It should have been "self-pity", expressing resentment and regret; Ai refers to mowing the grass, and the metaphor in the word is corrected. Now it is often called "Ziliá NZ Ziyi", which originally meant to regret and correct one's mistakes, and now it only expresses one's regret.
The road of life can't be smooth sailing, and the unpleasant things are often nine times out of ten. Difficulties, setbacks, temporary failure to achieve the expected goals, and even some physical defects may make people feel inferior and feel sorry for themselves, seriously affect their work and study, and even give up on themselves.
It was first published in Mencius Zhang Wan: "In three years, Tai Jia repented, felt sorry for himself and changed his righteousness to a child. In three years, he followed Yi Yin's instructions and returned to Bo. Related to inferiority complex, psychology believes that inferiority complex is an emotional experience of feeling ashamed due to excessive self-denial. Mainly manifested in the low evaluation of their own factors such as their own ability, knowledge and quality; Psychological endurance is fragile and can't stand strong stimulation; Cautious, sentimental and often suspicious; Show timidity, hesitation, etc. Inferiority can happen to people of any age and kind. For example, if they are average in virtue and political integrity, and their lives have not yet flashed with "brilliance" and "brightness", they are often prone to sigh that they have seen through the world of mortals and helplessness that "the water has come out in spring", so that pessimism and disappointment are regarded as the main theme of life; After hard work, I have made achievements in my work and created "brilliance" in my career, but I am always worried that "scenery" will no longer be there, and it is easy to sigh that the future is bleak and "everything is empty"; With the growth of age, youth is gone forever, and it is often easy to sigh the ruthlessness of the years and the helplessness of the red sun ... This kind of inferiority is a heavy mental shackle to suppress self, and it is a negative and unhealthy mentality. It wears away people's will, softens people's beliefs, dilutes people's pursuit, makes people's spirit stiff and cringe, starts with self-doubt and self-denial, ends with self-burial and self-suppression, and makes people fall into the abyss of pessimism and sadness. It is really harmful! The opposite of inferiority is self-confidence. Self-confidence means you believe in yourself and respect yourself. It is better to respect yourself than others to respect yourself. Emerson, an American writer, said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success. "Self-confidence is the essence of heroism." People often compare self-confidence to the door to exert subjective initiative and start the intellectual motor, which is very reasonable. To establish self-confidence, we must correctly evaluate ourselves, discover our strengths and affirm our abilities. People often say that people are expensive and self-aware. This kind of "knowledge" is not only manifested in truthfully seeing one's own shortcomings, but also in truthfully analyzing one's own strengths. If you only see your own shortcomings, it seems to be modesty, but it is actually inferiority. "The ruler is short and the inch is long." Everyone has his own advantages and advantages. If we can objectively evaluate ourselves, find out our strengths and advantages on the basis of understanding our shortcomings and deficiencies, and compare them with others' strengths, we can stimulate self-confidence. Learn to appreciate yourself, praise yourself, find out all your strengths, strengths, achievements and things you are satisfied with, "show off" in your mind, repeatedly stimulate and hint at yourself "I can", "I can" and "I am really good", so that you can gradually get rid of the shadow of "everything is inferior to others, and it is difficult for you everywhere", and you will feel that life is full of vitality, hope and longing. I was born to be useful. Applause yourself, cheer for yourself, put a flower on yourself and send a flag, and you will surely collide with the spark of life and cultivate Archimedes' heroic self-confidence of "Give me a fulcrum and I can shake the earth"!
Idioms make sentences:
1, Wenger is the champion coach, he will fight for victory and so will the players. They have lost two games in a row, so they can't feel sorry for themselves and lose such a game.
If he still can't get rid of the state of self-pity, you should find a group of people who want to succeed.
3. Many people may encounter bad moments at work. They ran home and felt sorry for themselves.