Personally, I think there is no difference in many Buddhist methods of disciples at home. As long as it is good knowledge and good practice, it is acceptable and can be learned.
In addition, no matter what school, the six-degree method is the core. Whether judging yourself or others-giving, keeping precepts, enduring humiliation, diligence, meditation and prajnaparamita.
As for how to practice the six-degree method, you can decide according to your own situation.
For example, in my own situation, I'm not sure if I have the ability to give money and law. Walking in the street, if there are beggars, give some change; Give help when someone asks for help; Writing articles is convenient for people or something. As for precepts, I have only practiced four fundamental precepts myself, which is not commendable. In terms of humiliation, I regard all living beings as the embodiment of Buddha and Bodhisattva. If someone teaches me good knowledge, it will help me improve. If someone accuses or even insults me, it will be considered as helping me repair my humiliation; Being bitten by mosquitoes is also a humiliation. Be kind to them, hoping to smell the Buddha incense, get rid of the heresy, enter the good path of reincarnation and even get rid of the pain of reincarnation. I am very knowledgeable about reading, but I always study hard for the good ones and often look through the classics. Every time I read them, I will have a different realm. In meditation, I do it through calligraphy, drinking tea and meditation. Prajna ... I dare not say there is.
In addition, it is also very meritorious to read "Three Converts" frequently. One is to warn yourself, but not to attract all living beings to listen to the Buddha.
It is good to listen to and read more lectures and books by eminent monks and great virtues. But personally, I feel that it is difficult to correctly understand the enlightenment of the eminent monk without reading the original work first. Therefore, reading the Bible is very necessary.
In addition, going to quiet temples will also be good for learning Buddhism. First, you can feel a sense of tranquility from the world in such a temple; Secondly, this kind of temples are generally due to the asceticism and diligence of monks, and they are often Buddhism. You can feel the majesty of Buddhism and self-nature in such a place. Third, the monks in these temples are also more patient and friendly than those in some temples with more tourists. Ask them about Buddhism, and you will generally get unexpected gains.
As for feeling deeply guilty, of course, it is very good. Repentance can lead to one's own Buddha nature and self-nature. But don't fall into the sins of the past. The most important thing is to cultivate your own peace, break the impermanence of the cave and pay homage to all beings. Believe in your Buddha nature and understand the world with Buddha's heart.
Once again, I salute the great virtue of fellow initiates.