Reading life is like love at first sight (1). I'm glad to share my favorite books with you here. Let me share a poem with you first.
If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind.
It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.
Lishan language stops midnight, and the rain bell doesn't complain.
More importantly, if you are lucky, you will be more willing than before.
In this poem, the most familiar sentence is probably "life is like seeing for the first time". If this sentence is translated into English, it is if time can stop at the moment when we first met. The first time I read this sentence, I felt that there were only two words, regret. After reading this book, I have an unforgettable experience with these two words. This book is: "Life is like seeing it for the first time"
There are too many people who like this sentence. "If life is just like the first time," it can be seen that you and I are deeply sorry. Fate is like the most precious silk, no matter how wonderful it is, it always shines in your hands. Those scattered are all innate original sins. The first woman I met when I got the book An Ruyi was Li Qingzhao.
Li Qingzhao is comparable to a man in the history of literature. She wrote: "Life is a hero, and death is a hero." . This should be a woman's admiration for heroes and an era's need for heroes. It is not easy for a woman to achieve such achievements in poetry. She is like an anomaly in the history of literature. However, a "vanilla beauty" like Li Qingzhao also needs men to own and care for it. She needs an equal and happy love to release her literary talent and the beauty of life, and a gentle man to love and respect her. Zhao Mingcheng is the most qualified candidate. One is Li's daughter, who is a member of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and is famous for his masterpieces. The other is Tingzhi Zhao, the son of two prime ministers, who became a student when he was young. Anyway, he is suitable for everything, and his talent and personality are equal. In today's words, one is a beautiful girl, Bai, and the other is a talented young man. It's hard to be together.
With Zhao Mingcheng, Li Qingzhao is not only his poetry friend and drinking friend, but also her confidant. Both of them are very happy, and their married life is carefree. My husband loves epigraphy, and Li Qingzhao has a lot of research and opinions on it. The couple are infatuated with each other and have the same interests. The stronger their feelings, the more elegant they are. However, God is jealous after all. After 26 years of marriage, Zhao Mingcheng died on the road to health.
Looking around, lonely and sad. It's the hardest to stop breathing when it's warm and cold.
I don't know why God tortured this woman, gave her unparalleled talent, gave her a good start, but had the heart to give her a tragic ending. I didn't know how she lived miserably until I watched The Voice is Slow. However, she survived. Although her husband died, her relatives were separated, and the mountains and rivers were broken, she added new worries from then on, but she survived after all, which is why she made me admire her even more. It is even more worthy of applause for such a Li Qingzhao who meditated in the quiet night and was more deeply concerned about the country and the people than a man!
Besides a great poet like Li Qingzhao, there is another woman who makes me feel sorry. She exchanged 18 days of reunion for 18 years of waiting. As soon as this statement comes out, I believe everyone knows who she is. She is Wang Baochuan who has been waiting for love 18 years. The person who told her to wait 18 was Xue Pinggui. As Faye Wong sang, "I can't forget your face now just because I took one more look at you in the crowd."
That day, Wang Baochuan went out for a spring outing, and Lu Yu flirted with the frivolous prodigal son. It was Xue Pinggui who saw injustice and drew his sword to help him, a hero to save America. This moved Xiang Fu's daughter, Miss Wang, and gave birth to admiration, and she couldn't help but look at this young man who was brave and courageous. It is this kind of looking back that makes her believe that this person is the one she wants to marry. Since then, regardless of her family's opposition, she gave her father three high-fives as an oath and broke off the relationship between father and daughter. What a wayward woman! However, living is not that simple. Although the cold kiln is broken, it can avoid the wind and rain, and the husband and wife love each other bitter and sweet. That's just the good wishes of the working people, "but not as those who used to be poor together know."
In order to make a living, Xue Pinggui decided to join the army and seek the future. Since then, Wang Baochuan has fallen into a blind wait for the future. 18 years, Wang Baochuan lived a puritan life in memory and loneliness. What about Xue Pinggui? No matter how deep the love is, no matter how firm the heart is, it can't resist the dripping of time. Wang Baochuan's shadow is becoming more and more blurred in his mind!
When Wang Baochuan, who was dying, came out of the cave, she thought that she had withstood the long test and got her due reward. Unfortunately, except Xue Pinggui, she saw a beautiful woman. The young woman calmly introduced herself: "My name is Dai Zhan, and I am Princess Xiliang, the wife of Xue Pinggui."
At this point, Wang Baochuan doesn't regret his clinging to a long-lost love. The rotten must be rotten, and the ashes must be destroyed. 18 days later, she died, and her death was fulfilled in Xue Pinggui. Her death was a relief to her. No one can stop the passage of love time. Sometimes life has true feelings, and sometimes it is so heartless.
Life is like seeing for the first time, which tells many touching, sad or sad stories. The author looks back at history, thinks about life and reflects on human nature with modern eyes, which gives us a deeper understanding of the joys and sorrows of that era.
My feeling after reading this book is that although love is the most beautiful word in the world and everyone must experience it, it is not the whole of life. Like Li Qingzhao, we can turn sadness into courage and live our own lives! If life is like the first time, it is certainly beautiful. But with the passage of time, no one can say whether the feeling of "goodbye" after "seeing first" is still the same. In this case, if you choose, just raise your head and walk with a smile.
Reading life is like the feeling at first sight (2) One afternoon when the sun is about to set, I occasionally feel bored. When I opened my roommate's book, I found that the book "Life is like seeing for the first time" was fascinated recently. This is a good book for collecting love poems and sentimental songs. What attracted me at first was the title, but with the deepening, I felt the same way and couldn't put it down.
"When you meet a good word, it's like meeting someone in spring, with an eye movement, a smile spread and a hazy heart. If, if life is like the first time, it would be great. He is still his master of enlightenment, and she is also her peerless beauty, and Jiangshan beauty does not invade each other. There is no end without a beginning. " This is a quotation from the book. Just remember it carefully! No beginning, no end. Yes, in the love of the times, no matter how humble or vigorous, there is no fate, no fate. How can there be an instant heartbeat? How many emperors' concubines, poets, gifted scholars and beautiful women, heroes, who shocked the years and softened the time, who lived and died with whom, who grew old with whom.
Swallows entered the Han Palace, Ban Jieyu was sarcastic, and the king's luck came to an abrupt end. "If life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan? Waiting for leisure, so popular, but so popular. " Too much prosperity, everything is just in vain. At last, the king died, but Ban Jieyu was silently guarding the tomb and never leaving. Because he is her favorite, she is her mistress, and she has been in her prime all her life. Ten years of life and death are boundless, I don't think about it, I am unforgettable, I am alone in the grave, I have nowhere to tell, I look for a flower and a world, I sigh a song, I am alone all my life. He and she still missed it.
As beautiful as flowers and jade, as water flies, how many people have gone and come back, back and forth, and finally can't escape the entanglement of fate. "Saburo" and "Yuhuan" love each other. The most beautiful woman in the world, the earth-shattering love at the foot of Mount Li, would be puzzled and fascinated by him if she just turned her head and smiled. She sang and danced for him, and she was lazy to comb his hair, in exchange for his abandonment of the country and incest. They have been flying together all their lives, which is unique. However, the tragedy happened without warning. Under the Mawei slope, there is a song of farewell, farewell to each other, separated by Yin and Yang. He wept bitterly and suffered all his life, because some loves need to be forgotten all his life, especially those that hurt deeply. Fate is like water, they bear the world. They will meet next time.
She is still an ignorant girl. She is willing to run away with that plain-looking girl, give up her daughter's body and sell wine and hemp with him, regardless of her father's opposition, so she is doomed to be lonely with him all her life. Zhuo Wenjun, gentle and brave. Unfortunately, Xiang Ru still married a concubine, leaving Wen Jun in the cold. She is sad and complicated. She tried to exchange her deep feelings for his love, that's all. The oath of "May one heart win, and never leave each other" still stings Wen Jun's heart. If he still belongs to her evergreen, and she is his phoenix, then everything will be fine. His white hair will never come back, or even leave, leaving Wen Jun alone for a lifetime, with bitter regrets. If life is only the first time, how nice it would be! Hope is still the day when the wind is light and the clouds are light. Evergreen eyes only Wen Jun. Turning around, a wisp of Leng Xiang was far away, the snow was deep and the smile was shallow. Can he meet her in the afterlife?
"When those red berries come in spring, they flush on your southern branches? I wish you more success as a symbol of our love. " Xiao Tong and Huiru, who grows red beans for whom and who picks them for whom? Once a person falls in love, his heart can turn a thousand times, much like the path of Jiangnan water town, which twists and turns and causes countless lingering. When traveling, he was obedient, perhaps tired of silk and bamboo, tired of imperial secretary's green sleeves. When I met her, I smiled, and this smile was a heartbeat. This smile seems to have exhausted the waiting. Meet but deja vu, meet but miss. He is a prince, and she is just a beautiful woman. He's gone, this time he's gone, it's wind, it's rain, it's night. Smiling and waving, a lonely road opens to both ends, and the palace door is as deep as the sea. From then on, Xiao Lang became a passer-by. Class differences and religious etiquette are involuntary. Hui, like a person, acacia, when I come back, it is already beautiful and barren. After a lifetime of attachment, he planted red beans for her, but there was no longer a bean picker. Red beans, a lovesickness, are just impermanent, and all beings have feelings. Who should be robbed by whom, who has been obsessed. A tree of red beans should be the solution of acacia.
If we can meet again in life, those beautiful things that passed away, those beautiful love, and those obsessed men and women will all become historical memories. How many beauties have been worn out, how many pieces of acacia have been broken, and only the blood-stained ink is crying, just for love.
In the end, we all met for the first time.
Reading life is like seeing for the first time (3) Life is like seeing for the first time. This book tells the beautiful and touching historical romantic story behind classical poetry. The author describes a series of classic love stories to us with his own opinions.
If life is just like the first sight, why draw a fan in the autumn wind? It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change. There is a lot of waiting between infatuation, watching in infatuation, being abandoned by the other party in infatuation, and making promises in infatuation.
Ban Jieyu's infatuation brought Yan Fei and Hede into the palace and Zhao's sisters, whom Emperor Han loved. Finally, Emperor Han died on another woman, and she, Ban Jieyu, was still in his graveyard, accompanying him for the rest of his life. An Yiru said: Women in the world, those who enter the palace and those who do not, are all the same. As long as the emperor is willing, he can get it. The palace is a splendid brothel, and the emperor is the largest prostitute in the world. The love between Ban Jieyu and Emperor Han Chengdi was short-lived. If that's the case, you might as well not.
For Li Longji, the arrival of Yang Yuhuan is a godsend. From then on, but the nights in spring were short and the sun rose too fast. From then on, the emperor gave up his early hearing. In the quiet world of midnight, Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan, who are in their fifties, secretly told each other in the language of ordinary couples that we hope to fly in heaven, like two birds, have the same wing and grow together on the earth, like two branches of a tree ... simple love, ordinary love, and want to be together until death do us part, but we can't. In the end, nothing can be done. Yuhuan collected a handful of loess and covered it with white silk. This tragic fate has no warning, and none of us can predict the beginning and end. If, if life is like the first time, how wonderful it is, just seeing it in a hurry, you are still your monarch and I am still my beauty, maybe there will be no such ending!
An Yiru said: If the sun shines tomorrow and you and I still have nothing, please don't despair and take good care of me. Even when I say goodbye to love, I hope everything is fine with you and me. When I don't love you, maybe it's not that I don't love you, but that I can't love you anymore.
Many times, we have been in love for too long, thinking that there will be a good ending, but we don't know that there is still an unknown road and a difficult road. When you want to go, stop at the origin and hesitate: is this road right or wrong? It was not until the end that we found that what we lacked was the courage to move forward and the perseverance to wait. I want to grow old together forever, but I have lost my original memory, original promise and original courage to love.
If life is like the first time, if the ending is like this, should you and I never meet again?
I recommend it carefully.