First. In ancient times, whether fighting or farming, it was basically based on manpower. Women did not have the advantage in fighting. Economic status determined social status. Therefore, women's social status was not high. Women were not recognized by mainstream society because they were able to read and write.
Secondly, the dignity of teachers in ancient times meant that even if there were women teaching and studying, teacher-student love was not accepted by society.
"The Romance of the West Chamber" tells the love story of male and female classmates. They have relatively high status now, but their status was not high in the feudal society at that time. This is an example.
However, there is a special case. During the Qin Dynasty, Duke Mu of Qin’s daughter named Nong Yu liked to play the flute. She fell in love with Xiao Shi, a musician who was good at playing the flute. For becoming an immortal, there are poems from past dynasties praising him, among which the famous ones are:
Tang Dynasty. Li Bai's "Fengtai Song"
When I hear the daughter of Emperor Qin, I can hear the sound of the phoenix.
I met a fairy that day, and I had no feelings at that time.
People blow colorful flutes and go, and the sky greets them with green clouds.
The song is with you and you will never return, leaving you with the spare time to make a name for yourself.
Southern and Northern Dynasties. "Xiao Shi Qu" by Mr. Jiang
Nongyu is the daughter of the Qin family and Xiao Shixian is a virgin.
When I came, the rabbit was full moon, but when I left, the phoenix tower was empty.
The secret smile is widened and then suppressed, and the floating voice becomes clearer.
It looks red and pink, flying into the purple smoke.
Tang. Du Mu's "A Letter to Judge Han Chuo of Yangzhou"
The green mountains are faint and the water is far away,
The grass in the south of the Yangtze River has not withered after autumn.
Twenty-Four Bridges on a moonlit night,
Where can a beautiful lady teach me to play the flute?
The host can choose one of them.