1, we were joking. A long time ago, one of us died, but suddenly, before my eyes, you left.
2, once the sea was difficult for water, amber forever.
3. The curtains are covered with dust, which is pitiful.
4. jade bone has been under the spring for a long time, and the ink mark is still locked in the wall.
5, who read the west wind alone cool, rustling yellow leaves close the window.
How to adjust the mood in the face of the death of the old man?
1. Accept the reality and conform to the laws of nature.
First of all, we should encourage them to recognize, face and accept this reality. Birth, aging, illness and death are the natural laws of the development of all living things, and no one can resist them, regardless of human subjective will. Only when people really face pain can they gain the power to reorganize their lives.
2. Experience pain and vent your sadness.
Feeling pain is a natural reaction. We shouldn't deliberately stop them from crying or venting their sadness, and we don't need too much comfort or trying to get them out of pain, because this is a process that everyone must go through. We should use an understanding and tolerant attitude to guide them to release their painful emotions in their own way, such as saying to them: cry if you want, don't hold it back.
3. Support companionship and maintain life order.
For those who have just lost their loved ones, what they need most is the company of their relatives and friends. Companionship can not only make them feel the support of others, but also help them maintain the rhythm of their daily life.
Excessive sadness often causes people to temporarily lose some of their life functions, such as not being able to cook, wash clothes and do housework as usual. At this time, someone is needed to help them deal with these things and maintain a normal lifestyle, which is conducive to helping them better restore normal life order.
4. Say goodbye and start a new life.
In order to get rid of psychological trauma as soon as possible, we can encourage them to express their memories of the deceased, and organize the good memories between them and the deceased into "books", put them in their hearts and read them at any time. When they are in a good mood, try to discuss their future life with them, encourage them to establish interpersonal relationships, participate in social activities, and devote themselves to new study, life and work to realize their self-worth and psychological satisfaction.