What are the ugly old sayings behind the warning?

The old saying behind the warning is:

1, who is right and who is wrong, who is right and who is wrong.

Generally speaking, what is right or wrong is right or wrong. Proverbs mean people who say right and wrong. Since they speak ill of others in front of you, they will naturally speak ill of you in front of others. They are willing to tell people right and wrong, which is the reason for their excessive jealousy. In their hearts, they often hope that others will become more and more unlucky and embarrassed. Smart people don't confide in such people.

2, sit still and think about yourself and talk about people.

Sit still and always think about yourself, gossip is not aimed at people, proverb. It means that a person should always think about his own mistakes when sitting quietly, and don't say others' right and wrong when chatting with others.

3. Nobody talks behind anyone's back, and nobody talks behind anyone's back.

There is a saying in "Augmented Xianwen": "Whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs, no one talks about people behind their backs." It is common to be talked about behind people's backs and in front of others in life.

4. It is better to save the cold than to teach yourself.

There is nothing like self-study to keep out the cold and stop slander. The proverb means that nothing can keep out the cold like a thick leather coat, and nothing can avoid being vilified by others like forming good habits. Proverbs come from the reflection of Shu Wei Wang Changchuan. Shen Deqian's "Ancient Poetry Source Ancient Yi Poetry" takes this as "quoted from Wang Chang and Wei Zhi" to keep the cold and stop slandering Mo Ruo's self-study.

5. Give it, okay? I'm at a loss.

Are you all right in Duanmu's words? I have no leisure to talk about others. Source: In The Analects of Confucius, Zi Gong talked about others, and Confucius said so.