What about children's puppy love online dating? Nowadays, the phenomenon of puppy love has become a headache for parents and teachers. Experts in psychological education of puppy love in Chaoyang School in Guangzhou provided some suggestions on how to correctly guide adolescent children to puppy love: if children are found to be puppy love, parents should dilute their emotional concentration and create more opportunities for family collective activities, so that children can meet their psychological needs of interacting with friends of the opposite sex, instead of pointing their needs and energy at one person. This special psychology of teenagers is not necessarily puppy love. Faced with such children, parents should calmly and objectively analyze the reasons for their so-called puppy love in order to make correct guidance. Adolescent children's puppy love is related to their parents. If a girl has a good relationship with her father, it is not easy for her to pay attention to boys. If a boy has a good relationship with his mother, it is not easy to establish an intimate relationship with a girl. Children who really love each other are more likely to happen in families that lack warmth and have problems with their loved ones. Children rarely get affirmation and praise in front of their parents, and their emotional needs are often not met at home, so it is easy to find satisfaction and alternative compensation from the world outside the family. Therefore, when children are puppy love, parents should first reflect on themselves.
How do parents persuade their children not to have online dating? Puppy love has always been an untimely bomb in the hearts of children's parents. As soon as I hear someone say "your child is in puppy love", many parents will immediately cut the mandarin duck with a knife. Because as parents, I am always worried that the puppy love in adolescence will affect my studies. Once this situation is discovered, they will earnestly persuade. As we all know, if the effect is not good, it will sometimes cause children's rebellious psychology. Chaoyang Counseling Center experts reminded that children's puppy love online dating should be sparse and not blocked.
Nowadays, many students have started online dating since childhood, puppy love? What causes these minors to have a soft spot for online dating and puppy love? In today's society, middle school students' pursuit of love is infinite. In reality, they fall in love online.
First, let adolescent children know the dark side of the Internet.
Parents should let adolescent children know that the Internet is a double-edged sword. Although the Internet has played an important role in finding information and contacting relatives and friends, it also has its dark side, such as criminals using the Internet to cheat and kidnap women. Teenagers should pay attention to discrimination when using the network and be able to identify the negative effects of the network, which we should not contact. Only by understanding the dark side of the network can we understand the harm of this bad behavior of online dating.
Second, supervise children's online use.
The national law clearly stipulates that minors are prohibited from entering Internet cafes. Their outlook on life and world outlook has not yet been finalized, and the information on the Internet cannot be correctly distinguished. Therefore, it is necessary to supervise teenagers' surfing the Internet. At the same time, it is best to be accompanied by parents when surfing the Internet for supervision.
Thirdly, we should explain some dangers of online dating to adolescent children.
Let adolescent children know that teenagers' online dating is extremely unfavorable to their physical and mental development. In the long run, it will lead to interpersonal communication barriers, onlineness's disease, internet addiction and interpersonal trust crisis, especially for adolescents with withdrawn personalities. Once they indulge in the internet and stay away from their neighbors, they will become more withdrawn. Therefore, adolescent children should grasp the scale of surfing the Internet. They should not be addicted to the Internet, rely too much on the Internet, or pin their emotions entirely on the Internet or a netizen. They should communicate with others with a normal heart and always review themselves. This is an effective way to put an end to the harm of the Internet.
Fourth, correctly guide children out of the network misunderstanding.
Parents should guide adolescent children to use the internet correctly. For adolescent children who have shown pathological behavior on the internet, they should go to see a psychological counselor and actively intervene with appropriate methods to get him out of the misunderstanding of "online dating" as soon as possible.
1. Because online dating is full of mystery for adolescent children, it is inevitable that they will fall into it and even be unable to extricate themselves. It is necessary for parents to personally explain the harm of online dating to adolescent children.
Parents should tell their children about the serious impact of online dating on study and life.
3. Teach adolescent children some ways to get rid of online dating. Parents should accompany him when surfing the internet, and at the same time let him participate in extracurricular activities more.