An effective apology is not a trick to defend yourself, let alone to get forgiveness from others. You must have a sense of responsibility, dare to blame yourself, and dare to admit your mistakes in order to apologize sincerely.
2. Use clear and correct words, not inflammatory words.
Usually what the injured person wants is that you admit your mistake and show that it won't happen again. Therefore, when apologizing in words, it is not helpful to pay attention to too many emotional words. The key point of apology is to send a clear, direct and sincere apology message.
3. Know where you are wrong.
Think about what you did wrong and hurt others. It would be better to recognize the mistake clearly and apologize in a targeted way.
4. Think about the angle of apology.
Apologize can be role-to-role or person-to-person, depending on which situation is easier. For example, two executives of a company have a language conflict. If one of them is still angry with the other, he can stand in his own position and express to the other: "We both work in a good company, and I should know more about our differences. Sorry, I was rude just now. " In this way, even if the other party is still in Yu Nu, the atmosphere of opposition has been relatively relaxed.
5. Take concrete actions to compensate.
It's a good idea to give each other small gifts and invite each other to dinner. Concrete actions can show your sincerity.
6. If you feel that you can't say sorry, you can use other ways instead.
A bunch of flowers can thaw the past; Putting a small gift on the other person's dining table or pillow can show remorse or love. People can express their feelings by touching without speaking. This is the so-called "silence is better than sound".
7. Apologizing is not a shame, but a sign of sincerity.
Great people sometimes apologize. Churchill had a bad impression on Truman at first, but later he told Truman that he had underestimated him before, which was an apology compliment.
8. apologize in time
If you feel that someone has offended you and the other person has not apologized, then you should be calm, don't be unhappy and don't be angry. Maybe the other party is embarrassed to apologize.
9. exaggerate your shortcomings
The more you exaggerate your mistakes, the more the other person will forgive you. (inspirational quotations)
10, a straightforward apology.
If you do something wrong or say something wrong, you can directly and honestly apologize to the other party. You can apologize to the other party with words like "I'm sorry" and "I was wrong". This sincere and frank attitude is easy to be understood by the other party.
1 1. If you are not wrong, don't admit your mistake to avoid trouble.
This practice is not good for anyone. You should distinguish between being deeply sorry and having to apologize. There are some things you can regret, but don't apologize.
12, ask others to apologize for you.
If it is inconvenient for you to come forward, you can ask a third party for help. You can give your apology or hint to another friend who is familiar to both of you and ask him to apologize to each other for you.
13. Written apology
Sometimes "I'm sorry" is not enough. Writing on paper carries more weight than saying. You can write an apology letter or email to the other party to express your sincere apologies. This face-to-face conversation can not only achieve the purpose of apology, but also avoid some embarrassing scenes.
14, praising each other's generosity.
After being praised, most people will unconsciously do what they say.
15, correct mistakes and get forgiveness.
Some mistakes can't be forgiven by apologizing to each other. While apologizing to the other party, it is often the most sincere, direct and convincing to take practical actions to correct mistakes.
16, give the other party a chance to vent their unhappiness.
Letting the other person scold you and vent your anger is a good way to save friendship. Otherwise, dissatisfaction will accumulate in your chest. If you persist for several years, you and the other party will never get back together.
2. Famous aphorisms about repentance and apology What famous aphorisms about returning to China and apologizing are summarized as follows:
1. Only in old age, the heavy mission of life has been unloaded, the joys and sorrows of life have been clearly seen, and the world of mortals has moved far away. The quiet surroundings and the gradually slowing pace of life constitute a slight harmony of summary and induction, and the artistic conception of poetry appears. -Yu
The most experienced person can't see his back. -Africa
Only by turning the mood of complaining about the environment into the driving force of progress is the guarantee of success. -romain rolland
There are only a few kinds of joy and happiness in the world, but there are thousands of different kinds of pain in thousands of tears. Tears that can't be opened can only be solved by time. -San Mao
Complacency, conceit and credulity are the three reefs of life. -Balzac
6. The more incompetent people are, the more they like to find fault with others. -Ireland
7. Only when you have suffered deeply can you feel the pain of others, so you seldom reflect on yourself. Xi Juan
8. Be careful, even when you are alone, don't speak ill or do bad things, and learn to be more ashamed in front of yourself than others. -democritus
9. Self-esteem, self-consciousness and self-control can lead to the lofty realm of life. -Tennyson
10. Maybe one person said you were not convinced, and two people said you were not convinced. When many people are talking, you should reflect. There must be something wrong with you. —— Ma Yun
1 1. We have taken many detours, and entrepreneurs and operators of enterprises should deeply reflect on this. -Wang Xuan
12. introspection is a mirror, which can clearly show our mistakes and give us a chance to correct them. Heine
13. Being exposed is a failure, but exposing yourself is a victory. Hugo
14. The surest hope often ends in disappointment; The last thing you want will succeed unexpectedly. -Shakespeare
15. Sit still and think about yourself. Gossip is not personal. -"Augmented Sage"
16. It's never too late to correct mistakes. -Shakespeare
17. If you don't judge yourself, you won't judge others. -Germany
3. Mastering the knowledge of apology and using the skills of apology correctly will make your life full of sunshine.
1. Dare to take responsibility and apologize effectively is not a trick to defend yourself and cheat others to forgive. You must have a sense of responsibility, dare to blame yourself, and admit your mistakes before you can sincerely apologize. 2. Use clear and correct words, not inflammatory words.
Usually what the injured person wants is that you admit your mistake and show that it won't happen again. Therefore, when apologizing in words, it is not helpful to pay attention to too many emotional words.
The key point of apology is to send a clear, direct and sincere apology message. 3. Know where you are wrong. Think about where you are wrong and hurt others.
It would be better to recognize the mistake clearly and apologize in a targeted way. 4. Think about the angle of apology. Apologize can be role-to-role or person-to-person, depending on which situation is easier.
For example, two executives of a company have a language conflict. If one of them is still angry with the other, he can stand in his own position and express to the other: "We both work in a good company, and I should know more about our differences. Sorry, I was rude just now. "
In this way, even if the other party is still in Yu Nu, the atmosphere of opposition has been relatively relaxed. It's a good idea to take concrete actions to compensate each other, such as giving each other small gifts and inviting each other to dinner.
Concrete actions can show your sincerity. 6. If you feel that you can't say sorry, you can use other ways instead.
A bunch of flowers can thaw the past; Putting a small gift on the other person's dining table or pillow can show remorse or love. People can express their feelings by touching without speaking. This is the so-called "silence is better than sound". 7. Apologizing is not a shame, but a sign of sincerity.
Great people sometimes apologize. Churchill had a bad impression on Truman at first, but later he told Truman that he had underestimated him before, which was an apology compliment. 8. Apologize in time If you feel that someone has offended you and the other person has not apologized, then you should be calm, don't be unhappy and don't be angry. Maybe the other party is embarrassed to apologize.
9. Exaggerate your mistakes. The more you exaggerate your mistakes, the more the other person will forgive you. (inspirational quotations) 10, a straightforward apology. If there is anything wrong or something wrong, you can apologize directly to the other party openly.
You can apologize to the other party with words like "I'm sorry" and "I was wrong". This sincere and frank attitude is easy to be understood by the other party. 1 1. If you are not wrong, don't admit your mistake to avoid trouble.
This practice is not good for anyone. You should distinguish between being deeply sorry and having to apologize. There are some things you can regret, but don't apologize.
12, ask others to apologize for you. How do you seek help from a third party? You can give your apology or hint to another friend who is familiar to both of you and ask him to apologize to each other for you.
13. Apologize in writing. Time to say "I'm sorry" is not enough. Writing on paper carries more weight than saying.
You can write an apology letter or email to the other party to express your sincere apologies. This face-to-face conversation can not only achieve the purpose of apology, but also avoid some embarrassing scenes.
14. Praise each other's generosity. After being praised, most people will unconsciously do what they say. 15. Correct mistakes and get forgiveness. Some mistakes can't be forgiven by apologizing to each other. While apologizing to the other party, it is often the most sincere, direct and convincing to take practical actions to correct mistakes.
16. It's a good way to save friendship to give the other party a chance to vent their unhappiness and let them scold you and vent their anger. Otherwise, dissatisfaction will accumulate in your chest. If you persist for several years, you and the other party will never get back together.
4. What poems describe apologies? 1, a moment that should last forever, has come and gone unconsciously. -Tang Li Shangyin's "Jinse"
Those beautiful things and years can only stay in memories. At that time, those people thought those things were just ordinary, but they didn't know how to cherish them.
2. Young married women in boudoir never worry, and they wear makeup on the green floor in spring. Suddenly I saw the green willows, and I felt uncomfortable; Oh, I regret that I shouldn't have asked my husband to find Hou Feng. -Tang Wang Changling "in my heart forever"
Young women in boudoir never have the worry of lovesickness and parting. On a bright spring day, she dressed herself up and boarded a tall building. Suddenly, when I saw the spring scenery of willows on the roadside, I felt blue. She regretted that she shouldn't have let her husband join the army.
3, regret the rest of the words will be said, hate every time do not want to chase, heartache. -Modern Anonymous "Sorry"
I regret what I said at the beginning, and I regret it every time I think about it. But your heart cannot be restored. I miss the moment when we meet again. I want to break my soul with tears.
4, once the sea was difficult for water, amber forever. Hurried through the flowers, lazy to look back; This reason is partly because of the ascetic monk, and partly because of who you used to be. -Don "From Thinking"
Once I have seen the vast sea, I feel that the water elsewhere is dwarfed; Once I experienced the clouds in Wushan, I felt that the clouds in other places were eclipsed. Even among the flowers, I am too lazy to look back. Maybe it's because of the monastery, maybe it's because of you.
5, knowing that your heart is like the sun and the moon, the husband vows to live and die together. Return your double beads, my eyes are full of tears, and I regret not meeting you before I got married. -Yin Jiefu sent to Dongping Lishi Island in the Tang Dynasty.
Although I know you are sincere and frank, I have vowed to live and die with my husband. I cried when I returned your double beads. I regret not meeting you before I got married.