Because the previous "hero" was male by default, one side of the career line and the love line must overshadow the other, either making a name for itself or lying on the knee of a beautiful woman. In fact, in ancient times, women followed their fathers at home, married their husbands and died their sons. Their whole world is built on feelings, and there is no so-called "career". Therefore, some excellent women paid their feelings and got love, and the result was described as a femme fatale and a hero's grave. They can only say that they are heartbroken.
Now when we say that Gentle Township is the tomb of heroes, we don't really think of ourselves as heroes, nor do we think of each other as disasters. It's just that sometimes a man's enterprising spirit is really more important. Or flirting between couples.