The words that most impress the woman’s parents
The words that most impress the woman’s parents are that marriage is not a child’s play, especially for the woman’s parents, leaving their daughter to a reliable partner Only parents can rest assured, so how a man impresses the girl's parents is very important. Here are some of the words I collected that are most able to impress the girl's parents. Let's take a look. The words that most impress the girl’s parents 1
1. Uncles and aunts, please feel free to leave your daughter to me. I can give her a warm and loving harbor and a home that truly belongs to me. It's not easy for her to feel the slightest sense of urgency. I will definitely work hard, because from the moment I am with her, I know what responsibility is, so please believe in yourself, I will definitely take good care of your daughter.
2. In this happiest moment, first of all, I would like to thank you all for your hard work in taking care of her for more than 20 years, allowing me to meet her who is healthy and safe. I believe that she will be with you in these 20 years. She is living a good life under the protection of my mother. I ask my uncle and aunt to believe that in the future life, I can make her live happily and comfortably every day and not let her suffer even a little bit. Ever since I met her, I knew she was the one I wanted to love for the rest of my life, and I would still be waiting for her for a long time.
3. Today is the most important and exciting moment in my life. Uncle and aunt, I promise you that from now on I will work hard to make her happy and not allow her to endure hardship. Please be strict. Supervise me strictly. I will definitely cherish her well. No matter what life challenges may come in the future, our love will never fall to the ground easily.
If you sincerely want to marry your girlfriend, and you will treat her well after marriage, then her parents can see it, and they don’t need to say too much. I will marry my daughter to you. Therefore, the important thing is not to see what you say, but to see how you do it. Use your own careful care, your own actions and hard work to prove that you are outstanding. Only in this way will female parents feel at ease to hand over their daughters to you. The words that most impress the girl’s parents 2
1. How to chat with your girlfriend’s parents when you meet them for the first time
1. Things to note
First, be emotionally stable, confident and sincere If you are sincere and generous, you will definitely be popular; if you are hypocritical and pretentious, you will definitely be disliked. With self-confidence, nervousness will gradually calm down.
The second is to understand the situation. Ask your love partner about his or her family members, parents’ occupation, culture, interests, experiences, personality, etc. The more details you know, the better. Only when you are familiar with the situation can you be prepared in advance and be on target when talking.
The third is to draft the content. Think about what questions the other person might ask. On this occasion, your future parents-in-law will often ask about your family, work, hobbies, etc. You can make some preparations yourself.
2. Chat content
National news, family background, career, some directions for your future, and some recent national key news, etc. You can also chat about something about a certain person. Some views on the future of these industries. In this way, they will think that you are a motivated, good, and trustworthy person.
Talk about something your parents like: First, ask your girlfriend to find out what the father-in-law and mother-in-law like. For example, the father-in-law likes to study current affairs, the mother-in-law likes to watch Huangmei Opera, etc.
Explain your job, car and house: The girl’s parents are definitely more concerned about the man’s financial conditions, work situation, etc., so when chatting, you can also explain your current situation in detail. Let me explain.
Praise your girlfriend in front of your father-in-law and mother-in-law: People like to hear good things, so if you praise your girlfriend (that is, their daughter) in front of your father-in-law and mother-in-law, I believe they will be very happy.
2. What to talk about when meeting the girl’s parents for the first time
When I went to my girlfriend’s house to meet her parents for the first time, I was really nervous, especially when I didn’t know her parents’ details. When you are having sex, you will increase your nervousness, for fear that making a mistake will affect your subsequent normal interactions with your girlfriend. In fact, it is good to be aware of tension, but you must also know that being too nervous will only make your performance worse. After knowing this, you must first control your mood in a stable state. Now let’s get to the point, how do you chat with your girlfriend’s parents when you meet them for the first time? If you don’t know the character of your girlfriend’s parents in advance, you can ask your girlfriend to find out. Even if you are a person who is particularly confident in your communication, you still need to know a thing or two in advance. As the saying goes, only when you know yourself and the enemy can you be invincible. When you see your parents-in-law, they will treat you It's a battle in itself. Then do some homework based on the personality traits, hobbies, and occupations of your girlfriend's parents, because these can become topics for your chat later. In fact, preparing these is often enough for you to talk to your parents-in-law, but here is another suggestion, which is to talk about your own ideals, work, and some sweet memories with your girlfriend. I think this is what my girlfriend’s parents want to know too.
Generally speaking, when going to the girl’s parents’ house for the first time, it is recommended to choose less talking and more doing, or the listening method is more suitable and safe. Of course, some parents don't like to talk much, so you can talk more, but pay attention to the topic of discussion, try to be polite and generous, and speak appropriately. It would be better if you add some humor that the elders can understand. In addition, during the speaking process, in order to avoid making mistakes, remember to watch your words and emotions at any time, adjust the direction of your chat in time, or reduce the conversation time. For example, help with housework to divert their attention. When a boy goes to the girl's parents' house for the first time, don't look too polite. Otherwise, it will make the chat atmosphere awkward. He is already with his girlfriend. When meeting the other girl's parents, he should not be exposed to outsiders and treat himself as her family sincerely and truly. As a member, they will definitely welcome you.
3. What should you pay attention to when meeting the girl’s parents for the first time
Many young people think that the most important thing in such situations is to appear smart and capable, so they deliberately show off their extraordinary ambitions. Far better than his peers, it was almost self-promotion, thinking that he could win the favor of the old man. In fact, this is completely wrong. You must understand that in front of an elder, words and deeds that are too smart may not win favor. Generally young people are frivolous and arrogant because they are too smart. Talent and wisdom should be revealed intentionally or unintentionally in order to win people's admiration. However, if revealed intentionally, it will inevitably become frivolous. Elders like you to be smart, but they don't want you to be smart enough to be complacent. They love talent, but it's not talent they talk about. And you must understand that the ideals of the elderly are somewhat different from those of the young. If they want to choose a son-in-law, they do not necessarily want someone who is pretentious, but someone who is stable and reliable.
1. Give gifts
Don’t hit the smiling person. No matter whether the other person likes you or not, as long as you give them a special gift, if it is the other person’s mother, just give them a special gift. Give a piece of Hetian jade that looks very valuable. If you are a father, give him cigarettes. If he likes to smoke, give him cigarettes. If he likes to drink, give him wine. If he likes calligraphy, give him an inkstone. If he likes dancing, give him a handsome leather jacket. Give him the right medicine. What does the other person like? , you can give whatever you want, and you will naturally win the favor of the other party, but remember, don’t make a fool of yourself the first time, and don’t give too expensive gifts. If you give Moutai the first time, what else should you give the second time? Well, if you give Gujing a gift the second time, the other party will definitely be unhappy, because your starting point was too high the first time!
2. Be able to praise
Everyone likes praise from others, but this kind of praise must be special and must not be the same. For example, educated people People, you have to praise her for being knowledgeable and educated. If a rich person is young, you can praise him for being young and promising. If he dresses well, you can praise him for his temperament. There is nothing, you can praise his child for being smart, and he will definitely be a talent when he grows up, etc. As for the woman, she is dressed exquisitely. You can tell that aunt must have been very beautiful when she was young.
When you meet your uncle or aunt, tell her that her daughter is excellent and that you have given her a good education since she was a child, etc. Be sure to praise her for her special features!
3. Able to drink
If you don’t know how to drink, or if you pretend not to drink, then you will seem very reserved when chatting with your elders, so you will drink. If you drink too much, everyone will chat. If you open it, your elders will definitely give you a lot of impression points. Even if your uncles and aunts don't know how to drink, some of them will definitely know how to drink. If you make them happy, they will naturally say good things to you. If everyone can Drink. If you don’t drink, you will look out of place. Of course, if you say that liquor is unpalatable, just drink some beer. But if you don’t drink at all, it’s too disrespectful. Others will think so. What do you think?