1. One day you will understand that anything related to the ending is just an acquaintance. Everyone is also accompanied by stages. People and things that can't be let go will be understated for you in the last years. The world has never felt the same way. You can be depressed, complain and even collapse, but you must know how to cure yourself.
It's never life that gets better, but yourself. When your heart is firm enough, no one can control your heart. Don't worry, encourage yourself to live a good life today. There are too many surprises in this world, and some things simply don't deserve your emotion. Life is in a hurry, so be sure to live well.
2. I like this passage in kazuo inamori's Advice to Young People: "Most people have a superficial understanding of the meaning of suffering. Suffering hardship is not poverty, but a person's ability to focus on a certain goal for a long time.
In this process, give up entertainment life, give up ineffective socialization, give up meaningless consumption and loneliness that is not understood in the process. Its essence is a kind of self-control, self-control, persistence and deep thinking ability. "I can persist in continuous cultivation, have the determination not to be disturbed by the secular, and have the patience to delay satisfaction. This is the real "bitterness".
3. A passage that cured me recently: "The modern Internet is too developed. We see too many high-scoring answers and think that this is the normal state, so we always subconsciously deny ourselves, but in fact, you are doing very well, so don't feel dim when you see others shine." People really don't need to compare. Nowadays, there are too many excellent people in all aspects, not to say that they are not eager to make progress, but to prevent themselves from falling into anxiety in comparison with others.
No one cares about you or you are inferior to others. You should try to be quiet and do what you should do, instead of letting your inner anxiety destroy your little enthusiasm.
Many times, luck may or may not come, but it doesn't affect the heart you should stick to. Pain is right, pain comes from dissatisfaction with the status quo. Only those who are not satisfied with the status quo will suffer, and those who suffer will have the desire to change all this. Anxiety is also right, indicating that you want to do better. It shows that you are pursuing high, with high vision and wide knowledge. Therefore, people who are in pain and anxiety are often the real you and me.
It takes courage and wisdom to realize that the present situation is not good enough and that the future will not be smooth sailing. You have to go the right way before you have a chance to choose what you like. I hope you can live a decent life and be kind in Chicheng. The night must be dark and cold, and there will be dawn ahead. When you can't see the future clearly, you persist longer than others.
6. A person will get different degrees of sense of accomplishment and income after different degrees of exercise. For example, the finer the spice, the stronger the fragrance. We were so eager for the waves of fate that we finally found the most beautiful scenery in life. Competition is inner calmness and calmness. We are so eager for recognition from the outside world that we finally understand that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
7. What I felt unbearable and faced before is now over. With this in mind, I am more convinced that I am far stronger than I thought. Life is nothing more than a bitter day. Just remember that everything I'm experiencing now is just a moment, and I will eventually return to calm after the stormy waves.
8. Sometimes we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by other people's emotions. Walking in the crowd, I always feel that there are countless sharp eyes and a lot of fleeting cold eyes, which eventually confuse our minds and gradually bind us in the mess we weave.
9. In fact, all good and bad are landscapes, all right and wrong are experiences, there is no incurable pain, there is no endless sinking, and all lost things will come back in another way. Sometimes life may be bad, others may be bad for you, but it doesn't mean that you will be bad for others. Where we can't see, there are many people who love and care about you. Face life calmly and calmly, be gentle and kind to people, and life will be more fulfilling.
10. I have seen such a sentence on the internet: No matter where you are, no matter who you are to, please try to be polite. It's like saying thank you to the waiter when he is silent in public. My friend lost his password. Turn around. Turn down the door when you go out. Don't yell at each other when you are emotional. I don't know what will happen to gentle people in the future, but it won't be bad. I hope you become a calm and gentle person, not only treat others gently, but also treat yourself gently when the cold is biting.