better than those of her sisters. At that time, she was rated as the "No.1 scholar in Jin Dynasty". In order to relieve worries, Wan Wan writes several Tang poems every day, which improves her calligraphy attainments. The main way to get rid of sadness at ordinary times is to write poems, and in the imaginary world, to get rid of the sadness, suffering and bondage of the world with fantasy. Writing and writing poems have nothing to do with real life, and being graceful also gives birth to the idea of "being refined", that is, becoming a nun. This meaning was said in a joking way and was criticized by parents and sisters. If you can't realize the idea of becoming a monk, you have to endure all kinds of troubles in life. In Dreaming, Wan Wan wrote, "If you have a complaint, don't go into the mountains." Climbing the building is extremely eye-catching, but it is between white clouds. "I can only experience the tranquility after entering the mountain in my dream. If someone can talk, it is the easiest to resolve. Although Wan Wan doesn't say, can't say, but sometimes it will be shown in front of her sister Xiao Luan. Especially after returning from a trip to Guangdong, Wan Wan went to her parents' home more often and stayed longer, for this warm feeling.
Now is the way to cry.
Wanwan and Xiao Luan are six years apart. They lived together for a short time, but in a short time, the friendship between sisters was deep. Xiao Luan's boudoir is called Shuxiangge, and Xiao Luan has a poem named Xiao Qi on it. Wan Wan was asked to write a poem on the topic of Shuxiang Pavilion. Wan Wan immediately wrote a poem called Qiong Shuxiang Pavilion, which wrote: "There is a beautiful woman in it, and it belongs to the item." The phrase "beauty is peerless, and new makeup is put on at night" highly praised my sister's beauty. During the years when they lived together in their parents' house, their sisters sometimes wrote poems in harmony, and they also competed in poems on the same subject. In the dream hall in the afternoon, there are many flowers, such as chrysanthemum, begonia and jasmine, all of which are the objects of their chanting. Plum blossoms are pure and beautiful, and everyone loves them. Wan Wan wrote ten plum blossom poems, writing that plum blossoms are bitter and cold. "Frost and snow are ruthless and invade several times." Although "it is better than the poet's infinite meaning", I still like "when there is infinite fragrance", but I still feel sad. "Fortunately, the east wind was evil at the beginning, and Yu Ying blew off people's intestines", which made people have mixed feelings. After marriage, Wan Wan cherished her old life and went back to her parents' house intermittently. Sometimes she invites her sister to stay in her own home. She wanted to say goodbye when she sent her sister home. In the graceful "Send Sister Qiong Home", she said, "If you want to be a Long song, you never let your tears go first." The phrase "after parting, we rarely meet each other, and life is not as good as flying geese" makes people cry.
When Xiao Luan was about to get married, Wan Wan went back to her parents and sister in early September, and made an appointment to go back to her parents' home early after September 20th to prepare for her sister's wedding. When I go back later, I will cross Fenhu by boat. Although the scenery in the lake is good, no one can accompany you to enjoy the beautiful scenery, and the beautiful scenery can not attract a good mood. "It's late at night in the Lancang River, and one person looks very disappointed."
Sadness and illness
Soon, Xiao Luan died and Wan Wan was writing poems at home. Hearing the bad news, Wan Wan hurried back to her parents' home to attend the funeral, caressing the coffin and crying. She was in bed with grief. When she was ill, she still wrote ten chapters to cry for her dead sister. Secondly, she said, "I made wine nine days ago. I didn't know it was a thousand years." It's raining outside Xiangge, and the little moss marks are hazy. "Only a few days apart, but separated by Yin and Yang. When we see old things, we feel as gloomy as the rain at dusk, and we are full of sadness and pain. Article 6 says, "Only when you are putting on makeup, do you wear a badge. God hates it. Lou Yu should be jealous of the new subway and leave eternal harm to the world. " Article 10 is: "The grass in the yellowish dust withered, and the color of the grass was stained with tears. It's hard to continue to break ileum. It will be a dry pipe disease. "Ten poems about crying my sister were all written during my illness. When I cried my sister, I also hurt myself. Because her crying sister was so sad, Wan Wan finally fell ill. During her illness, she recited Buddhist scriptures such as King Kong and Leng Yan every day. One day, Wan Wan told her mother that she dreamed of going to the deep mountains at night, and there was a saying in the poem, "Looking for mountains and asking for water, reforming old roots and seedlings". I was afraid it was a bad omen, and her mother tried her best to comfort her. Every few days, I tell my mother that someone in my dream showed me the so-called dream bubble, and I don't think I can stay in the world for long. My mother repeatedly advised me to dispel my worries.
The sick Wan knows that she can't hold on much longer. 1632 On the 22nd of the twelfth lunar month, she asked for help and told her mother that I couldn't come. Then he sat in danger, his face unchanged, his hands crossed and mourned, sweating all over, and died of Buddha ceremony. My sister Xiao Luan is only 70 days away. After Wan Wan's death, he and Xiao Luan were temporarily placed in the north of the lotus pond behind Baosheng Temple. Later (1March 643), Yuan Jia took Wan Wan's coffin back and buried it in Yuan Jia's house.
Poetry and lyrics
Most of Wan Wan's poems express melancholy and troubles. After seven years of marriage, she worries about the city every day, whether it is spring flowers or autumn moon, she sees it and worries about it. For example, "Looking at flowers in spring has feelings": "When will spring be sad, and spring will be fun?". It's always irrelevant to come and go, to worry about the hole. It is difficult to ask for flowers when you are upset, and you will swallow yourself in front of the steps. As a romantic soldier, Dong Jun's feelings are too hot. The lone flower watcher is cold-hearted * * * ice and snow. " Later, when my father was sorting it out, he read this poem and commented, "It's this poem, every word is a tear, I have probably seen it. Infinite sorrow, no need to say more. " I can't bear to let my parents see it. After writing, most of them were destroyed, leaving only about 150 songs. I collected the title "Sorrow Words". When ye was sorting out her daughter's poems, she saw that the topic was getting more and more sad, and she carved both her Ci of Mourning for the Past and Huansheng Lane into Wu Ji. Wan Wan's bedroom in her mother's house is called Fangxuexuan (southwest of Wumengtang, opposite to Shuxiangge in the north), which is named after several pear trees outside the house, taking the sentence of "Fang Chun Zhao Xue" in Wang Rongshi's Pear Flower. Wan Wan also has two "Pear Flowers" poems, and there is a sentence "March in the window lattice, finding the wind in the forest", but it is still difficult to hide her sadness. Therefore, the book "Sorrow Language" is also called "Fang Xuexuan's Legacy Collection".