The ancients said, looking for a good hangover cure will make you intoxicate when you wake up.
Many people like to drink, and once they drink, they can't help themselves. It's easy to get drunk, but in the end it's themselves who feel uncomfortable. Drinking too much is more harmful to their health.
I'm afraid it's not realistic to give up drinking all at once. People who like drinking themselves have poor self-control. It will be difficult for them to give up drinking at once, but it will be counterproductive.
Usually when you are drunk, people will be very unconscious. At this time, there will be many gaffes, such as constantly pouring out, scolding this and that; Others like to call people and talk nonsense; What's more, when you are drunk, you like to get drunk and do unimaginable things; Others will vomit and so on.
In short, when people are drunk, their behavior will be very chaotic, and it is easy to say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing. If you want people who are often drunk to give up drinking, take them to see drunken people playing crazy.
Because a person is drunk, he is unaware of his drunken behavior. If you can show him what others look like when they are drunk, or what they look like when they are drunk, the effect will be very good, which is more useful than persuading you a hundred times.
Shallow opinions, shortcomings, please forgive me!
Moderate, harmless, let nature take its course.
Drinking is a habit in some people's lives. Drinking a small amount of pure grain and pure wine is beneficial to people's health, but it is extremely harmful to people's health. It is extremely irresponsible to work, family and individuals, and even has a bad influence.
Your husband drinks wine every three days. It should be said that he is not addicted to alcohol. He can only say that he has the habit of drinking. As long as he grasps the amount of good drink and puts it at night, it will not affect his affairs or his health. What's wrong with men drinking at home, that is, they know how to relieve work fatigue and have dinner, chat and exchange feelings with their families? Better than a man who doesn't want to stay at home.
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This problem is a bit like my old husband's problem. He always insults his family, regrets afterwards, apologizes to his wife and asks for forgiveness, but then he insults his family again and asks for forgiveness again, and so on.
The conclusion I gave is that domestic violence is addictive. He is addicted to drugs and can't change it. There is no doubt that your husband is a heavy drinker. The advantage is that he's drunk and doesn't make trouble or hit people, which means your husband's wine is not bad.
However, drinking alcohol is harmful to health, which is the key. According to the frequency of drinking once every three days, it is definitely harmful to your health, so you must pay attention. So what should we do?
First of all, the best way is to give up drinking, which is the root of solving the problem. My cousin used to drink a lot, often got drunk, and when he got drunk, he was unconscious. Once I was drunk again, my sister-in-law went to take him home. As a result, I had a fire with my sister-in-law before going out. Probably embarrassed, I accidentally hit my sister-in-law. My sister-in-law was beaten for the first time, and she was so angry that she almost committed suicide, which frightened my cousin and gave up drinking.
Secondly, reduce the number of social intercourse. Consciously control the number of social intercourse. A lot of social intercourse is unnecessary, just drinking for the sake of drinking has nothing to do with it. After a long time, he will realize how meaningless it is to go out drinking all day, and he will get used to it gradually.
Third, arrange more activities and occupy his time. When he doesn't drink, he has something to do, and it is meaningful, such as climbing mountains together, outdoor activities, going back to his parents' house and playing with his children. When he is busy, he will not worry about drinking.
I smiled after reading the title. Your husband drinks once every three days, and mine drinks a small glass every day. I quit once and it didn't work at all! According to him, I should be able to give up drinking [cover my face]. Makes people laugh and cry.
In fact, some men are addicted to drinking, but as long as you control it, don't let yourself get drunk easily. Everyone knows that small wine is good for people's feelings, but big wine is bad for people's health. Everyone knows that wine is not a good thing, but it is indispensable. Drinking this thing actually depends on his own consciousness. Being drunk all the time is not a good thing. You can make rules with him and see how you speak.
Method 1: Seize the opportunity to persuade family members to give up drinking. Generally speaking, if the timing of persuasion is wrong, it will not only be difficult to have an effect, but even cause a reaction. The next time you persuade your family to give up drinking, the other person will have a rebellious attitude. Therefore, we should choose the right time to persuade wine, for example, to persuade wine without outsiders present, and take good care of the family's face. Or when you see the news that alcoholism caused an accident, you can also choose to share your feelings with your family after seeing this news, and express your desire for family abstinence in short language.
Method 2: persuade people to give up drinking step by step. Abstinence from alcohol is a slow process, and it is impossible to succeed immediately after abstinence. At this time, the family can persuade them to reduce the amount and frequency of drinking. In addition, wine can be changed from strong liquor to low-alcohol liquor, and finally into non-alcoholic drinks, fruit juice, boiled water and so on. Even if family abstinence is not completely successful, if we can reduce the amount and frequency of drinking, it is actually half the battle.
Method 3: persuade your family to give up drinking and find someone who can listen to you. If a father likes drinking, he may not listen to the advice of his mother, son and daughter. At this time, if the new wife comes to persuade him, the effect may be better. This is because as an old man, he always sets a good image in front of his daughter-in-law, who tells him that if he drinks too much, he will not only suffer, but also bring trouble to his family and grandchildren every day.
Method 4: Try to help your family stay away from some drinking occasions. If a friend invites his family to drink, he should try his best to help them avoid and cover up, so that they can participate in these drinking activities less. However, although this rejection is out of your kindness, you should let your family know your kindness and try to be gentle. If you refuse too many times, or if you refuse to use language too violently, it may affect the relationship between family and friends, which is not good.
Method 5: You can find a person who has recently given up drinking successfully and help your family to give up drinking. If your family doesn't listen to your advice at all, you might as well ask friends and relatives outside, especially those who have just successfully given up drinking. Because if you can bring this friend who has just given up drinking successfully to communicate with his family, it should play a positive role in some concepts of your family. In the process of communication, because these two people have the same language, it will be easier to have a song in their hearts.
Method 6: Always disclose your worries about drinking to your family. Your worries should be revealed from time to time with the help of some suitable opportunities, and you should frankly face the psychological burden of drinking for your family and hurting your health. In this way, with your concern, your family can understand your painstaking efforts, understand that drinking too much is not a good thing, and are willing to make up their minds to give up drinking.
Method 7: In the process of persuading family members to give up drinking, we should pay attention to providing good diet for family members. Abstinence from alcohol will bring people a very uncomfortable feeling. At this time, don't rush for success. On the contrary, you should help your family to build up the confidence of abstinence, and provide them with a reasonable diet to nourish their bodies, such as helping them to supplement the right amount of B vitamins in their diet and eat more fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meat and nuts. These foods are still helpful to alcoholics.
I'm a drinker (but I can't flatter myself-I know), but I'll never be driven crazy by alcohol unless someone with ulterior motives will use "wine" to talk about things. If you don't believe me, ask your neighbor.
Because of the poor child, that son of a bitch has the courage to go crazy with alcohol!
Unless you are a fearless advocate (rich man), where has anyone eaten the viscera of Xiong Xinbao?
It should be noted that women are scarce in today's society. That man and that fool have leisure time to ask for trouble!
Drinking once a few days is not a problem. The key depends on who you like to drink with, how much you drink each time, and how you behave after drinking too much.
Drink it once every three days, which means that self-restraint is good. It is not difficult to quit, as long as he can stop drinking from the heart, no one can stop him, just like drinking, no one can stop him if he wants to drink.
Talk more and ask why you drink. You can also try drinking tea and chatting together to change your daily habits.
As long as you don't drink too much, there is no harm in drinking.
I used to socialize every day, at least two bottles of red wine every day, and I was drunk once or twice a year. I am middle-aged. Now, except for special circumstances, drink half a glass of red wine, and generally don't drink it. In recent years, I found that there are fewer and fewer friends drinking around me. Besides driving without drinking, I also pay special attention to my health. In fact, for yourself and your family, drinking less is definitely right, and drinking too much will make mistakes.
He said quit. If you can't quit the agreement, you can't quit the dog. Then let the wife put on boxing gloves at home and beat her husband as a target. Of course, this requires mutual consent. Drink again and that's it. My husband must agree. It's so exciting. It's so hidden.
In good health, it is no problem to drink once every three days. If it is for work and career, please understand him and remind him that good health is the most important thing, because most men can't help drinking for their families.