What do lovers or lovers often do, and it is difficult to get to the end?

What do lovers or lovers often do, and it is difficult to get to the end? Whether a relationship can come to the end, in fact, has its own arrangements, and many things are doomed. I have always felt that such things as feelings can't be decided by one person. God only has arrangements. For example, whether you can be together and how long you walk together is related to some of your characteristics and cognition. Feelings are always mutual. We can get a general idea of your emotional state through the state of two people together and the mode of getting along. So whether lovers or couples can go to the end depends on these three points, and only those who have these three points can go on.

1, cynicism, poor communication A person's words and deeds expose his personality and mentor, and even affect the other half's opinion of you, because if you are properly trained, your usual words and deeds will make a person feel comfortable and never insult others. It is normal for two people to encounter a little contradiction together. If they quarrel all the time, they will not solve any problems, but will deepen the contradictions. So when they encounter problems, they should communicate well and say everything, no matter what the problem is.

The secret and key to getting along is communication. If there is no communication in love, this relationship is doomed not to last long. Constant ridicule, although the speaker feels very cool, but listening to others' ears makes people feel uncomfortable. This way of getting along will only accelerate the distance between two people. How can we have a long-term love?

2, haggle over every ounce, no one wants to suffer. Old people often say that suffering is a blessing, so there is still his reason in the past and today, but now the social model is getting faster and faster, and now young people are less and less conscious of giving in. Some young people and even couples will be very clear. In fact, this practice is unnecessary. The most correct way for two people to get along with each other is not to care about personal gains and losses, because there are two people in each relationship, and neither party has the final say. If a family wants to live in harmony, they must have the same goals and ideals, be able to act, be tolerant and tolerant, and then two people can go further together.

If in the process of getting along with your family, you still go your own way and haggle over every ounce, even if it is a complete family, there will be consequences of losing your family. Although the facts can speak, there are still many young couples in real life who care about every penny every day and even don't want to suffer losses in housework. After dinner in the evening, the two men ran around to see who wouldn't wash the dishes first.

In the long run, two people can't live together at all, and their feelings are naturally difficult to last. Since two people meet and come together in the vast sea of people, don't be too hasty, spend your time studying hard and improving yourself, and don't waste your time on meaningless trifles.