It's raining hard. The wind is howling. I walked in the rain. Gradually. There is a little boy of three or four years old in front. Emerged in front of my eyes, he struggled to push the small four-wheeled bicycle and drove slowly forward. -plop, he fell off the car, but he was not depressed, nor did he yearn for his father to help him get on the bus. Instead, I used my own strength to hold a small bike heavier than him, and finally-quickly got up. Unfortunately, however, the little bike fell down again before it stood firm, but his father did not relent when he saw this situation, but looked at his son with disdain. In the eyes of his son, his father is as proud as a giant. . After several falls, he finally stood up. He stood up on his own. Not rich in any impurities. His father, seeing this situation, smiled with relief, and I felt a little relieved. His son, staring at the little bike, slowly disappeared from my sight. Stay away from me.
In the drizzle, I ... felt touched and excited!
Yes, independence is the main job for every couple to raise their children. Why do so many doting parents make their children accustomed to the life of reaching for food with clothes? Let them bloom in the greenhouse? Become a seedling that dare not grow in the wind and rain. Become a young eagle who dare not fly in the blue sky? Parents who love their children too much! Wake up. You didn't love him by doing that. But to hurt him.
Independence is very important to each of us. Parents will only pay attention to their own satisfaction and become concerned about whether the needs of others are met. If you always think of your children, you won't argue with others because of a little gain and loss, so you can be modest. And cultivate children's independence, but if we cultivate independence for our own purposes, the result will only be counterproductive, and our needs will be met instead of creating psychological balance. Only by paying attention to others can you be talented.
It is still raining. . At this moment. My mood for walking is completely different from that at the beginning. Have another drink. Hesitate again. ...