Self-awareness and environmental adaptation are lifelong things.
If you don't know yourself well as an adult, it is difficult to find a suitable partner quickly.
Arrogance comes from the lack of self-awareness, and prejudice comes from the lack of awareness of others. People who are considered arrogant are not more arrogant than those who are not, just because of mutual prejudice and deviation.
When we were young, we were all princesses and princes. I never dreamed that I was not Cinderella, but her sister. However, with the growth of age, people will gradually feel that there is a gap between self-cognition and other people's evaluation, so that people have to slowly correct their cognition: I am not a princess, I am not a prince.
People's self-cognition comes from people's social relations, from need and being needed, from satisfaction and being satisfied.
What people around us think of us plays a very important role in determining our self-awareness.
No matter how hard you work, how lonely and hopeless you are, you must never let yourself be mean. Emotional ups and downs are only temporary discomfort. Begging and compromise are often the beginning of self-awareness and the collapse of life value.
What we can't cross is the set of self-cognition without origin in our hearts, which imprisons ourselves in a boundary and repeats the same trajectory over and over again in a pattern.
Only failure can make people remember for a long time, and success will only confuse your self-cognition.
There is only one way for human beings not to be eliminated: to keep learning, changing and creating a brand-new self all their lives. This change is not only knowledge, but also self-awareness and personality.