People live in a secular environment, and each has its own experience. Men and women are always leading roles or supporting roles. Throughout Su Dongpo's life, he was able to go with his nature, act spontaneously, and get alcohol by drinking turbid wine, which should be said to have a great relationship with the six women he knew in his life.
It is necessary to mention his relationship with a man first. This man's name is Zhang Dun. They were friends when they were young, but later they became political enemies because Zhang Dun was jealous of Su Dongpo's talent.
During Shao Shengyuan's reign, when Zhang Dun was in power, he joined a gang of villains to launch a comprehensive persecution against the old minister of Yuan You, and Su Dongpo was the first person to operate. Su Dongpo was demoted to Lingnan, 1,500 miles away, and he was degraded all the way. The most exasperating thing is that when Su Dongpo's family ran aground by Poyang Lake, the fourth demotion order came down, and the shipping officer was ordered to take back their official ship and drive away.
He lived in Lingnan for seven years, and went into exile in Huizhou and Danzhou successively, and suffered a lot. His concubine got into trouble with him and left before him. It was not until April of the third year of Fu Yuan that he was forgiven and returned to the north.
On the way back to the north, he learned that Zhang Dun was also demoted a year ago, and the place of demotion was also in Lingnan. When he returned to Jingjiang and was welcomed by people, he received a letter from Bird. Bird is Zhang Dun's son and Su Dongpo's protege. He was on his way to visit his father in Lingnan. In his letter, Bird described the reason why he was afraid to come to see Su Dongpo. He was worried that Su Dongpo would retaliate against his father once he regained power. Su Dongpo wrote back a letter to Bird, in which there was a passage: "A certain prime minister and I have been friends for forty years. Although the source is slightly different, the friendship has not increased, but decreased. It is known that he was sent to the corner of the sea when he was in senior three. But what are the benefits of the past? Only things that have never happened before. " That broad mind can really touch the world. Therefore, Mr. Lin Yutang believes that this incident, together with his book against infanticide to Zhu Shouchang and Yuan You's book requesting forgiveness of the debts of the poor to Empress Dowager Cixi in seven years, are three humanitarian spiritual documents of Su Dongpo.
Su Dongpo is such a person, naturally loved and supported by six women. It's not surprising.
These six women can be divided into two groups in groups of three. All three in the former group are empresses, and three in the latter group are his wives and concubines.
The first one in the former group is Empress Injong, the empress dowager of Zongshen. Xining Yuanfeng for three years, Su Dongpo as Huzhou. A group of villains, such as Li Ding and Xu Shu of Yushitai, took Su Dongpo to Beijing for trial and put him in prison on the pretext of contempt for the court in several poems. This is the famous Wutai poetry case in history. These little people even suggested that the emperor sentence him to death. In fact, Zongshen never had the idea of killing Su Dongpo; At this moment, the empress dowager, who had always supported Su Dongpo, fell ill and died. Before she died, she said to the emperor: "I remember when Su Dongpo was a scholar, the first emperor was very happy and told his family that he had found two prime ministers for future generations." Now I heard that Su Dongpo was questioned for writing poems. It's all villains who treat him. They can't find fault with his achievements and want to blame him with his poems. Is this accusation too meaningless? Don't be a good man, God forbid. " Because of the last words of Empress Dowager Cixi, Su Dongpo spent four months and twenty days in prison before he was released from prison.
On March 5, 2008, Zongshen died. The new emperor Zhezong was only nine years old and was regent by his grandmother and Empress Yingzong. The queen mother, like her mother-in-law, attached great importance to Su Dongpo, and promoted him three times in eight months, from a seven-level suggestion to a three-level academician. However, trees attract the wind. At this time, years of factional disputes gradually became clear, and the Shuo Party, Luo Party and the so-called Shu Party headed by Su Dongpo were formed. The two parties, Shuo and Luo, joined forces to deal with Su Dongpo. They submitted a report to Empress Dowager Cixi, demanding that Su Dongpo be interrogated and accusing him of disrespecting two former emperors, Renzong and Zongshen. However, Empress Dowager Cixi kept silent, and she put those letters on the shelf. However, if Su Dongpo didn't go, Xinyue, Luodang and Wang Anshi would have no future, so they launched an offensive against Su Dongpo again. As the old saying goes, if you are outnumbered, you will be outnumbered. Su Dongpo decided to leave Kyoto. Yuan You worked for four years, and after his repeated entreaties, the court finally allowed him to be appointed as the magistrate of Hangzhou with a bachelor's degree, leading the west of Zhejiang. Four years later, Empress Dowager Cixi died, 18-year-old Zhezong came to power, and the young new emperor was controlled by a group of traitors, so Su Dongpo began another round of relegation career. This time, it is the far-reaching Lingnan mentioned above.
Until the third year of Fu Yuan, 24-year-old Zhezong died, his younger brother Hui Zong succeeded to the throne, and the new queen mother (after Zhezong and Hui Zong's mother Zongshen) was regent, and all Yuan You veterans were pardoned. Su Dongpo ended his wandering and set off for the north.
In fact, for Su Dongpo, several emperors have different degrees of love, but the overall attitude is vacillating, and only three queens firmly support him. Maybe they are women, and women's simple wisdom can distinguish right from wrong better, and they can distinguish good from evil better in North Korea. They grew up in the imperial court, and they couldn't hear the Confucian scholars arguing about national policies, so they were upset and couldn't tell the difference between gains and losses. Because of this, they can judge the main trend of Ming and Qing dynasties. Similarly, women are more knowledgeable because of their pure wisdom. Critics and historians, obsessed with concise words and abstract features, sometimes forget people's ultimate judgment; Empresses, relying on women's intuition, can make a correct definition of people on the basic point of good or bad.
Su Dongpo's life is not too muddy, but he can taste the mellow of the three queens, which is Su Dongpo's blessing; Three queens can taste Su Dongpo's mellow wine. Isn't it a blessing for them and the court?
Su Dongpo's happiness is not only that he met three wise queens, but also that he was cared for and supported by the latter group of women all his life. These are his three concubines.
Miss Wang Fu married Su Dongpo at the age of fifteen and died at the age of twenty-six. For eleven years, it can be said that all her thoughts are on her husband. Although Mrs. Su's youngest husband is three years older, he is far superior to her husband in practical affairs and clear interests. She knows that her husband is smart in big things and confused in small things, but often many small things make up life. This lady is particularly knowledgeable; Su Dongpo has visitors. She often hides behind the screen and listens with bated breath. After the guests leave, she will tell her husband that someone speaks well to cater to you; Someone is really sincere to you and can become bosom friends. Later, it turned out that Mrs. Su's observation was so accurate! Mrs. Su believes in the truth that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, because water has no stimulating taste, but people will never hate it. Sincere friendship needs no special expression. Su Dongpo was very sad about the death of his wife. Ten years later, he wrote the song "Jiangchengzi", "Ten years of life and death are two boundless ..." This is really a swan song.
Su Dongpo's second wife is the cousin of his deceased wife, whose name is Runzhi. This is another very virtuous lady. In order to take good care of Su Dongpo, she spent several years trying to figure out her husband's character. She knew that her husband had been thinking about one of his cousins. She also knows that her husband, like many literati, likes women and makes friends with geisha, but she trusts him and believes that he is not a promiscuous person. Hu Quan, a gentleman, returned from exile for ten years and wrote two poems: "Fortunately, I am drunk here, and there are micro-vortexes on my cheeks." Zhu then sighed: "I haven't seen you for ten years. Although the rivers and seas are light, I am passionate about pear vortex. People who are not familiar with the world want to save the day, and several people come here to make mistakes. " Su Dongpo obviously disapproves of Zhu's practice. He said: "Su Ziqing ate a snow blanket and her back bled. She said nothing and bent slightly. It can be said that it is a moment of life and death, but it is inevitable that she will live a poor life at sea for the sake of Khufu. " At the request of geisha, he often writes poems on their evening dresses and even shawls. For example: "Stop to listen to the pipa, twist it gently, get drunk and melt in spring, and the river shines a little red." But he never wrote those colorful poems written by Huang Tingjian.
Leap's wife is the daughter of a scholar and can read and write, but she knows that she is by no means a scholar. She only cooks Meizhou food for her husband and ginger tea that he likes to drink. She gave birth to two sons for her husband, but took the son left by her cousin as her own. When their three sons were thirty-four, twenty-three and twenty-one, Mrs. Leap completed her mission and passed away. Needless to say, Su Dongpo was heartbroken again. In "To pay tribute to his dead wife, Wen Jun of Tongan County", he said that she was "both a woman and a mother" and her three sons were like one, and love fell from the sky. Traveling from me to the south, I am happy to take a bath. Tom two counties, looking at the face happily. I said, "Go home, go back to Yuan Qiu." . I had a lot of needs, so I was abandoned first. Whoever welcomes us will feed us. I was helpless, and my tears dried up. "
Su Dongpo is also lucky. He has a concubine facing the clouds. After the death of the two ladies, he only had Chao Yun, who was actually his wife. Chaoyun, also surnamed Wang, is a girl from Hangzhou. Qin Shaoyou said that the clouds are as beautiful as a spring garden and the eyes are like the morning light. Su Dongpo is far away in Lingnan, thanks to the morning clouds. At that time, Su Dongpo was 57 years old and Chaoyun was only 3 1 year old, which was the prime of life. Su Dongpo was very interested in yoga and alchemy in his early years, and he was even more fascinated at this time. He not only loves simple life, but also thinks that only pure thoughts are the foundation of simple life. This also affected Chaoyun. Since she was born two years ago, Su Dongpo began to sleep alone and stopped being close to women. However, Chaoyun was young after all and was caught in a dilemma in religion, but she finally reached an agreement with Su Dongpo, so Su Dongpo called her "the goddess of Vimo". They sublimated their love to the height of religion, and Su Dongpo wrote a poem "Yan Ren Corner" for Chaoyun, which is a literary confession of their religious love.
On July 5, the second year of Shao Sheng, Su Dongpo was still in Huizhou, far from ending his suffering. After serving Su Dongpo for twenty-three years, Chaoyun left him at the age of thirty-four. Su Dongpo once again suffered the pain of losing his wife, widowed to death, and never remarried.
Su Dongpo's three wives are also three glasses of wine given to him by creation.
It is a blessing for Su Dongpo, a genius, to drink so much turbid wine and still be able to taste six glasses of wine in his life. Su Dongpo said: "Is life like this everywhere? It should be like Hong Fei stepping on the snow. If you accidentally leave your toes and claws in the mud, Hong Fei will lose count. " Su Dongpo has long passed away, and his name is just a distant memory. But people are different from ancient times to modern times. Facing the troubled times is a common problem for ancient people and modern people. In the final analysis, human life is the life of the soul; Mind is a kind of power, which forms an individual's career and character. It can be said that it is innate and externalized from the experience in life. This may be the ultimate reason why people once existed in this world. I think, we don't have to have the greatness of Su Dongpo, and we don't have to have his luck, but "wine should not be too turbid, people should take wine as the foundation", which should always be an attitude towards life that we should pursue in the world of mortals.