If you want to be a qualified lady, you must first maintain a quiet and introverted image in the traditional sense.
Dress in simple and elegant colors and dress as formal dress. You see, at some awards parties, female stars all wear dresses, and skirts are the most formal dress for women. In addition, be sure to pay attention to the length of the skirt. If conditions permit, we should wear a skirt two centimeters above our knees. Too long will give people a sense of procrastination, too short is not stable enough.
Make-up with fresh and elegant colors, you can't help making up! Pay attention to this, especially in formal occasions, because it shows your respect for others, so don't be careless!
If a lady walks fast or slow, the distance of one step is about two and a half feet long, which is about forty centimeters.
Eating is the best time to show ladylike temperament. Some people think that you are a lady as long as you eat slowly and less. Actually, this is the right thing. It is very important for a lady to eat quietly! ! Some people chew with their mouths open, which is quite unsightly. In addition, when you eat in public, no matter how big your appetite is, you can't eat it all, so leave some. And when eating Chinese food, you can't always pick your favorite dishes and eat hard without looking up. You can put as much as you want on your plate, but it's too hot to blow. If you are hot, you can drink it later.
Ladies should speak appropriately, don't say what they think, be a good listener and a kind spokesperson, and never interrupt others.
When a guest shakes hands, it doesn't matter who reaches out first. Generally, elders and senior people reach out first, and the strength of shaking hands should be appropriate. Improper shaking hands will cause some misunderstandings, such as squeezing each other's hands hard to show disrespect for each other and so on.
A woman's seat should be judged according to the height of the chair. If the chair is high, her legs should be straight at 90 degrees, or her legs can be tilted slightly to the left or right. If the chair is short, her legs can be crossed and tilted to prevent exposure.
Make-up: If you need to make up lipstick and foundation, go to the bathroom or no one's place, and don't make up in public in front of others, especially at the dining table and negotiation place.
Dressing: Clothes are slightly wrinkled or contaminated with dust. When you are alone, you can wash clothes, brush off dust or smooth small wrinkles. But if the polluted area is large, it must be cleaned in the bathroom. If the underwear sling slips, you can't adjust the underwear from outside the clothes in public.
Seating: Before you sit down, put your skirt in front of you by hand. After sitting firmly, the body generally only occupies two-thirds of the seat, and the knees and feet should be close together.
Get off: First of all, open the car door, put your feet out of the car door at a 45-degree angle, step on it hard, and then gradually move your body center of gravity up. This is not only steady and decent, but also makes people have infinite reverie. Never stick your head out as soon as you open the car door, as if the driver had thrown it out.
Standing posture: the standard standing posture requires chest and abdomen, shoulders flush and arms drooping naturally. Legs together, toes open about 60 degrees, or feet shoulder width. When you are tired of standing, your feet can retreat half a step, but your upper body must be vertical.
◆ A woman's hairstyle should be beautiful and generous. What needs special attention is that when women choose hairpins or hair bands, their style should be solemn and generous.
◆ In formal business occasions, women's facial decoration should be based on light makeup, not heavy makeup, and not without makeup at all.
◆ When women dress in business, the details that need attention are: cleanliness and neatness. When women dress, they need to strictly distinguish between professional suits, evening dresses and casual clothes, which are essentially different. When wearing a formal suit, you should try to avoid clothes that are collarless, sleeveless, too tight or have a low neckline. The style of clothes should fit as well as possible.
◆ When choosing * * * and leather shoes, ladies should pay attention to the following details: the length of * * * must be higher than the hem of the skirt. Leather shoes should try to avoid too high or too thin heels.
When choosing what to wear, ladies should pay attention that the purpose of business etiquette is to show respect for others. Ornaments such as rings should be avoided as much as possible. Essential items and men's carrying standards are basically the same.
To be a qualified lady depends on your own efforts. The formation of a lady is long, but it is instantaneous to destroy the image of a lady. Any bad behavior of yours will wipe out your previous efforts. > & gt
Question 2: The main points of a lady's cultivation. The definition of "lady"
A lady bound by China's traditional ethics is not worth advocating, because it obliterates the charm and value that women deserve. The lady we advocate today is a lady who does not lose the value of modern society on the basis of traditional virtues, and is a new woman under the background of new civilization, new culture and new era. Advocating being a lady is better than advocating being a "savage girlfriend" or "being a woman". This is not to say that retro retrogression, anachronism and restraint of individuality, but to make women more individual, attractive and tasteful, and restore their true colors. A lady must first show elegance in temperament.
A lady's taboo
There are no perfect people in the world. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. People always have self-esteem, and often don't want others to touch some of their shortcomings, privacy, unpleasant things, etc. Therefore, in interpersonal relationships, the speaker must be taboo. When the interviewee involves some sensitive and special things, he should think more about the other person.
1. Interrupt others' conversation or grab others' words.
2. Ignoring the use of generalizations will make it difficult for the other party to understand your intentions for a while.
3. Distraction makes others repeat what they have said.
4. Asking questions continuously makes people feel that you are too enthusiastic and demanding to deal with.
Being careless about other people's problems will make people feel that you ignore and despise each other.
6. Explain a phenomenon casually and assert it rashly to show that you are an expert.
7. It is confusing to avoid reality without revealing it.
8. Inappropriately emphasizing some details irrelevant to the theme makes people tired and embarrassed.
9. When others are interested in a topic and you feel impatient, immediately turn the topic to your own interest.
10. Pretend that the correct views and pertinent suggestions are wrong and inappropriate, so that the other party will suspect that there is something ridiculous in your words.
1 1. Physiological defects. To avoid people's physical defects when speaking, we have to use indirect expression. If you politely say to the lame, "Your legs are inconvenient, please sit down first."
12. Family misfortune. Like the death of a loved one, divorce of husband and wife, etc. If it is not mentioned by the parties themselves, it is not appropriate to insist.
13. Shortboard of personnel. The shortcomings, disgraceful experiences and present situation in dealing with people are sensitive points that others don't want to touch.
14. Do as the Romans do. "Entry is forbidden, entry is vulgar, and entry is embarrassing." This is crucial to the success or failure of society.
As a lady, don't think that you are naturally liked. Talking with people and avoiding taboos are actually manifestations of understanding, respect, civilization and cultivation. If we can avoid unhappiness as much as possible, everyone will be happy.
Facts have proved that Shu * * *, charming talk, helps to socialize, helps to reflect the beauty of a lady's personality and adds a little beauty to her beauty.
Now let's see what taboos a woman has made in her usual speech-2, 3, 7. It doesn't seem too bad. There is still the possibility of carving. However, these points are fatal to me, purely because of my personality, and the difficulty of training is no different from that of a fool moving mountains and catching up.
First of all, analyze them one by one:
Taboo 1: ignore the use of general methods and make it difficult for the other party to understand your intentions for a while.
Because my induction is stronger than deduction, I can only give a summary at the end. However, the induction is not accurate enough, and it is often "anticlimactic", "seriously off topic" and even "unable to justify itself". Generally speaking, as the boss described it, "the theme is not clear and the logic is a bit confusing." For example, the opening words give people a sense of readiness, but the result is ... ". Hehe, what a sharp eye. So I still don't understand how the first argumentative essay I wrote in the second grade was regarded as a model essay by Sister Ying Hai, and how the logic in the second grade was excellent. ...
Taboo 2: daydreaming makes others repeat what they have said.
This one is the most obvious, and it seems that I enjoy it and never even feel wrong. But there is one difference. I'm not distracted, because in fact, in most cases, I heard what others said. I'm just used to playing dumb, or because I don't want to give a response, or because I have other considerations, so I deliberately let others repeat it. Most people will be angry with my attitude and don't want to talk about it any more, so I will be clean and comfortable in the end. On the other hand, if the other party doesn't care ... >>
Question 3: A lady's cultivation plan (detailed) A lady is naturally formed.
Like me … everyone says I'm a lady. These specific angles are not easy to shoot, and the movements are very stiff.
If you want to be a lady.
Show your upper teeth when you laugh. As for how many teeth are exposed and how comfortable they are, generally speaking, the standard is 6 teeth.
As for walking, a lady is not at that fixed angle. As long as she holds her head high, she will feel it.
Don't nod too much, just click 1-2 ... it has nothing to do with the angle. ...
Usually I seldom speak ill of others, and I don't talk much. "Thank you" is always on my lips. I like some girls' hobbies, such as dancing and calligraphy. Of course, I won't give up sports. Versatile girls are the most popular. Listening to music can also affect people's behavior.
Of course, the most important thing is to have a good relationship with others and give people a sense of closeness. Don't ignore others, others will think you are very proud. Always remember modesty.
This is my experience, I don't know if it's right.
In short, a lady can be summed up in one word-gentleness.
Question 4: How to cultivate ladylike temperament? You can be tolerant, understanding, kind, calm and calm. Don't make a hullabaloo about when you encounter problems, don't jump around, don't trust others, have your own opinions on everything, and be brave enough to believe in yourself. In fact, a lady is from the heart, and the so-called kindness is beautiful. Don't be too rude to walk and eat. Of course, don't be too tight, and don't be too deliberate, which will make you look fake. Just remember these rules. All actions are based on nature. I believe I can cultivate a lady's temperament!
Question 5: How can I train myself to be a lady? Everyone is born with a natural personality. Don't deliberately change radish and cabbage.
Question 6: It is too easy for girls to cultivate ladies. I have such a book, but it is a long process and needs to be adhered to.
Question 7:/kloc-How can a 0/4-year-old lady cultivate a poetic spirit and flatter herself? Reading more books must be of great benefit to the cultivation of good temperament. Of course, we can't just talk about romance and martial arts novels. Some books should be recommended, such as Pride and Prejudice and Watch. At the same time, we should pay attention to current news and think more.
Pay attention to making friends with high-quality peers.
Parents' support and cooperation are indispensable. Children should be provided with better study and living conditions.
Travel and see more places in the world.
You can try an instrument, such as violin, piano, flute, guzheng, pipa or dance.
For reference only.
Question 8: A woman's development plan. Ladies are naturally formed, just like me … everyone says I am a lady. These specific angles are not easy to shoot, and the movements are very stiff. If you want to be a lady ... when you smile, you will show your upper teeth. As for how much you show and how comfortable you are, generally speaking, the standard is 6 teeth. As for walking, a lady has no fixed angle. As long as she holds her head high, she will feel nodding. Don't nod too much. Just click 1-2 ... This has nothing to do with the angle ... I seldom speak ill of others, and I don't talk much. "Thank you" is always on my lips. I like some girls' hobbies, such as dancing and calligraphy. Of course, I won't give up sports. Versatile girls are the most popular. Listening to music can also affect people's behavior. Of course, the most important thing is to have a good relationship with others and give people a sense of closeness. Don't ignore others, others will think you are very proud. Always remember modesty. This is my experience. I don't know if it's right. In short, a lady can be summed up in one word-gentleness.
Question 9: How to train a woman from a man to a lady is mainly about temperament, dress and temper.
Question 10: How to train ladies? What do I need? Let me talk about my understanding and thoughts first. Some may not be specific enough. Please forgive me.
If you want to be a qualified lady, you must first maintain a quiet and introverted image in the traditional sense.
Dress in simple and elegant colors and dress as formal dress. You see, at some awards parties, female stars all wear dresses, and skirts are the most formal dress for women. In addition, be sure to pay attention to the length of the skirt. If conditions permit, we should wear a skirt two centimeters above our knees. Too long will give people a sense of procrastination, too short is not stable enough.
Make-up with fresh and elegant colors, you can't help making up! Pay attention to this, especially in formal occasions, because it shows your respect for others, so don't be careless!
If a lady walks fast or slow, the distance of one step is about two and a half feet long, which is about forty centimeters.
Eating is the best time to show ladylike temperament. Some people think that you are a lady as long as you eat slowly and less. Actually, this is the right thing. It is very important for a lady to eat quietly! ! Some people chew with their mouths open, which is quite unsightly. In addition, if they eat in public, no matter how big they eat, there should be some left over. And when eating Chinese food, you can't always pick your favorite dishes and eat hard without looking up. Put it on your own plate as much as you eat, and you won't be able to blow it if you drink too much. If you feel hot, you can wear it for a while.
Ladies should speak appropriately, don't say what they think, be a good listener and a kind spokesperson, and never interrupt others.
When a guest shakes hands, it doesn't matter who reaches out first. Generally, elders and senior people reach out first, and the strength of shaking hands should be appropriate. Improper shaking hands will cause some misunderstandings, such as squeezing each other's hands hard to show disrespect for each other and so on.
A woman's seat should be judged according to the height of the chair. If the chair is high, her legs should be straight at 90 degrees, or her legs can be tilted slightly to the left or right. If the chair is short, her legs can be crossed and tilted to prevent exposure.
Make-up: If you need to make up lipstick and foundation, go to the bathroom or no one's place, and don't make up in public in front of others, especially at the dining table and negotiation place.
Dressing: Clothes are slightly wrinkled or contaminated with dust. When you are alone, you can wash clothes, brush off dust or smooth small wrinkles. But if the polluted area is large, it must be cleaned in the bathroom. If the underwear sling slips, you can't adjust the underwear from outside the clothes in public.
Seating: Before you sit down, put your skirt in front of you by hand. After sitting firmly, the body generally only occupies two-thirds of the seat, and the knees and feet should be close together.
Get off: First of all, open the car door, put your feet out of the car door at a 45-degree angle, step on it hard, and then gradually move your body center of gravity up. This is not only steady and decent, but also makes people have infinite reverie. Never stick your head out as soon as you open the car door, as if the driver had thrown it out.
Standing posture: the standard standing posture requires chest and abdomen, shoulders flush and arms drooping naturally. Legs together, toes open about 60 degrees, or feet shoulder width. When you are tired of standing, your feet can retreat half a step, but your upper body must be vertical.
◆ A woman's hairstyle should be beautiful and generous. What needs special attention is that when women choose hairpins or hair bands, their style should be solemn and generous.
◆ In formal business occasions, women's facial decoration should be based on light makeup, not heavy makeup, and not without makeup at all.
◆ When women dress in business, the details that need attention are: cleanliness and neatness. When women dress, they need to strictly distinguish between professional suits, evening dresses and casual clothes, which are essentially different. When wearing a formal suit, you should try to avoid clothes that are collarless, sleeveless, too tight or have a low neckline. The style of clothes should fit as well as possible.
◆ When choosing * * * and leather shoes, ladies should pay attention to the following details: the length of * * * must be higher than the hem of the skirt. Leather shoes should try to avoid too high or too thin heels.
When choosing what to wear, ladies should pay attention that the purpose of business etiquette is to show respect for others. Ornaments such as rings should be avoided as much as possible. Essential items and men's carrying standards are basically the same.
To be a qualified lady depends on your own efforts. The formation of a lady is long, but it is instantaneous to destroy the image of a lady. Any bad behavior of yours will wipe out your previous efforts. > & gt