"The wind is very strong, my hands and feet are cold, but my heart is warm. But I don't understand why, my heart is always soft. I want to be close to you so that I won't be sad. " When I met love, the person I loved in his heart gave him many tender years and romantic times.
The world is so big, nice to meet you. I have crossed bridges in many places, seen clouds many times and drunk many kinds of wine, but I have only loved one person at the right age. Love at that time was pure and transparent. In this world of love, there is only room for each other, and all secular interference can be ignored. This is the greatness of love.
Shen Congwen wrote: "Every time I see you, I feel sad. In my feeling, I can't help but have a sense of servility that pays all my life without compensation. My personality is completely lost and my self-esteem is helpless. " Love makes people lost, love makes people crazy, and inner joy is full of love.
"Not loving someone is not a failure, because lovers will not change their direction because of people's attitude, and being stubborn and persistent is not a failure." What kind of feelings do you like? More joy, less disappointment. Over time, it gives people warmth and courage.
For a writer and a poet, the most expressive thing is the pen in his hand and the ink on the paper. People's feelings are like this, and they become habits unconsciously. Accustomed to the existence of that person, accustomed to the care of that person, and accustomed to the deep affection of that person. Therefore, after a short farewell, I will sigh helplessly: "The road is so long and the traffic is so inconvenient. It takes ten days and a half months to guess when writing a letter. The situation of writing a letter is different from that of receiving a letter. " The wind passed again, and when I saw the intimacy between flowers and trees, I shook my head and sighed: There are so many human feelings, but one winter, the tree forgot its leaves and shook its head: No! No one can replace the position of leaves in my heart.
Parting is always the most tiring. Most afraid of lovesickness, the journey is delayed and the waterway is far away. I can only let the boat sway on the water and let my thoughts ripple in my brow. It gives the other person a space to daydream, but also makes the other person feel insecure and have random suspicions about the other person, and love is often slowly dissolved in these suspicions. Therefore, trust is the embodiment of mutual respect and equality between lovers, and building a bridge of trust is the most effective way to consolidate long-distance love. And love without trust will only become fragile in mutual suspicion.
Missing is the most painful thing. "Life is really unpleasant for travelers, because this week, I didn't encounter cars, cold or careless eating, but I miss you so much."
Understanding is based on trust. Without trust, there is no way to understand. You know, the pressure of reality will not make everyone live easily, learn to understand each other and be the spiritual pillar of each other. In this way, understanding will also become a regulator of their emotional warming, thus creating more articles. "Because of you, I believe I can write many better articles in my life."
For Shen Congwen, who is afraid of separation, the separation between the two places is the greatest pain. In addition to the distance brought by time and space, psychological distance can not be ignored. Communication is the best way to maintain feelings and narrow the distance.
If you love someone, you should think of him in everything, as long as he can be happy. Shen Congwen will write in the letter: "I think I love you, but I don't need to restrain you." Because I love you, if I can't give you happiness in life, and my sacrifice can make you happy in other ways, I'm prepared to sacrifice. There is pain, I endure pain. " "Time-varying, life geometry? * * * If I can't satisfy you and feel wronged, I naturally shouldn't force you to be wronged because I love you. " Shen Congwen even said, "Even if you are with me, you still have the right to choose the life you think is good. You will always be a free man. " "If you can get happiness, that's the happiness you deserve. If the result is disappointing, then you might as well go back and get rid of the confusion of meeting people, and we can live a good life. " How intimate does it take for him to say such a thing? For all people, the ultimate goal is to create the same living conditions, because people who love each other can't live in two beautiful but unreachable environments, and the lotus flowers who love each other will grow in the same soil. Since we love each other, we must be together.
"People are cold and warm, so we have to look down on us." "Things look easy, and it's easier said than done. It's completely different when you do it yourself." Growth is like this, painful and happy. You have to accept all the harm that the world has brought you, and then grow up without fear. When two people get along, they must always be impulsive and calm. Complementarity can make life less troublesome. Only by mutual understanding and tolerance can we live a long life.
"I like you" is an exchange of letters between Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhaohe, and it is also Shen Congwen's affectionate circulation, which shows us the gorgeous face of love. Do it with sincere actions, say it with gentle language and write it with beautiful words, so that you can deeply feel my love for you and make your love for me come to life, and then write a touching love song together. Every word and stroke is affectionate. No matter what love looks like, what suits you is the best.
Love is beautiful. We might as well learn the book "I like you" and feel how sweet and pure love was at that time. Words always take care of each other's feelings and show tenderness carefully. This is poetic love, sacred and beautiful. Compared with today's society, there is beautiful love, but it is not as far away as Shen Congwen's love for Zhang Zhaohe.