The person who said these words has never stayed in these high-end hotels, but his tone seems to be familiar with them. Of course, the common sense of travel, to be honest, is known to all and will not be revealed too much. However, when it comes to literacy, many men can't help showing off, saying that they are "very connotative" in this respect. A writer once had a personal experience: he was drinking coffee in a coffee shop, and several men and women were sitting next to him. They are holding a newspaper with a trailer for a recently released American movie. This man is commenting on the film. His evaluation is nothing more than the director's skill, shooting angle and the handling of a shot. This man is eloquent and dancing, as if intoxicated with his superb "aesthetics".
In fact, what this person said is just a cliche, or just a description of the film reviews published in newspapers and magazines a few days later. This is the so-called "borrowed knowledge", which is now bought and sold.
If such a person dances in a ballroom where famous songs are played, he will never forget his evaluation of those songs. He will solemnly say "this passage is beautiful" to his female companion, and I like the way this passage is played best. Even if people here don't ask questions, he will skillfully explain, such as some parts of the band are not well played, how the recording is perfunctory and so on. It seems that he is very good at this. But if you really ask him, "What is Mozart's 753?" He will be speechless. Of course, there are also some men who talk nonsense when they encounter this kind of problem.
Why are men so willing to "pretend not to understand" and pretend to be experts? According to analysis, the main reasons are as follows:
First of all, men have the need to gain and satisfy the sense of superiority. Living in today's society, whether a person has a sense of superiority is a sign of his confidence. Only when a person surpasses others can he feel superior. But in reality, many men have little difference in their actual level, and there is nothing better than others, so they have to pretend to understand some problems and get the satisfaction of "superiority" from the audience's reaction
Many men prefer to show their rich experience and knowledge in front of the woman they like. On the other hand, it may be a good sign that he wants to win the favor of women. Therefore, when a man tries to show his "profound" knowledge in front of a woman, she can draw a positive conclusion: "He likes me."
A woman should not let such a man down too much. They'd better not expose his mistakes or knowledge defects rudely. If a woman exposes his tricks mercilessly, it is likely to dampen his enthusiasm and make him sit up and take notice of you, and dare not have the idea of further establishing a relationship. In fact, one can't master all the problems. This does not mean that he is really ignorant and becomes an expert in front of you to please you. You might as well pretend to listen carefully and let him go on. Of course, if you don't like this man at all, you will naturally have different opinions.
More than 90% men who consider themselves "intellectuals" will "show their knowledge and accomplishment" before expressing their love to the opposite sex. This is a love trip.