It is said that children are made of water. I really felt this sentence in junior high school and practiced it countless times. Every time I am made to cry by her ... I feel that 175% of my tears in my life were contributed to her when I was in junior high school. Like other friends, we have a lot of friction, but nine times out of ten, she ignores me inexplicably. Others have reasons to create conflicts. As a result, when they came to us, they said, "I don't know why, but they are gone forever." After quarreling, most of them bury the hatchet, then make up, or hurt each other, and then die of old age. ?
? But there is usually a cold war between us. She didn't talk to me at all, just ignored me. Then she sulked and knocked on the door, bed, table, chair and wall with her hand, hurting herself with one hand. The end result is mostly that I apologize. Although I don't know what I did wrong now, I will write her a lot of small notes and she will reply to me ... I don't deserve to be friends with me, and you are.
We are in this state. In junior high school for three years, she was very nice. We had a good relationship at first, and then we quarreled.
Later, high school was in the same school, so I stopped pestering her. I don't want to live her inexplicable cold war life. Slowly, our relationship will be restored.
In fact, my advice is that you all calm down. She doesn't want to talk to you now. If you look for her again, it will only make her hate you more. Maybe she really doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, or maybe she has some difficulties. Let's talk about it later. If she still ignores you, forget it! She would rather believe other people's gossip than your feelings, so don't be such a friend. Then don't live like Lin Daiyu all day, find something else to do and divert your attention. Go out to play with old friends! You should also know that no one will always be with you, just leave! You have tried your best to keep it, and you won't regret remembering this friendship in the future.
Life is like this. If someone goes, someone will come. Don't always cling to the past. Open-minded once in a while, don't care too much, she doesn't know if you are uncomfortable again! Even if you want to make up with her, now is not the time. You'd better think about whether you have done anything to alienate her. You have to find the reason to prescribe the right medicine! Don't blindly do something useless.
Finally, I hope everyone will cherish the people around them who are good to themselves.