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Learn to appreciate
The calm sea is beautiful, it gives people a sense of tranquility and tranquility, the rough sea is also beautiful, it makes people feel The spirit of the stormy waves crashing on the shore. The same thing and the same thing, it gives people a completely different feeling depending on your perspective. When you look at people or things with appreciation, you will see advantages; but when you look at problems with criticism, you will see countless shortcomings.
Zhuge Liang can be said to be a gifted man, and it stands to reason that a gifted man should be paired with a beautiful woman. However, it is said that his wife was very ugly, but very talented. It was her who taught Zhuge Liang the wooden cow and flowing horse. Zhuge Liang didn't pick on her appearance, he admired her talent.
Han Hong is a famous Tibetan singer. Her appearance is not outstanding. No one would call her a beauty, but she became famous for her singing skills. We won't pick on her figure, because we appreciate her beautiful voice and her musical talent.
Quasimodo in "The Hunchback of Notre Dame" is ugly, but he has penetrated into the hearts of many readers. No one cares about his appearance. What we appreciate is his integrity and kindness, as well as his great spirit of dedication to love.
Maybe it is not easy to truly see people or things with appreciation. We will inevitably be swayed by our own emotions, which will blind our eyes. We may forget to appreciate the advantages of our friends because of the disputes with them. At this time, the friends in your eyes are so selfish and ruthless; we may forget their care for us because of the conflicts with our relatives. and care, your loved ones are so far away in your heart at this moment. If we change our mentality and perspective, we may find that the words of friends are actually advice to you, and that the differences between relatives and your opinions are out of concern for you. So to learn to appreciate, you can't let the cloud of emotion blind your eyes.
Roses are thorny, but they symbolize beautiful love.
The continuous rainy weather is annoying, but the rain nourishes the growth of plants.
Winter is cold and dry, but the winter snow protects the seeds waiting for buds under the snow.
Learn to appreciate, and you will find how beautiful and pleasing the things around you are.
Appreciate yourself
And Andy Lau's lyrics once warmed my heart like a ray of winter sunshine, "Live your true self". In that period, I almost lost my life due to failure. In the days of sinking, it was this sentence that ignited the latent energy in my heart and gave me the courage and goal to forge ahead again. "My true style" - When a person walks in this world, he must have his own unique and brilliant style! Even if it is as fleeting as a shooting star or as short-lived as dewdrops, as long as there is a little bit of your own brilliance, let it be released in the journey of life.
When Li Bai was frustrated and frustrated, he groaned in a masturbation-style poem "I am born to be useful", but it also allowed him to see clearly his "true style" and a unique character in the face of failure. self. Yes, everyone should clearly understand themselves, and they should appreciate themselves with the spirit of worshiping gods. Li Bai did it. Only in the state of self-appreciation can he have the talent of "a hundred poems about drinking wine".
Even a tiny ant can carry objects that are several times or even dozens of times heavier than its weight; even a withered yellow leaf can dance gracefully and dizzyingly in the breeze. Purpose dance; no matter how insignificant you are, you still have a unique and beautiful light among all living beings. Buddha said: "One sand makes a world, one tree makes a Bodhi." The old man said: "A dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and the mouse's son can dig holes."
"Who can say that you are not unique when you come into this world? There is no aspect worthy of admiration and pride? "Reader" magazine once introduced such a story: Two strong frogs were trapped in a well. Finally, ask God to save them. God said there are two ways. One is to give you a pair of wings to fly out of this well, but you will never be able to fall to the ground and cannot stop; the other is to help you train your jumping skills to jump out of this well. well, but it would take ten years. The two frogs made different choices. The result: the frog with wings soon died of exhaustion due to being unable to land; and the frog who chose the second method died of exhaustion. People who successfully jump out of the well and become stronger later may end up falling into the quagmire of failure just like the poor frog. This is the case for Handan's toddlers, and it's the same for Xi Shi's students... They don't know the "uniqueness" of their existence in this world, so they can't appreciate their unique selves, and they can only fail in blind imitation. This is especially true for a nation. “What belongs to the nation belongs to the world. "This truth is increasingly recognized by the world. If you lose your own nation's individuality, you will lose your status in the international community. Only by knowing how to appreciate the advantages and characteristics of your own nation can you continue to develop yourself.
The reason why I am me is that I have my shape and my god. Picasso said: "You are the sun. "This is not a wild thought, nor is it a crazy talk. This is an independent thinker's appreciation and praise of himself. Appreciating oneself is the excavation and discovery of oneself, and it is the motivation to develop oneself and realize oneself. Don't be depressed or frustrated when you fail. Perish, because those who know how to appreciate themselves will not let the clouds of failure obscure their unique brilliance; they will not be complacent or arrogant when they succeed, because those who know how to appreciate themselves know that the fruit of success is the morning light that they should bloom. A wisp.
Appreciation is a kind of understanding and communication, which also includes trust and affirmation; appreciation is also a kind of encouragement and guidance, which can make people grow and progress healthily. Everyone on the Internet longs for the appreciation of others. Likewise, everyone should learn to appreciate others. Learning to appreciate is a kind of love. Only when people appreciate each other can the world be filled with love! p>
When Taiwanese writer Lin Qingxuan was working as a reporter, he once reported on a thief who had a very delicate crime method and committed thousands of crimes, but was caught for the first time. At the end of the article, he couldn't help but sigh: "It's like this." He is a thief who is meticulous, has such dexterous techniques, and has such a unique style, and he is also so gentle and elegant. If you don't become a thief, you will be successful in any profession! "Unexpectedly, this sentence he wrote unintentionally 20 years ago has affected a young man's life. Now, the thief back then is the boss of several mutton stove restaurants in Taiwan! In a chance encounter, this man The boss sincerely said to Lin Qingxuan: "The feature article written by Mr. Lin broke the blind spots in my life and made me think, why didn't I think of doing something legitimate besides being a thief? "From then on, he was reborn and started a new life. Looking back, if it weren't for Lin Qingxuan's "appreciation" and hope for the thief back then, I'm afraid he wouldn't have the career and achievements he has today. It's not difficult to see how important appreciation is to life. Ah!
Appreciation is a kind of understanding and communication, which also includes trust and affirmation; appreciation is also a kind of encouragement and guidance, which can make people grow and progress healthily. Everyone desires the appreciation of others. Likewise, everyone should learn to appreciate others. Learning to appreciate is a kind of love. Only when people appreciate each other can the world be filled with love! >
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Experience life
A cup of tea needs to be tasted carefully to taste the coolness and bitterness of the tea. But after the bitterness is over, the lingering fragrance will be in your mouth, which is very refreshing. Endless aftertaste. The same is true in life, full of sour and sweet, and every taste needs to be experienced with our heart and brain.
The sourness in life is undoubtedly a sad thing. Everyone will experience these things. The confusion and helplessness between friends, being deceived and tricked by others, will make everyone feel sad. At that moment, an indescribable taste will come to my heart. This taste is sour and astringent.
I remember when I was in the third grade of elementary school, I had a very good friend. It goes without saying that I had to go to the toilet with him every day. In elementary school, every time it snows, the principal puts up a warning sign, telling students to be careful when slipping. In the snow, we played wildly together, not caring whether we would fall or not. We were jogging and having snowball fights along the way. We had so much fun. But accidentally, she held the hard thing in her hand for a long time, and it seemed that it was already knotted. The big snowballs of ice were like a flying grenade on the "sacred" warning sign, and the warning sign fell on the iron pole behind like a light reed! Now I was dumbfounded, and she looked at me with wide eyes. What should I do? With an uneasy heart, we slowly walked into the classroom without anyone saying a word. But after all, I was reported. In the director's office, my mind went blank. I just heard her say: Director? It turns out, that? She accidentally hit that sign. Was she careless? She kept repeating that I didn't? Be careful, and I was like a frightened little mouse without saying a word. I just felt that there was a sour air that made me uncomfortable, even suffocating me. I wanted to cry but couldn't. , in front of the director, I did not make any more "quibbles" and lowered my head. I couldn't hear clearly what the director said. I just kept nodding my head. Later, the school deducted 3 points from the class for damaging public property. As for her, we could not help but distance ourselves from each other. The indescribable sourness is still fresh in my memory.
Life is not only filled with sourness, but sweetness is also everywhere. In fact, sweetness is a warm current that melts into the heart, a burst of pleasant laughter, and an exciting singing of love. It makes people experience the beauty and loveliness of life.
This year’s winter vacation was really enjoyable, because I tasted sweetness again, and looking back, I will be beautiful for a while.
09 years ago, my mother and I went to buy new clothes together. As we walked on the road, I felt so happy that I had to give my mother a hard blow. Normally, my mother You are really stingy. The money is like a treasure. I just can’t bear to part with it. You won’t be able to take care of your clothes this year, I thought as I walked. There are people coming and going in the shopping mall, all vying to pick out clothes, so there is no idle time. I looked around, my eyes fixed, but I didn't expect such a scene in this bustling street: an old lady in ragged and thin clothes, with messy hair and purple face, half-leaning on the steps silently, with people coming and going on the road. , but no one paid attention to the old man who was shivering with cold. I pulled my mother’s sleeve and motioned for her to look there. My mother didn’t say anything and took me in that direction. My mother looked at the old man. The woman then turned around and walked to a stall and bought 4 hot cannabis flowers. She put them in the old woman's hands without saying anything. Then, her mother took out 100 yuan from her pocket and put it in the hands of the old woman. In the tattered pocket of the person, the old woman may have been frozen. She didn't say a word, she just looked at her mother, her eyes full of tears that didn't overflow. Wow, my heart suddenly felt warm. In this big winter, a hint of sweetness?
Life is colorful. People often say that life is like a bottle of five-flavored jar, which is overturned. , the ups and downs, the bitterness and the spicy are all in it, all kinds of tastes, experience is the main thing. If you don’t experience it with your heart, how can you know the tastes of life?
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New [de] feeling in junior high school
19531110-02 Reposted by: Yi Liang people
I remember seeing a famous It is the "Second Starting Line" [de] television program for middle school students. At that time, when I was still in elementary school, I really didn’t understand what “the second starting line” meant. Now, after entering middle school, I understand this profound meaning.
Indeed, middle school is the second starting line in life. Standing on this starting line, you will have a new feeling.
When I picked up my schoolbag and stepped into the middle school for the first time, facing the unfamiliar campus and the brand-new faces of my classmates and teachers, I felt a sense of freshness. Feelings arise spontaneously. However, I was a little confused and at a loss. Because everything around me means that I want to start my new life in this new environment with my new classmates.
Interesting things in the dormitory
From the first day of school, we began to live a strict and regular military life. Get up at 6:30 every day and do early exercise... until you turn off the lights and go to bed at 10 p.m. The dormitory has naturally become our second home. The fast-paced study life leaves no chance to breathe. Many of the trivial matters in life that I didn’t previously have to worry about have to be done by myself. Even after evening self-study and going to bed, I still have no peace - I still have to deal with those nasty mosquitoes.
One summer night, I didn’t tie up the mosquito net properly. A mosquito took advantage of the situation and buzzed in my ears, making it really difficult to sleep. At first, I was too lazy to deal with it, so I simply "learned" from Mr. Lu Xun and covered my whole body with a towel and blanket. But the mosquitoes refused to give up and continued to fly around me while blowing their horns. I was irritated by the provocation of the mosquitoes, so I sat up and tied the mosquito net tightly. I thought: Huh, you can't run away this time, let me try to "close the door and beat the dog". I turned on the flashlight and shined it on the mosquito net and the wall. ah! Damn [de] guy is parked on my [de] mosquito net! Very leisurely. I gently raised my hand and slapped the mosquito fiercely, hoo! It was too late, but by that time, the abominable mosquito had already "died to the west". I was so dissatisfied. At this time, I only heard Li Wen from the upper bunk shouting: "Jane (my English name), what are you doing? There is almost an earthquake here!" I listened and laughed to myself. After a while, he turned over and fell asleep again. Ah, I can "sit back and relax" this time. Thinking about the past, I didn't have to do things like dealing with mosquitoes myself, but now, it's really not easy to do it by myself! And it was during this period of living in junior high school that I experienced many new things, which brought me infinite fun!
The edge between lips and teeth
There are many activities in the school, and most of them are organized by the students themselves. "Karaoke" competitions, "Christmas parties", and "table tennis games" are like wisps of fresh air filling our lives. The most innovative and unforgettable debate was the equally powerful and exciting debate.
In the expectant eyes of the audience, a handsome female classmate walked onto the podium. She was the chairperson of the debate. The chairperson was very graceful, greeted the audience slightly, and then began to host the debate. "Hello, classmates..." After a while, the students were attracted by the clever eloquence. "Repeat again, today's debate question is, 'Can the examination reflect a person's true level'. Now let's ask the affirmative to explain the affirmative's point of view." As the chairman's words fell, the debate began It's officially started. Students from both sides expressed their opinions, which seemed very convincing. The students in the audience also nodded from time to time to express their agreement, and it was difficult to tell the winner. Then, the free debate began, with students from both sides facing each other tit for tat, neither willing to be outdone. Some of their speeches were eloquent and eloquent; some of them were short, concise and to the point; some of them were red-faced and moved people with their emotions; some of them spoke eloquently and convinced people with their reasoning. The audience also burst into warm applause from time to time, cheering for the players.
At this time, the four opposing parties spoke. He stood up calmly and said in an passionate tone: "The wheel of history is rolling forward, and exam-oriented education will be replaced by quality education. , This is something that no force can stop..." Before he finished speaking, there was already overwhelming applause from the audience, and the students unanimously cast approving glances at him. Only then did I realize how cute my new partner was. [de]Indeed, debates have never been held in primary school, and this kind of active thinking can only be acquired after entering junior high school!
Foreign[de]Friends
The classroom for junior high school students is also colorful[de]. In addition to Chinese, mathematics and other subjects, a new main course of foreign language is also added. The courses with foreign teachers are very interesting and lively, which makes people feel particularly brand-new. Our foreign teacher's name is "Aaron", and he is a humorous "Yankee". But he never regarded himself as an American, and he became good friends with his classmates as soon as they met. I remember that the first time he taught us a lesson coincided with his 23rd birthday. The classmates bought him a bouquet of flowers and he was very happy. He told us about his experiences in China. We couldn't understand [de], so he made some gestures to remind us. From his tone, everyone can feel that he has infinite respect for the great country of China. When he talked about the Tang Dynasty, we asked him if he knew "Yang Guifei", and he replied, "Very beautiful woman" "(Beautiful [de] woman), and when asked about "Wu Zetian", he had no way of knowing. In such kind conversations, we have enhanced our understanding and friendship with each other, and our English proficiency has also improved by leaps and bounds. We have to thank this foreign teacher, and we have to thank this foreign teacher class that has never happened before!
The new life in junior high school has given me a completely new mental outlook. I am no longer the ignorant child I used to be, but have become a person who knows how to take care of myself, is self-reliant, and has my own self. Thinking and will[de]Junior high school student!
I can’t help but deeply realize that junior high school gives us a new feeling, and junior high school deserves to be the "second starting line" of life.
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Wonderful Chinese
I have been thinking hard about you, the wonderful Chinese in my heart;
I have been pursuing you hard , the wonderful Chinese language in my heart.
You gave me the breeze and the bright moon, you gave me the mountains and water, you gave me the blue sea and the clear sky, you opened up the boundary between me and nature.
Accompanying you, Tao Yuanming’s chrysanthemums decorate the hazy Nanshan Mountain, Gong Zizhen’s pieces of falling red turn into soft spring mud, Yan Shu’s wandering alone in the winding path leads to secluded space, Wen Tingyun’s pulse The slanting light of the pulse enveloped the long blue water.
With you, the poetic life is cultivated into the most beautiful countryside. The traveler who puts the white deer among the green cliffs has a lot of wine in his chest, seven parts of it turns into moonlight, and the remaining three parts , spit out from the embroidery mouth, it is half of the prosperous Tang Dynasty; the jackdaws that picked up all the cold branches but could not live in them, holding green awn sticks, on the night of "the sparse moon hangs the Xiaotong", lamented that the great rivers go eastward, not for the "meager profit of a fly" ", Wojiao's false name" touched him, he only wished that the sea would help him for the rest of his life; the prodigal son in the setting sun above the building, in the sound of broken bells, on one side were the dead vines and old trees, on the ancient road westerly wind, on the other side was "BMW's carvings and cars filling the road with fragrance", but he only wanted to do The beauty of "the dimly lit place".
Because of a failure, I sat and thought about it, tossing and turning; once because of a gain or loss, I was worried and frowned for a thousand times; once because of an encounter, I was exhausted and sad. So, after reading Liu Yong and reading Lin Qingxuan, I read several meaningful and elegant short essays, each word is exquisite, and the fragrance of Zen makes me cling to a peaceful heart and look at the short life.
You let me have the mood of "picking chrysanthemums on the east fence and drinking wine on the south mountain", "sit and watch the clouds rise, walk to the waterless place", admire "the flowers and trees in the Zen room, and the winding paths leading to secluded places", Appreciate "the setting sun under the lotus hat, the green mountains are far away", and recall "the yellow plum season, the chess pieces and the lanterns".
It was you who made me transform into the colorful butterfly in Zhuang Zhou's dream, dancing happily in the clear clouds and clear wind; it was you who made me transform into the wandering clouds and wild cranes in the shepherd boy's piccolo, flying in the sky without any restraints. You have simplified my life, filtered out the impurities in my thoughts, and brought peace to my mind. I retreated to the countryside where "the doves sing in spring on the house, and the apricot blossoms beside the village are white."
The wonderful you are like the phoenix tree after the drizzle, washing away the glitz and revealing the green. In a leisurely afternoon, at sunset, I read you with my eyes, read you with my heart, and read endless wonderful Chinese!
Wonderful music
Gently, open a window; quietly, sip a sip of tea. Turning the button, I enjoy wonderful music with the breeze outside the window and the aroma of tea!
Listening to the majestic mountains, the gurgling water, and the rhythm of the seven-stringed guqin made Boya and Ziqi become close friends in life. They searched for the melancholy strings and plucked beautiful songs one after another. , tells a story about old love.
The moving lives of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai also add charm and brilliance to this music. Listening to it, people can't help but trace back to that poignant love, and be fascinated by that graceful dance of butterflies. The balcony where so much longing has been poured into... After turning around, "Butterfly Lovers" has become the strongest voice that does not succumb to feudal ethics.
A Bing’s life is no longer lonely because of “Two Springs”, and the foundation of “Two Springs” is no longer ordinary because of A Bing’s persistence. Under the sky, on the edge of Taihu Lake, a blind man was playing the piano and melancholy, using his sad music to accuse the darkness of society and denounce the indifference of people's hearts. "Two Springs" makes A Bing's sad eyes burst out with perseverance and strength!
Stopping in the palace of national music, my heavy heart seems to release the elegance of spring white snow and the majesty of Huang Zhongdalu... The music changes one after another, and the excitement continues——
Feel Chopin's unique soul, pouring out his patriotic tenderness; feel Beethoven's magical hands, composing pastoral songs and hitting the door of destiny; feel Tchaikovsky driving a Russian carriage by the quiet lake Stop and watch the swans dance; feel Schubert's lonely figure under the Bodhi tree on his wandering journey...
Bach's fugue, romantic and elegant, reflects the distant Baroque era and bursts with excitement. It shows the heritage of ancient civilization; Berlioz's Fantasia, unrestrained and unrestrained, introduces fashion into classics, unruliness into order, and personality into tradition; Schumann's Serenade is quiet and leisurely, soothing on an undisturbed night. Your restless soul, kiss your sad cheek gently, let your soul integrate with nature, and enjoy a complete life!
Listen, listen, Pavarotti's high pitch, Sarah Brightman's softness - ha, that's the sound of nature!
Wandering in the holy land of foreign music, what I feel is a kind of culture and spirit, revealing a deep love for music!
Wonderful music can purify the soul and enlighten life!
The breeze is still blowing outside the window, and the fragrance of the tea is still flowing... My friend, feel this wonderful music, let it color your dim soul, and let it add color to your ordinary life!
Wonderful moments
Before that, I always thought that life was dull; before that, I always thought that there was a lack of excitement in life; before that, I always thought that everything in life was dull. Moments are easy to recall; before that, I always thought that I came to this world just to fulfill a task; before that, I always thought that having life was just to wait for death... But after that, everything about me My thoughts have changed, just because of that wonderful moment.
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Youth is the most beautiful thing in life, like the morning of the day, the spring of the four seasons, like the rising sun about to burst out, like the flowers in bud, like the horses galloping on the grassland, Like an eagle spreading its wings in the blue sky, like a tiger roaring in the forest.
Youth is an age full of hope and longing. How many seeds of hope must be sown in spring, and how many beautiful dreams must be realized in youth. Weave garlands with ideals and beliefs, and build ideal buildings with hope and courage.
If you don't plant the seeds of hope in your youth, regret will accompany you every moment of your life.
Youth is full of energy, bravery overwhelms timidity, and progress overwhelms peace. Youth is sweat, youth is blood, and youth is the source of life.
Embracing youth means embracing ideals, beliefs, hopes and courage, as well as embracing passion, dreams, romance and imagination. Life is short, youth is like dew in the morning, it disappears without a trace when the sun comes out. Don't hesitate, don't hesitate, light the lamp of your ideals quickly, pick up the sail of faith, hold on to the present hand tightly, and work hard. Don't wait until tomorrow, don't wait until you lose your youth to pursue your ideals, that will only bring you endless regrets. You know, the boat of regret cannot carry many sorrows.
Embrace youth, use youth to create your own brilliant tomorrow, sweep out the darkness trapped in your heart, and let life dance with your steps. Innovation is the ladder of one's progress. Without innovation, life has no vitality. Adolescence is the best period of life for innovation. Give full play to your intellectual potential and let your life blossom into strange flowers during adolescence.
Embrace youth! Let the seven-color dream decorate your future road, blow a piccolo, pick up a sprig of osmanthus, and move forward toward the glorious horizon in the distance
If life is colorful, then youth must be the most gorgeous among them. A touch of life; if life is a blend of movement and stillness, then youth must be the most energetic part of it.
Brilliantly like the veil of the rising sun, elegantly like a lily on the side of the cliff, passionately like a red rose, exuding a sultry fragrance. She - I was so fascinated.
We invite you to our dance party. You use your beautiful voice and healthy body to drive away the silence and ignite enthusiasm. Our society also needs you, your strong energy, your intelligence, your selfless dedication, so that the world can be bright and people's hearts can be clear. Our scientific and technological progress needs you. Your persistence in victory, your incomparable confidence in yourself and your unremitting efforts have helped us advance civilization.
Because of you, we no longer retreat in front of the chasm of life; because of you, we always have the strength to struggle on the edge of falling; because of you, in the ups and downs full of thorns On the way, we always have the sunshine of victory shining in our hearts; because of you, at the trough of failure, we give ourselves another chance.
Without you, there would be no human footprints on Mount Everest; without you, there would be no green figure stationed on the Tibetan Plateau for many years; without you, the human team would be like a blunt head. arrow. I really can’t imagine how silent and boring the world would be without you.
We don’t need your wisdom, your experience and your profound and rational vision. We only need your enthusiasm, fearlessness and drive to set sail on our sailing ship; we only need your perseverance and tenacity to sail towards the future. Challenge the storms and waves until they are defeated.
Don’t blame yourself for being frivolous, that is the brightest mark of youth; don’t feel inferior about your shallowness, after years of polishing, you will gain full of wisdom and experience.
But don’t indulge your desires. It is like a whirlpool and will turn you into a bottomless abyss. True youth should learn to master the direction.
I found a few examples of each, take a look, I hope it can help you o(∩_∩)o...