Are you disappointed that the teacher of the calligraphy competition didn't choose your child?

In this case, I personally feel that parents are lost, indicating that parents are fragile enough. How can we make children strong? 1. If parents are immature, how can children grow up? Performing programs is a child's business, and parents have lost them. If the child realizes it, it will increase the pressure on the child! 2. When this happens, the first task is to see if the child's mood is stable.

If my children's mood is not affected, I am also very happy to enjoy Children's Day and enjoy the program as an audience. I may be more gratified that my children's own sense of value is not based on other people's evaluation, or my children are not affected by adult evaluation. If the child is depressed, parents should actively do a good job in the emotional transformation of the child.

I will join my children to see what we can do to celebrate our festival. Or in the performance, take the initiative to apply for logistics, will explain the importance of logistics to children, and after completing the task, affirm and encourage children's performance in time. 3. communicate with the teacher. When choosing a program, the teacher must have his own ideas, see how the teacher chooses, actively communicate with the teacher and find out the advantages of the child. In this way, children can participate in tailor-made projects even if they are not selected as small actors in most programs in the future. Of course, this may require parents to make more efforts.

However, in order to build children's confidence, parents should pay more attention. I am the mother of an 8-year-old boy and a 1 year-old girl. I used to be a teacher. Here I will record my parenting experience, parent-child reading experience and growth thinking to share with you. Welcome to pay attention to my headline number @ Chen Guang Xiao Wei. Welcome to leave a message, communicate and grow together.