Hexagram: Prosperity, no blame, good luck. There will be benefits and future.
The five elements of Zhen Gua and Xun Gua both belong to wood. Zhen is a yang wood and is a strong wood, and Xun is a yin wood and is a slender wood. The upper and lower hexagrams, yin and yang, complement each other and support each other. The Zhen hexagram has the image of a tree trunk at the top, and the Xun hexagram has the image of a tree root at the bottom. Therefore, Heng Gua is like a towering tree that relies on its roots to continuously absorb nutrients to grow. The life span of ancient trees can extend for thousands of years, which is called eternity. The core of the longevity of timepieces is persistence. The moral character adhered to by the hexagrams itself is worthy of promotion. As long as you stick to the right path and there is no harm in perseverance, you can accomplish something.
If you get this hexagram today, it reminds you of a mature view of love. There are often friends around me who will say that it is too hard to have a relationship. Sometimes, even after putting in a lot of effort, you still don’t get the emotion and response you want. It’s better to be single and happy. Indeed, the reason why many people today are cautious and unwilling to enter a relationship easily is because they are tired, afraid, and afraid to experience the love cycle of love, disappointment, quarrels, cold wars, despair, and separation again. However, there are still many people around us who can enjoy love, constantly absorb nutrients in the process of getting along with each other, and constantly help each other grow and improve. In the long river of time, "our" relationship becomes more and more stable and more and more important. Two people, you and me, maintain individual independence; and we are "we", interdependent and independent of each other. We have our own areas of confidence and pride, but also mutual appreciation and learning from each other. I think this kind of relationship is the correct way to open love.
This kind of relationship is believed to be the ideal form of love in the minds of many people. So, how can we gain such beautiful love? My answer is to have a mature view of love. So what is a mature view of love? Learn to love yourself and love others. A few simple words, but they stumped countless men and women. Some people mistakenly regard love as the whole life, lose themselves in love, and only know how to cater to the other party blindly, and even kidnap the other party morally; some people will become insecure and express their own self-esteem through "acting" She has a sense of presence and dispels her doubts by secretly checking the other person's mobile phone; for others, as long as she feels that the other person's focus is not on her, she feels that this is a sign of lack of love. If the other person expresses that he hopes to have his own space, she will I feel like this is a sign to distance myself.
People with immature views on love will eventually "make" a relationship a failure. Analyzing the reasons, it is nothing more than not knowing how to love yourself and not knowing how to love others. Loving oneself here is not just being good to yourself, nor is it imposing your will on the other person to highlight yourself, but understanding yourself, knowing your strengths and weaknesses in relationships, facing problems, and reconciling with negative emotions. Avoid projecting your dissatisfaction and criticism of yourself on the other person, know clearly what you want, and be responsible for your own choices. To love others, you need to understand that no one is perfect. There is only the most suitable, not the best. Relationships need management and adjustment. When getting along, you should understand and be more tolerant of each other. You should also let the other person understand their own principles and bottom lines and fully respect them. Trust each other and continue to empower each other's feelings in order to achieve each other's success.
The essence of love is trust and freedom. Believe in yourself first, and then believe in the other person. Everyone is an independent individual and needs space and freedom. They also need to feel the love between two people. The flow of time, to sum up, is that one person is comfortable and two people are comfortable. If you want to meet the right person, you must first make yourself the right person in the eyes of others. The thunder and wind in Heng hexagram represent the eldest son and the eldest daughter respectively. Only mature love can bring lasting excitement. Time is passing, the world is changing, and we are constantly growing and adapting. If we want to have a lasting relationship, we must start by improving ourselves and gradually becoming mature.
By extension
When dealing with career, relationships, investments, and decision-making today, you should think about problems from a long-term perspective. After finding the right direction, you must stick to your own opinions and ideas, but it must be a good idea to be worth sticking to, otherwise it will become stubborn and the gain will not be worth the loss.