My mother, an out-and-out housewife, looks ordinary and has read some books. She married my father before she was twenty. Up to now, I can't understand how mom and dad feel about each other. People in those days were often matchmakers, and they decided to live for life. They have never been in love, but they have been in love all their lives.
My mother always said that she was so busy that she didn't even have time to get sick. Whether at home or away, her mother is always busy and hard. No one knows the hardships and bitterness contained in this sentence better than I do! Everything is because of my father! Dad grew up grumpy and paranoid, which is a typical male chauvinism. He often feels depressed. Because of a little thing, his mother will be scolded by him. In front of his father, his mother has been watching carefully with her eyes down, but she still dares not say anything, for fear of attracting more abuse. Once, my mother couldn't stand it and drank pesticides in the middle of the night. I'm still afraid to ask why. I just vaguely remember the screams and convulsions at home at that time, and I was very panicked. Although my mother was saved in the end, my father's temperament has not changed.
At that time, I was young and often hid in terror. I hate my father, his temper, his lawlessness and his inhumanity to my mother. Every time I hear my mother say behind my back that I won't talk to my father, I am filled with joy and naively expect them to divorce early, because then my mother will not be so painful, but in the end my mother still can't bear to part with my sister. For this family, for the children, she spared no effort to pay silently. So, in the later years, I was carried by my mother through a long dark mountain road in the middle of the night and bumped back to my grandmother's house; There are countless tossing and turning nights, I saw my mother burying her head in the quilt and sobbing silently. So I hate myself, I hate myself for not growing up quickly, I hate myself for not being a man, I can't protect my mother, I can't stand up for my mother and stop my father's evil deeds! My mother won't allow me to hate my father. She told me that my father's heart is actually good, but his bad temper determines what he does. His parents died young, and he didn't study for several years. The hardships and frustrations of life made him taste the hardships of life prematurely.
I believe my mother's words, because my father regrets it every time afterwards, but when he is angry, he can't help himself. At home, dad is a tiger. He is arbitrary. If he is a little unhappy, he will take it out on his mother. She must listen to what he says and do what he tells her. She must find something at once. If he is angry and doesn't eat, she will always persuade him to eat like a child. Otherwise, none of us dare to eat this meal.
Stubborn when I grow up, I can't tolerate such a family environment. I escaped from it and tried to run away from home many times, vowing never to return to this home that made me sad and tearful. I didn't know how worried my mother was at that time. Until that day, I had another quarrel with my father for my mother, and my father yelled at me to get out of this house. My mother made me cry and wouldn't let me go. Facing my heartbroken and tearful mother, I almost woke up hysterically. I can't stand up to my father like this. How sad my mother will be if I leave, and how my father will take it out on my mother. I can walk away, but only my mother will suffer. I must apologize to my father for my poor mother's sake. In any case, I can't leave this house! I know that my father still loves me, but his autocratic thought can never tolerate the children's resistance to him, just like the mother's obedience to him all her life, so should we! In my father's mind, I always thought that I was my mother's sky, and marrying him was my mother's blessing. Without my father, my mother will live a hard life for farming like other rural women. In the face of such a father, I will be even more disgusted. It is clearly the fallacy that he is unreasonable, but he is so overbearing and unreasonable! Mom is not easy. How can he understand? Has he ever worked hard at home and outside? For decades, my mother has been like a spinning top, supporting this family with her thin shoulders. How can I live without my mother outside my home? It has been a habit for many years. Whether it is a father or a sister, the first thing to do when entering the house is to find a mother. The first sentence is "Mom". When mom was away, the whole family was at a loss. Father doesn't know where to change clothes every day, and the lights are on and off.
But even so, he still won't admit his dependence on his mother. With her warmth, he felt at ease, but he disagreed! In other words, as long as his mother is by his side, he will never understand how important his mother is to him! For many years, my mother worked hard to serve my father, but my father never knew how to pity my mother. My mother has coronary heart disease, and she often feels chest tightness and can't breathe. But in such a family environment, why doesn't she get angry? She knew that she was ill, and even if she was ill, she quietly found some medicine for herself, for fear that her father would blame her for being angry. "After so many years, I still don't know what your father's temper is, and I am used to it." My mother always calmly said that my heart ached. This is my mother, who has suffered all her life but still doesn't think about herself bit by bit! Today's mother has become haggard and aging, and my retired father has changed his temper. I have grown up, married, and gradually stopped hating, and learned to be patient and tolerant. I know there are still many responsibilities waiting for me in my life. For this family, for my mother, I can only silently love you with my kindness and filial piety for a thousand times and ten thousand times, and repay you, my dear mother.
2. How to write a love letter to your best friend?
There is always a person in the world who is not related by blood. He does not covet your beauty or wealth. But I have always loved you.
She tirelessly hates your ugliness and your obesity, which has been hurting you. However, when you are sad, when you give up on yourself, you never give up.
The best friend is a magical animal that laughs with you, cries with you, is crazy with you, and is stupid with you. Tired, provide you with a shoulder to lean on. In front of everyone, it is she who supports you and it is she who hurts you.
You will laugh mercilessly for some boring things, and you will blush for a small matter. But it won't be long before you have the cheek to make up again. This is your best friend, and you can't leave without scolding and quarreling. After the storm, she is your best friend's companion all the way.
80% of a person's life's love bitterness falls on his best friend, and your pain is neutralized by his best friend's "honey", so you can be saved. Lovers may cheat, leave and become strangers, but girlfriends are always a safe haven.
You don't have to worry about the sophistication that society teaches you, and you don't have to be careful to behave gracefully in front of others and behind others. You have no face, no skin, no shyness to spoil each other and accompany each other. You live the easiest life in front of you, and your best friend is the best lover in the world.
Can share the girl's heart, can share each other's secrets, her mouth is full of love.
She is like an ever-changing sky and bright moon, and like a flood that is not covered and blocked.
Because they have similar feelings, similar circumstances and similar emotional experiences, they can better understand each other's joys and sorrows. Girlfriend is a godsend, a natural lover, and a rare species in the era of feasting.
We are all from eat drink man woman, and we can't escape the fireworks. In my life, some people have black eyes for ideals, some people have red eyes for love, and my best friend will always stand by you and tell you that there is no darkness, and I will stand by you.
Life is sometimes bitter, but girlfriends are always sweet.
A woman will always have one or several intimate friends in her life, even if she has experienced lead China and a large number of children and grandchildren, it will not hinder their friendship.
Even if you are old, you can dress up cool, be a charming and temperament grandmother together, and charm a large number of old people.
After experiencing the storms of life, you will finally understand the value of friendship. A really good girlfriend is to quarrel and scold all her life, that is, never leave no matter what happens.
No matter how long we haven't seen each other, we are still the same, with a bad temper, talking loudly and not paying attention to our appearance. However, I always laugh so happily.
Friendship is like a tree. It doesn't matter how tall it can grow, only how deep its roots are.
Dear best friend, crazy with you, I really don't care about anything. Regardless of the image, regardless of other people's eyes.
But only with you can I be so brave and crazy.
As I said, the world is so big that it's really not easy to meet. I can be your best friend.
My dearest and best friend, I hope we can accompany each other to the old age and spend all the happy times in this life together!
3. How to tell a confession sentence to a secret (* * * is divided into four parts, please read it patiently: First, practical confession skills; Second, men profess women; Third, women profess men; The fourth is the choice of confession location. )
Confession ladder: a practical confession skill to avoid confessing death. Confession refers to expressing your interest in a girl, which is an expression of interest. Confession is a turning point in the escalation of the relationship, and it is a statement that defines the direction of your relationship.
Its purpose is only one: let the girl accept your interest in her and straighten out the relationship between the two sides. Confession is an important link in the whole process of relationship upgrading.
Without this link, girls will be confused about your development intentions and doubt your interest. There is a necessary premise for the escalation of the trap relationship of "death confession", that is, you have certain attraction and availability to each other. Without this premise, you will definitely fall into the trap of "confessing to death".
Confession to death means that after a man confesses to a woman, he is rejected by the woman, which makes the relationship plummet and the attraction and comfort drop sharply. In the PUA system, confession is a topic that is rarely mentioned.
For many PUA systems, language confession is actually unnecessary, because there are many other expressions that can be replaced, such as body language, availability, Kino upgrade and so on. Confession comes from two factors: 1. Mutual attraction or lack of usability; 2. Put too much pressure on the other party, so that the other party needs to assume the role of an exclusive lover at once, making the other party feel uncomfortable in the face of unexpected situations.
The problem of traditional confession In traditional thinking, confession is to express your interest to girls, which can usually be "I love you" or "Can you be my girlfriend?" If the other person accepts your confession, it means that she needs to assume the role of lover, but when the other person is not ready, such expression will form too much pressure, so girls will instinctively refuse to escape this pressure and avoid this responsibility. This also explains why many men fall off the chain in confession and fall into the trap of confession.
You must learn to express yourself in different ways and to different degrees to avoid the embarrassment that girls can't turn back after rejecting you. Confession follows the principle of "confession ladder", from shallow to deep, so that girls can slowly accept your interest in her.
A statement of interest in girls doesn't have to say "I love you" all at once. It can be changed to a subtle statement at first. For example, "your eyes are beautiful" and "I think you are a kind-hearted girl" are relatively shallow statements of interest, which will not cause any pressure and embarrassment to girls, that is, your praise for her is also a statement of interest; Compared with shallow interest statements, such as "actually, I think you are an attractive girl" and "I think you have a good personality, and I prefer girls with good personality", you will express that you are more interested in girls; As for the statement of interests such as "I like you" and "be my girlfriend", it is the clearest expression and the top confession of "confession steps".
The directness of interest statement depends on the degree to which girls are attracted. If girls are completely attracted to you, you can express your feelings in the clearest way, which will quickly improve your relationship, but it is generally not recommended to express the clearest statement of interest to girls. Reverse confession means that a girl is interested in herself, so as to express your interest in her.
Its principle is to presuppose the girl's interest intention, plus a reason to let the other party rationalize their thinking. "Actually, I think you like me, or you don't hate me. I believe you won't meet people you hate. "
Is a good example, of course, the premise here is that girls don't hate you being attracted to you. Response: If the confession is successful, it shows that she is willing to take the responsibility of loving, then you can enjoy a new relationship.
If the confession is unsuccessful, don't pay attention to the girl's reaction, don't be influenced by the negative emotions after the girl's rejection, and try again in the attraction link. Don't ask girls "Why?" Originally, the girl didn't think about the specific reasons, but because of your questioning, she needs to find a reason to rationalize you and herself. Once she finds it, she must be consistent.
First, boys say hello to girls! Dude, I've been there before. I went through your stage. It's really interesting and tangled. Let's listen to my partner. After reading your situation, I analyzed it. In this world, if you want to pursue women successfully! Can't use the conventional method! Especially now, you all have a misunderstanding. You all want to confess what's wrong with you, and then wait for others to confess and "admit". Am I right? It's easy to fail, brother.
Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. Actually, you can kiss her first. She's confessing! This way, the other person is fresh and exciting, and if it is the first kiss, it will be even more dead set! Now you must chase the children quickly and accurately, I mean the most important thing. Then, listen to me. I will call you word for word. You cann't play cards according to the routine The logic of chasing girls as usual is outdated! Let me tell you about my experience and my understanding.
I hope it helps you! ! My experience: If you like a girl, calm down first and don't think too much. Then, what you have to do is to find opportunities to get familiar with him slowly when everyone is active together.
Be careful, you don't always go around her, people will resent it. What you have to do is to become excellent and increase capital in all aspects. For example, playing the piano, dancing street dance, computer programming, what other good singing skills, beautiful writing, calligraphy, these, of course, the most important thing is career! ! ! Do your own business well and make more money. If students study well, then your attention will be high.
The competitiveness is also great! I sincerely share my experience, I hope you can learn the essence from it! In a word, more haste, less speed, more haste, more distance, step by step, and finally win her heart! Without teachers around her, you have to accumulate capital! You know, women don't like people who walk around her all day! Your next step is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with him, so that you two can become good friends who tell everything. Finally, at some point, when there are fewer people, you will.
4.365 sentences for my girlfriend 1, can you keep looking for me before you get lonely? I will always be there. Happy birthday!
2, it's cold, I want to send you a coat: the pocket is warm; The collar is called care; Sleeves are considerate; Buttons are called missing; Let this coat accompany you closely through every minute, and be sure to be happy!
Today is your birthday. To congratulate you, all the ladies' toilets and bathrooms are open to you free of charge. Welcome to visit!
4, unforgettable is your pure friendship with me! What is precious is the truth that will never change! Nice to meet you! I present my favorite carnation to wish you a happy birthday.
5, send you a snack: the first floor, considerate! Second floor, care! Third floor, romantic! Fourth floor, warm! Sandwiches, great! I wish you a good mood every day!
6. Send you a cup of juice specially prepared by me, which contains 100cc desire, 200cc of happiness and 300cc of vitality every day. Happy birthday.
7. The moon represents my heart, and sincere friendship will never be forgotten; Let everything bring you sweet feelings and endless happiness; Every extraordinary blessing is sent to your heart, and I deeply bless you whenever and wherever.