Most of the ancients lived alone for life after losing their spouses and would not remarry or remarry. On the one hand, it was caused by social customs at that time, on the other hand, it was very nostalgic for the deceased, but it was impossible to overcome the inner hurdle. This kind of love is beautiful and pure, pure as snow, free from worldly desires. Really stay with someone until the end of my life. Of course, the best thing about ancient marriage is the restriction on the family, which also makes many people who really love each other never get together and hold a grudge for life.
Love is too open now. Many people have rich love experiences and even had several marriages. Moreover, it is also regarded as a show-off capital by these people. It seems that talking about many girls/boyfriends is enough to show how good they are. There are many things to do in life, and you should also make yourself better. Obviously, the way to become excellent is not to spend too much time on love affairs and regard this ignorant behavior as an achievement.
Nowadays, the divorce rate is increasing day by day, which is already ridiculously high. Many young people get together on the spur of the moment. Not long after, the feelings of the two quickly warmed up and they went to get the license. I don't know each other very well, only full of enthusiasm and empty promises. Finally, when I encounter some setbacks in my life, I can't bear it. I feel that the other person is not the person I am looking for, and I will eventually go to the road of divorce.
We long for the love that we can get married by holding hands, but we live in an era when lying in bed may not be fruitful. This is a kind of forgiveness and a kind of sorrow for us.