St Augustine, don't understand what you can believe, but believe what you can understand.
Benjamin Franklin A learned fool is greater than an ignorant fool.
The hardest thing to understand in the world is that things are understandable.
The essence of Doris Lessing's learning is that you will suddenly understand something you already know, but this understanding is realized in a brand-new way.
Zen if you understand him, things will remain the same; If you don't understand him, things will remain the same.
Jewish proverb When God wants mankind to suffer, he will convey endless understanding to mankind.
Joseph heller succeeded by his own efforts, and he never blamed anyone for his setbacks.
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What is the simplest thing: giving advice to others. -Thales
What kind of philosophy of life a person chooses can be decided by who he is. -Fossett
Seeing weak things, I can't help but want to help; When you are in a weak position, there will be all kinds of people to help. -Di Jan Benzien I.
Better be a gentleman than a villain. Taijun is a shallow resentment; Losing to the villain was a disaster. "-Guan Zhong
"The human heart is like a parachute. If you don't open it, you can't use it at all. " -Ozburn
Believe what they want rather than the facts. bacon
Keep your promise, say it, keep it in mind and act in the world. Kai Long Xing
Procrastination is stealing time. Periander
Pay attention to everything you do and say. You may end your life at any time. -Aurelius
Some people give trouble to their companions because they say less; However, there are also cases where people are disgusted with saying one more word, thus alienating their peers. -Nagasaki pulled out of the sky
Friends must help each other in difficulties, and that is true friendship. If you are sad, he also cries; You can't sleep, so can he. No matter what difficulties you meet, he is willing to share them with you. -Shakespeare
Don't let your tongue go beyond your head. -Qi Lun Real culture lives by sympathy and praise, not by disgust and contempt. -william james Stupidity always happens when the tongue runs faster than the brain. Kai Long Xing
There are no strangers in the world, only friends who have never met. -Whiteman
Gentle manners are more human, so they are more manly. -Oleyu
We only care about the expression on a person's face, not what he wears. Carnegie
Interested in people who are interested in us. -Selous
Seemingly friends are often not friends; People who seem not to be friends are often friends. -Park Jung-soo, Tama
As long as human nature is within the scope of "purity", it must be equal. -Andersen
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you-Confucius
At that time, the feet will stumble and the mouth will talk. -Han Yu
What is the simplest thing-giving advice to others. -Thales
The only way to get friends is to make friends with others. Emerson
The friendship between gentlemen is indifferent, and the friendship between villains is sincere; A gentleman is indifferent to his relatives, but a villain is willing to give up. -Zhuang Zhou
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Heart-to-heart talk is the display of the soul-Wen
Defending a fault often makes it particularly serious, just like mending a small hole with a piece of cloth, but glass fragments will not.
-Shakespeare
Solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind; A kind and friendly way is easier to change others' minds than any violence.
Carnegie
2. [High score] Seeking poetry ~ Poetry about spiritual communication and understanding I am waiting for you, Xu Zhimo.
I will wait for you.
I looked at the dim light outside.
Just like looking to the future,
My heart shook my ears.
Why haven't you come yet? hope
Allow flowers to bloom every second.
I'm waiting for your footsteps,
Your jokes, your face,
Your soft hair,
Everything is waiting for you,
I hope that every second,
Go to hell.-Where are you?
I want you to make my heart ache,
I want you to smile like a flame,
Want your flexible waist,
The flying star in your hair horn;
I fell into a drunken atmosphere,
Like an island,
Q: In the green waves of pythons, they float and sink involuntarily. ...
Oh, I want to eat it so much
Your arrival, longing
That magical yutan
Open the top of time!
Why don't you come? Do you have the heart?
You know, I know you know,
It was a fatal blow that you didn't come to me,
Kill the spring in my life,
Teach darkness as strong as iron in the mine,
Oppressing my thoughts and breathing;
Kill the poor bud of hope,
Hand me over, like a prisoner.
Jealousy and sadness are the shame of life.
And the cruelty of despair.
This may be an illusion. This is an illusion.
I believe that I am indeed an idiot;
But I can't turn the rudder,
Ten thousand winds won't make me hesitate-
I can't turn back, I'm lucky!
I also know that this is mainly for
The road to destruction, but
For you, for you.
I am willing to do anything;
This is not only my passion,
My only reason is also.
Idiot! Trying to break a tiny life.
To touch a woman's heart!
If you want to win, you can win at most.
A tear from her,
Her heart ached,
Unexpectedly, I made a half-hearted sneer;
But I am willing, even if
The news of my pink body has arrived
Her heart seems to be passing by.
A stubborn stone, she regards me as
Rats and bugs in the cellar,
I still want to!
Crazy truth is unconditional,
God, he can't bring one back.
Be as calm as a general.
Sometimes soldiers who were on the verge of death will be brought back.
In vain, everything is in vain,
There is no denying that you won't come.
Although there is a burning fire in my heart,
Longing for everything you have,
Your hair, your smile, your hands and feet;
Any wishful thinking and prayer
Cann't shorten it by an inch
The distance between you and me!
The twilight outside has come.
Condensed into the darkness of night,
Ice and snow hung on the branches,
Birds forget their songs,
Silence is the universe of unanimous mourning.
The hands on the clock are constantly comparing.
Mysterious gestures, like pointing,
Such as sympathy, such as ridicule,
Whenever I touch this point, I feel
My own heart
The death knell was buried alive.
3. Famous sayings about communication 1. People are animals that need to communicate.
Seneca said: On grace.
Introduction: Seneca (about 4 -65 BC) was an ancient Roman politician, Stoic philosopher, tragic writer and orator. During the reign of Tiberius, he entered the officialdom, served as an imperial accountant and a veteran of the Senate, and later served as a judicial consul and a mentor and consultant of Emperor Nero.
Secondly, it's hard to say what kind of impression can be left by affability in communication.
Cicero said: On responsibility.
Introduction: marcus tullius cicero (1.3 2006- 1.7 43) was a famous politician, orator, orator, jurist and philosopher in ancient Rome.
There is nothing like greeting each other or being polite in the art of communication and conversation. It enables us to put aside our intentions and hobbies in front of each other, and to restrain and hide people's natural self-righteousness and arrogance. A good-natured person, if well-educated, will be polite to everyone, without any prior calculation or for any benefit.
Said by: Hume: On the Rise and Progress of Art and Science.
Introduction: david hume (April 26th, A.D.171year-A.D.1August 25th, 776), an agnostic philosopher, economist and historian in Scotland, is regarded as one of the most important figures in the history of the Scottish Enlightenment and western philosophy.
Fourth, people's primary responsibility is to speak, which is the main job of life.
Said by: [English] Stevenson: The talker and the talker.
Introduction: George Stevenson was born in a small village near 178 1 Newcastle, a city in northern England. Many unusual things happened that year. That year, British Commander-in-Chief Kang Hua gave up Yorktown, the last British stronghold in the United States, and surrendered to Washington, the leader of the War of Independence.
5. To convince people, a word is often more effective than gold.
Said by: [Ancient Greece] democritus: Pieces of works.
Introduction: democritus (Greek: Δ η μ? κριτο? , about 460~ 370 BC), was born in Abdallah, a commercial city on the coast of Thrace, a great materialist philosopher in ancient Greece and one of the founders of the theory of atomic materialism (atomism (everything is made up of atoms) was first put forward).
4. Famous sayings about communication ~ If you are right, try to make the other party agree with you tactfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself.
-Carnegie USA
Zi Gong asked: Who has a word that can last a lifetime? Confucius said: With all due respect, don't do to others what you don't want!
I think it's most important to associate with others. As long as you pay more attention to the details of life and communicate with others. I suggest you read more books on interpersonal relationships.
There are three words on the road: smiling is a virtue; Prepare a gift for those who have helped you; Don't stay too long for a flower.
Women often blink to supplement their views on men.
-Du Masi method.
Find yourself and be yourself.
-Dale Carnegie America
Try to understand others, not scold them; Try to put yourself in their shoes. Why do they do this? This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticism and accusation, and it will make people feel sympathy, patience and kindness. See details.
Interpersonal communication
When you advise others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
It is impolite to interrupt a fool and shut him up, but it is cruel to let him go on. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
It is a nature to tell others about yourself; Therefore, it is an education to take seriously what others tell you about yourself. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind; A kind and friendly way is easier to change others' minds than any violence. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
If you are right, try to make the other person agree with you tactfully and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
When you think about what you want to say, be polite, because it will buy time. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Argument may be a shortcut between two hearts. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Speech is like playing a harp: you need to fiddle with the strings to play music, and you need to hold the strings with your hands to keep quiet. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
It is a quick and simple way to impress people and an inevitable requirement to integrate their enthusiasm and experience into the conversation. If you are not interested in your own words, how can you expect others to be moved? Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Listening to the other person's opinions or comments is respect, because it shows that we think the other person is insightful, eloquent and intelligent, on the contrary, dozing off, walking away or gossiping is contempt. Look at the details
Interpersonal communication
Silence is a philosophy of life, and it is also an art to use it well. Look at the details.
Interpersonal communication
5. Famous sayings about communication 1. As long as you believe in yourself, others will believe in you.
Cindy Williams
2. The so-called "listening" means "listening"
Emerson
3. "Eloquence" is the ability to translate truth into language, and the language used can make the listener fully understand.
Emerson
When I talk to a group of people or the mass media, I always pretend to have a heart-to-heart conversation with "one person"
Effective communication depends on the communicator's full mastery of the topic, not the sweetness of the wording.
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6. The best way to encourage yourself is to encourage others.
-Mark Twain 2. When you think about what you want to say, be polite, because it will buy you time. Carol 3. Be careful of the person who makes you chatter.
-Franck, Cesar McKinney Hubbard 4. Defending a fault often makes it particularly serious, just like mending a small hole with a piece of cloth, but so does the broken glass. Classic quotations of celebrities about communication.
-Shakespeare 5. Conversation, like composition, has a theme, a draft, a hierarchy, a beginning and an end, and cannot be incoherent. -Liang Shiqiu 6. Heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul.
-Wen 7. Sometimes, in order to be heard, you have to keep silent. -stanislav J.
Rick 8. Silence is a philosophy of life. If used properly, it is also an art.-Zhu Ziqing 9. Managers who are good at communication may also be good at covering up real problems.
-Cullis Agelis 10 If you want to be an excellent talker, be a greeting listener first. Classic quotations of celebrities about communication.
-Dale Carnegie 1 1. If you want others to like you, if you want others to be interested in you, you should pay attention to one thing: talk about things that others are interested in. -Dale Carnegie 12. If you are right, try to make the other person agree with you tactfully and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically.
This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. -(America) Carnegie 13. Listening to each other's opinions or comments is respect, because it shows that we think each other is eloquent and intelligent. On the contrary, dozing off or gossiping is contempt.
-(British) Hobbes 14. Proper choice of words is extremely powerful. Whenever we use the right words, great changes will take place in our body and mind, just between lightning and Shi Huo. -Mark Twain 15 As we all know, listening is very important for communication.
But few organizations will seriously listen to the opinions of employees and customers. -William Nichols 16, everyone needs someone to talk to him openly.
Although a person can be brave, he can also be lonely. -Hemingway 17. Talking is like playing a harp: you need to fiddle with the strings to play music, and you need to hold the strings with your hands to keep quiet.
-Holmes 18. It is a quick and simple way to impress people and an inevitable requirement to integrate one's enthusiasm and experience into the conversation. If you are not interested in your own words, how can you expect others to be moved?
-Dale Carnegie 19. If you want to change your life, you must choose your words carefully, because these words can make you full of energy and optimistic. -(America) anthony robbins 20. The most basic function of managers is to develop and maintain a smooth communication channel.
-Barnard 2 1, asking questions will only cause temporary embarrassment. Not asking questions will make your life awkward.
-Japan 22, tell others themselves, this is nature; Therefore, it is an education to take seriously what others tell you about yourself. -Goethe 23. When I talk to a group of people or the mass media, I always pretend that I am having a heart-to-heart conversation with [a person].
-Barber 24, when you give advice to others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, so much the better. It is impolite to interrupt a fool and shut him up, but it is cruel to let him go on.
Franklin is 26 years old. You won't hear any bad news about your company unless you ask questions. It's easy to hear the good news, but dig up the bad news.
-George W. Thomas J. Watson 27. Effective communication depends on the communicator's full grasp of the topic, not the sweetness of the wording.
-Grove 28, unwilling to be reasonable is stubborn; People who can't reason are fools; Dare not reason is a slave. -drummond 29, [Eloquence] is the ability to turn truth into language, and the language used can make the listener fully understand.
Emerson is 30 years old. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. -Dale Carnegie 3 1, the ideal friend is a person who admires each other in temperament, communicates with each other in mind, is in tune with each other in world outlook and has the same career goals.
-Sunday 32. Whenever possible, information should be transmitted directly from the sender to the receiver. -Danglao L.
Kirk Patrick is 33 years old. In the space age, the most important space is between the ears. -Thomas J. Baru 34. Judgment is more important than eloquence in conversation.
-grecia is 35 years old. The worse the news is, the more efforts should be made to spread it. Andrew s
36 grove. Talking to people once is often more enlightening than working behind closed doors for many years. Ideas must be produced in communication with people, but processed and expressed in loneliness.
-lev tolstoy 37. Many hidden secrets are revealed through the eyes rather than through the mouth. Emerson is 38 years old. One must know what to say, one must know when to say it, one must know to whom to say it, and one must know how to say it.
-Drucker, the father of modern management. Argument may be a shortcut between two hearts. Haji Bolen is 40 years old. Judge a person by his questions, not by his answers.
-Voltaire 4 1, find yourself and keep your true colors. Dale Carnegie is 42 years old. Many things are lost by not asking questions.
-Britain 43. It will be a kind of happiness to ask anyone for advice and tell your own pain, which can be compared with the happiness of unfortunate people crossing the hot desert and receiving a drop of cold water from the sky. 44 Stendhal. In real life, some people have communication barriers because they don't understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important.
Dale Carnegie