What kind of music is "I don't know where to play the flute and want to recruit people all night", which has such great power that all the recruits can stay up all night? What kind of feelings are so attractive that they go straight into everyone's heart? It is homesickness, and it is a deep yearning for hometown.
When I was a child, I never understood, didn't everyone have a home and their own relatives? Why are you so depressed and uneasy on the way to find your home? When I grow up, I understand the helplessness of life-owning is sometimes just a luxury.
I always think of Su Shi's failure to reunite with his younger brother on the Mid-Autumn Festival full moon night. A person drinking wine, looking at the bright moon in the distance, thinking about his hometown, looking for the shadow of his family, and finally singing the eternal swan song of "Wish others a long time, thousands of miles away".
I always think of Lao She's trip to London and his life in Paris. He walked in the street, looking for the noise of Beijing. Talking with people, looking for the thick human touch like Beijing, but always can not get. So he is looking forward to returning to China and looking forward to rediscovering the warmth that belongs only to his hometown.
I have always felt that when Xiao Gan's friends lived in the United States, they dressed up the yard like their native land and asked their friends for a jujube pit like children, just to have the feeling of that hometown.
They are all deeply homesick because they have left their homeland, and they are all looking around. Look for the taste of hometown, the taste of hometown, no regrets.
I remember saying such a thing in an essay by Mr. Lin Qingxuan. When a middle-aged man learned that Mr. Lin was his hometown, he was so excited that he immediately sang a country song in the streets of Taipei. Pity a mature man who cries when singing. It turns out that this is a young man who was arrested for fighting in his early years. Since then, he has lost his wife and children. How many bitter memories and homesickness are floating in the misty eyes!
How urgent and persistent people are in missing and looking for their hometown. What is included in this is by no means Xu Zhimo's "I got it, I am lucky; Losing, my life is indifferent, but it is a kind of local complex that I have to care about.
Because we used to have it, we know the warmth of our hometown, so we have an attachment to our hometown. The faces of relatives are the best comfort for our hearts. So when we left our hometown, we started looking again. In the process of searching, we still have an emotion-homesickness. A homesick leaf is pulling us hard to find. Perhaps this is what people often say, "life is a process of continuous possession and search."
The farther away from home, the closer to home. I no longer have it, but I have found the deepest yearning for home. "The caged bird loves the old forest, and the fish in the pool loses its source." Things are like this, how can people be inferior! And when one day, we are really "strangers in a foreign land", please don't give up the belief of searching and pin that homesickness on the bright moon, and we will truly realize that "the bright moon is the hometown of the bright moon; Tea is the flavor of hometown.
Oh, that homesickness shuttles between hometown and soul, in the process of constant possession and search. ...
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Sour grapes VS sweet grapes
Some people say that people can be divided into two categories:
First, the sweet grapes you can't eat are sour, and the sour grapes you eat are sweet;
Second, the sour grapes you can't eat are said to be sweet, and the sweet grapes you eat are said to be sour.
Indeed, when people live in the world, there must be two kinds of people: one is to cherish possession and be content with happiness; One is not satisfied with possession, and has been looking for and pursuing it all his life.
I seem to prefer being the first person.
There is such a story:
Father and son play games: 10 minutes represents a person's life. During this time, everyone turned over a book and looked for the word "gold" from it. Whoever finds more is a monopoly. ...
It's time to start! "Find one!" A minute later, the son shouted excitedly. "Found another' gold'! The son shouted, I found one, too! " Cried the father. Five minutes later, the son jumped up and said, "I found the third piece!" " "Father panicked:" How come I have so little gold here? " The son said contemptuously, "you won't find it!" " Be careful! "... in the eighth minute, my son got ten pieces of" gold ". And my father only got four pieces at this time.
"Don't compete, you will lose." The son said. Father nodded: "I admit, I lost." But is it over? "The son asked," What else? " "How to use' gold'?" Father asked. The son looked up for a while and said, "I want to buy a lot of chocolates and toys, a real racing car, and … go to Egypt to see the pyramids!" " "Father pointed to the electronic clock: nine minutes and ten seconds. The son asked, "What's the matter?" Father smiled and said, "Your wish is unrealistic. You are too old to eat chocolate, the car can't start, and you can't see the pyramid. You see, it's been nine minutes and forty seconds, and people's' life' is coming to an end ... "The son looked at his father blankly. Father said, "you have been looking for gold for most of your life, but it is hard to enjoy it." In fact, time is the most precious, and it is the ultimate resource for everyone. "
There is a simple reason. My son wasted his life for delicious sweet grapes. Fortunately, this is just empty.
That's what people do. From the moment they were born, they have been looking for sweet grapes in their hearts. In the process of looking for them, they often miss the family, friendship and love they had. In the end, what people harvest is not necessarily the sweet grapes they want.
So we often find the unhappy rich and the contented poor,
So we often find an insomniac god and a sleeping beggar.
There is no difference between sweet grapes and sour grapes. If there is, the only difference is your heart for grapes.
So there is a wise man: if you can't eat sweet grapes, it is sour, and if you can't eat sour grapes, it is sweet.
He who is content is always happy, and he who has no desire is complacent.
So there is a fool: the sour grapes you can't eat are said to be sweet, and the sweet grapes you eat are said to be sour.
The distance between desire and undue distress, between dream and reality, exhausts people's lives: so there is a beautiful and dreamy rain lane, and Schopenhauer's theory of "the emptiness of existence" comes into being.
When you don't care about the sweet grapes you have got, but chase the illusory sour grapes, there will be two results: first, you can't get sour grapes; Second, the lost sweet grapes.
So, find your own grape and fall in love with it.
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Grasp possession in search and keep searching in possession.
I have tried to find, find happiness, find happiness, find all the beautiful things, but I never feel that I have found what I want.
"The contented are always happy!" Is that because they have wealth and happiness? No, people who are "never satisfied and constantly surpass" will keep pursuing. Will they all lose what they have? No. So what?
We are desperately looking for new ideas. However, what we have is constantly being lost. In the end, we are still empty-handed. In fact, there is always something we want around us, but we lack a pair of eyes to discover beauty and a moving heart. A reminder from a relative, a blessing from a friend, and even a smile from a stranger need to be savored slowly. If you are not careful, all this will pass away quietly. Don't go straight ahead, have a rest, feel the love around you, and you will be more motivated to go to the next stop.
After the theft, there was little left in Roosevelt's home, but what remained became the reason for his joy after the robbery. Relatives who came back after the war are their most satisfactory property, which can offset their family's depression and sadness. After the Rochester accident, Jane? Love really understands that he is the one who deserves her love all her life.
If you don't cherish what you have, you will never find what you seek. The so-called pursuit can only become the dream of the pursuer, which is a mirage and can't be reached. I don't know the beach under my feet, and the shells by the sea are also a kind of enjoyment. People who don't know how to cherish them don't deserve it.
However, those who only indulge in the past and enjoy the reality will not have new surprises. Only those who pursue their dreams on this basis can have new possessions, enlarge the circle of savings and taste new happiness.
Liu Xiang cherishes the opportunity he had before he won the new record, but he doesn't want to be satisfied with it, constantly surpassing and constantly looking for new coordinates so as not to lose possession of the ball. The same is true of the Chinese nation, which cherishes opportunities and constantly challenges them.
We are constantly looking for new economic development and high-tech inventions, but we should cherish its foundation-the earth environment. Do we cherish human friends? Do we cherish our home? Yes, they are very happy; Transcendents know how to pursue, and they will always make progress. Only by cherishing what you have, will you not regret after losing it. Only by looking for it, you won't suffer without it.
I'm still looking, and I'll keep looking, but I know I have it and I will cherish it.
Grasp possession in search and keep searching in possession. Have and find happiness.
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Look for it without regrets.
I remember a writer once said, "It doesn't matter what you have or what you lose. What matters is whether you have a heart to discover and find." Yes, it is true in life: having a temporary success does not mean your success in life; Being happy for a while does not mean being happy for the next moment; Having certain knowledge does not mean that you are a learned person; On the contrary, your temporary failure, pain and lack of knowledge cannot determine your future life. Everything is developing. Your heart should keep pace with the times and keep pursuing your dreams.
You may still be sad, why your road to chasing dreams is so bad. Why do you always shoulder the mission and go forward bravely, but when you look back, there are only crooked footprints and your hands are still empty? I want to ask you, have you ever thought about Edison, the "king of invention"; Do you know how many times he tried to invent the filament and failed? He walked much more than you, and he used to be empty-handed. But he didn't complain, but he was still looking for it with a hopeful heart ... After his countless efforts, he succeeded.
You may say why Newton invented gravity only because he suddenly turned around and found that the apple fell to the ground. Yes, Newton suddenly turned around and found gravity, but you know how hard he worked for it. His pursuit is much more difficult than yours. So the apple should not fall on your head, it should only belong to Newton. Because opportunities always favor those who work hard.
Maybe you are complacent about your success. I think you should remember the principle of "sitting in the open space". With the rapid development of society, it is a retrogression for you to stand still and move against the trend of the times. Success is only an affirmation of your past, but there are countless unknowns in the future, just like the fatuous Qing Dynasty in China's warlords, which thinks that it is unnecessary to be vast in resources.
You may be ashamed of being empty-handed. Actually, there is nothing to be ashamed of. As long as you have worked hard, as long as we have worked hard, there is nothing to resent. In the marathon, why did the last athlete who made it to the finish line still get warm applause from the audience? Although they failed to stand on the podium. Yes, some people have pursued it, even the road is more tortuous and difficult, but in the end they have not succeeded, or they have not seen success. Can we say that he is a failure? Of course not, because he embodies his own value and significance in the pursuit process, and they are equally worthy of respect.
The train of life roared past the platform. You don't have much time to resent and sigh. Hold your head high, straighten your chest, tighten your belt and run to your dream place. Come on, young us!
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Autumn wind blows out the season.
When the crisp autumn wind throws the sky high, when a strange child looks at the last Southern Yan, when the green leaves are orange, and when the hazy leaves float far away, the earth returns to this autumn wind blowing season.
Short-lived talents
The song "Ya of Li Ping" written by Nu Wa is exquisite and poetic. This is a talented young man with his own dream of helping the world-being an official, but with a special status. Even if he tries to find it, he still can't reach it. You hide feelings you've never felt before. You, Li He, are passionate and sing loudly: "Why don't men take Wu Gou and accept 50 states in Guanshan?" Desperate to pursue the dream I never had.
Because I didn't, I kept looking.
The king who led to the collapse of the country
"I don't know that I am a guest in my dream, I am greedy." Even in your dream, you still miss the prosperity of the old country that has passed away. "Carved jade fences should still exist, but Zhu Yan changed them." This sad poem reveals infinite yearning for the old country. It's a pity, it's a pity that the past is luxurious, and I never cherish it. I ignore the political affairs all day long and indulge in drunken pleasure; Sadly, alas, everything I had in the past has become a cloud, and how much I hate and worry is gone. At this time, when you look around, things have changed and the wheel of history will not turn back. You can only sing in a sad tone: "don't lean on the fence alone, it is infinite and easy to see when you are away." "How much sadness can you have, just like a river flowing eastward."
If you lose what you have, you will look around. Why not cherish what you had at that time?
Proud poet
"Going out in the sky, I am a Artemisia." How chic, confident and arrogant, you must be extremely happy at this time, and finally see the dawn of victory in the distance, as if the Ming Dynasty could realize the great ambition of "teenagers should ride the clouds". If there is a wine glass, you will sing wildly: "Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes, and never point his golden cup at the moon!"! "What I was desperately looking for has finally come true. Of course I am. I should drink it! However, fate seems to have played a joke on you. Hanlin Sacrifice is just an empty name. Xuanzong just wants you to write poems for fun. To put it bluntly, it is "Advocating Superior Animals" written by Tai Shigong. Here, you can't display your talents, and you have to face intrigue in the court. What you are desperately looking for is not what you originally wanted. You have lost the chic and elegant freedom you had in those days.
Sometimes, we desperately look for it, but we lose what we have.
Live in seclusion in Shan Weng
"Falling into the dust net by mistake, thirty years." In the vast world, you are struggling to find your place, but you are always confused. Many years later, you "suddenly look back" and find "that man is in the dim light." At this time, understanding nature is your ultimate destination.
When bright clouds dye the sky bright, when returning guests point to many swallows flying in the sky, when yellowish leaves have been dyed red and shiny leaves are dancing, do you understand this autumn wind season?
Examination guidance
Understanding the topic of the composition, opening the mind and seeking the angle of conception are the basis of writing. "Possession and search" is a relational binary topic. Compared with single conceptual topics such as "excuse", "dislocation" and "applause", it is more tense in conception, and it is not difficult to write accurately and profoundly, which is beneficial for students to show their ideological wisdom. The material expounds some contents: first, it points out that "possession and search" is within the scope of life and is related to the growth of life, which implies the main scope of the composition; The following two coordinate clauses explain the meaning of one aspect from different angles: if you don't have it, you pursue it everywhere; Then a coordinate clause expounds the relationship between pursuit and loss: you get something, but you lose your original possession; The last clause expounds that pursuit is the premise of acquisition, or that you already have this view when you pursue it. The following four juxtaposition clauses explain the connotation of three aspects of the topic, and comprehensively and profoundly reveal the relationship between the two factors of the topic.
Need to be reminded that:
First, you can set the idea of the article according to the prompt-"If not, try to find it; If you lose what you have, you will pursue it everywhere; Sometimes, if you look hard, you lose your original possession; Sometimes, it's hard for you to find,' When you suddenly look back, that person is there, the lights are dim' …'. These four clauses are four reference ideas. Of course, you can also customize other ideas.
Second, to find a good perspective, we need to think further: what do we have and what are we looking for? The "seeking" in the title can be understood as "pursuing". What is "pursuit"? You can use the method of adding objects. The object is very wide, besides fame, status and feelings, it can also be a beautiful ecological environment-blue sky, clear water, green trees and so on. (1), in terms of "if you don't have it, you will pursue it everywhere": looking for knowledge, looking for virtue, looking for the ability to have relations with the public ... (2), in terms of "pursuing possession but losing original possession": pursuing maturity but losing innocence; Pursuing the wealth of knowledge, but losing the simplicity of the past ... (3) In the aspect of "pursuit is the premise of obtaining or owning when pursuing": ① Pursuing and owning success: success comes from pursuit, and success can only be achieved by continuous pursuit. 2 Looking for happiness: I am happy, why do I envy and why do I look for it? (3) Looking for the love of parents, the love of teachers, looking for happiness ... only to find that you already have it.
Third, the composition in the examination room must have a sense of style and must not be written as "four unlike".
If you choose to write a narrative, you must pay attention to: (1) You must have a relatively complete story. (2) There are one or two clear and vivid characters. (3) Make good use of description, especially the description of details; The text of the discussion cannot exceed one-third of the full text.
If you choose to write an argumentative essay, you must pay attention to: (1) has a clear central argument and is prominent in the first paragraph. (2) There should be two or three sub-arguments. As far as possible, it is not necessary to use the parallel type, but to use the progressive type. (3) It needs to be discussed again, even if the facts are put forward, it is also an argument and reasoning.