This sentence comes from Zhao Ceyi in the Warring States Policy: "Yu Rang fled to the deep mountains, yue, hehe! A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is her lover. I will repay the wisdom of the people. "
Sima Qian's "Letter to Ren An" also said: "Scholars are used for confidants, and women are pleasing to themselves."
I hope it is helpful to you and I hope to adopt it ~ ~ ~