In the late Qing Dynasty, there were many famous Qing ministers, such as Zeng Guofan and others. Zeng Guofan was a famous politician in the late Qing Dynasty, as well as a writer and calligrapher. Zeng Guofan highly praised literary knowledge. Zeng Guofan also promoted the first batch of students to study abroad in the history of the Qing Dynasty. He was also the first to translate Western literature into Chinese books. people. Zeng Guofan himself also wrote many literary works, which were passed down from generation to generation.
Among Zeng Guofan's works, "Letter to the Family" is his most famous achievement. In "Letter to the Family", Zeng Guofan strictly requires the behavioral requirements of his children, brothers and family members. This is also Zeng Guofan's One of the important reasons why the family is successful. In addition to "Letter from Home", Zeng Guofan also has many works, such as "Bingjian", "Diary", etc. Zeng Guofan's wisdom tells us that a smart person will generally not make friends with these two kinds of people. Generally, he can If you avoid it, avoid it. If you don’t know the sinister nature of people’s hearts, then remembering these two sentences from Zeng Guofan can also teach you to see through people in the world!
1. A villain only looks forward to favors from others, and does not feel the kindness is wrong; a gentleman does not receive favors from others, but will never forget them.
A villain likes to receive favors from others, but after receiving favors from others, , are not grateful, but confuse right and wrong; and a gentleman is not used to receiving favors from others. Once someone helps him, he will remember it forever. What Zeng Guofan said is to tell us how to distinguish the difference between a villain and a gentleman. When we meet a gentleman, even if the communication is as light as water, you will benefit greatly. And if we encounter villains, we must avoid them as much as possible.
2. It is almost "stupid" to lie down or jump, which is almost "stupid"
Zeng Guofan got this sentence in "Bingjian", It has a lot to do with making friends for us. If a person is too quiet and has no passion, such a state is close to "stupid". It's like talking to a piece of wood. It won't give you any response, and it can't even communicate with you at the most basic level. How can you have a deep relationship with it? Smart people, when they meet such people, will not waste time on them. The best policy is to avoid them. For those who don't know how to read people's hearts, this sentence can help you avoid wasting time when making friends in the future.
30 Lectures on Learning to Be a Human Being from Zeng Guofan
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Ikkyudao’s point of view: When we make friends, sometimes we enter a blind spot. This blind spot It will cause us to ignore some details when looking at people, and these two sentences by Zeng Guofan are just a reminder for us, so that when we make friends, we can be more open-minded and not make useless efforts. . What do you want to say about this?