Introduction: People often say: "The early bird catches the worm." A diligent bird gets up early to look for worms. Not only can it fill its own stomach, it can also provide food for itself and the whole family. Find enough food for the day.
When you wake up in the morning, the environment is quiet and there is little competition. It can look for food everywhere without any worries.
Birds are so diligent, but some people in life are very lazy. They sleep until the sun reaches three o'clock in the morning, eat when they wake up, play with their mobile phones immediately after eating, eat when they are hungry, and sleep when they are sleepy. , life is really carefree.
But think about it, who is supporting you in your carefree life? Is it your parents, your lover, or were you born with a golden key?
After all, there are very few people with golden keys. If you are lazy, you will not only have no food to eat, no house to live in, and no one will like you, but you will also lose a lot.
Xiao Liu is beautiful and has been loved by his parents since he was a child. He has never had to do housework. Nor can I do housework.
When I grew up, I married a foreigner and settled abroad. She is very happy. Her husband is not only rich and handsome, but he also loves her very much.
She does not have to go to work. She sleeps until noon every day and goes shopping after lunch. Her husband has a high income, so she often goes to specialty stores to buy clothes.
Xiao Liu doesn’t need to do housework because he hired a part-time worker. Life is really good to Xiao Liu. Once her husband asked her if she could cook for him. He hoped to eat the food cooked by his wife when he got home.
Xiao Liu said: Her parents have not allowed her to do housework since she was a child, and she doesn’t want to do it for anyone. My husband was very unhappy after hearing this, but he didn't say anything. Soon, my husband filed for divorce. and restricted her from moving out of the home within three months.
After Xiao Liu was kicked out by her husband, in order to make ends meet, Xiao Liu had to do odd jobs here and there.
The mental state of lazy people is that they are indifferent to everything and just muddle along. They are enjoyment-oriented.
People often say that "lazy women have a good life". In fact, the "lazy woman" here does not mean that the home is dirty and messy and does not do anything. It means that the "lazy woman" does not do unnecessary busy work. , use your own wisdom to do things efficiently, and the time saved can be used to rest or do other things.
So, the lazy woman referred to here is not lazy.
A real lazy woman is someone who is unwilling to do anything, unwilling to help others, idle and idle.
They are not only lazy but also money-worshiping girls, pursuing brand-name bags and jewelry, and loving vanity. It is believed that men only love beauty and all their money is used to improve their beauty.
In a family, if the male takes charge of the outside and the female takes charge of the household, a woman should be more considerate of her husband. The husband works hard outside. When he comes home, he does not have a bite of hot food, but cooks for him all day long. The wife who is free at home eats it.
Doesn’t she have any consideration between husband and wife? A good marital relationship is based on mutual support, mutual help, and mutual consideration between husband and wife. Only such a marriage can last long.
A person who is selfish and always thinks about himself and is unwilling to give will eventually be abandoned by his partner.
Xiaoli is an ordinary-looking girl, but she claims to be very smart. Once, one of her classmates, Xiao Huang, invited her to a party at a friend's house. In fact, Xiao Huang wanted to secretly introduce her to her boyfriend, so Xiao Huang took her to the boy's sister's house.
Of course, Xiaoli was unaware of all this, and Xiaohuang also invited a few friends to go together.
Everyone made dumplings together. Some people washed vegetables, some rolled out noodles, and some just cleaned the tableware. But Xiaoli did nothing and just sat in the living room watching TV. After eating the dumplings, she did not help. Clear away the dishes.
The boy’s sister saw this and thought Xiaoli was lazy. She said to Xiao Huang: “Such a lazy girl, don’t ask her to come to my house next time. This is the first time. , is also the last time, let alone introduce it to my brother, who dares to ask for a lazy woman?"
Xiaoli is "clever but misled by cleverness" If friends are together, everyone should help each other and do things together. Doing things not only reflects your kindness and friendliness, but also makes people around you like and be willing to get close to you. How can you win the respect and friendship of others if you are unwilling to do anything and pay for yourself?
Xiaona has not liked doing housework or studying since she was a child. When she came home from school every day, the first thing she did was eat and rest afterward. She never thought of learning anything else. Her family suggested that she learn dancing, calligraphy, painting, etc., but she was not interested.
What she is interested in is playing games on her mobile phone. On weekends, she sleeps until noon and doesn’t get up until noon. After getting up and eating, she looks at her phone again until evening. All she wants to do is watch her phone and play games.
Her room is always messy and she doesn’t want to tidy it up. Before she knew it, she was in junior high school. One day, the host of the art school came to the school to recruit students. She passed the interview, but failed the cultural exam. She felt sad for a long time.
Diligent people are passionate about life, positive, optimistic, and cheerful. They do not think that learning culture or other knowledge is a kind of suffering. They are interested in the pursuit of knowledge and work tirelessly.
They are diligent with their hands, minds, and housework, and are willing to help others. Most importantly, they regard labor as a kind of life experience and enjoyment. Day after day, diligence becomes a habit. .
In fact, if a person is lazy for a long time, it will become a habit. As soon as he eats, he will think of looking at his mobile phone. Once he gets the mobile phone in his hand, he can't put it down. I don't want to clean my room, and I just complete my study tasks in a coping style.
The purpose of lazy people is one, to enjoy when they can, and to enjoy themselves when they can be happy. They don’t want to use their brains to study, which is so tiring; they have no interest in exercising, which is so hard; they feel that if it is not necessary , not even leaving the house.
Being lazy will not only cause you to lose your lover, friends, and employment opportunities, but it will also cause you to lose many, many more, so people must not be lazy.
Inertia is instinct, because it does not use brains or actions, and it conforms to human nature. If you want to make changes, you must fight against human nature. Good habits can replace bad habits.
As long as you replace laziness with diligence, it will slowly become your instinct, just like a person gets up at 5 o'clock in the morning every day. If you develop a habit, you will naturally get up at that time. This is The power of habit.
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