02. Ling Zhi by Gui Youguang in the Ming Dynasty: There were loquat trees in the courtyard, which were planted by my wife in the year of her death, and now they are as graceful as a cover.
03. Zhang Ji's "Female Fu" in the Tang Dynasty: I returned your pearls with tears, and I didn't marry and didn't meet your hatred.
04. Cuihu Lake in Tang Dynasty, titled "South Village of Beijing": Today last year, at this gate, peach blossoms set each other off. Today, I came here again. I don't know where the girl went. Only the peach blossoms are still there, smiling in full bloom in the spring breeze.
05. Yu Xin, a poet of the Northern Zhou Dynasty, wrote Ode to the Dead Tree: In the past, I planted willows, which made me feel the south of Han Dynasty. Now it seems to have fallen. I feel sorry for Jiang Tan. If trees are like this, why are people inferior? The content is taken from the story of Huan Wen, a great master of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" said: Huan Gong went north and passed through Jincheng. He used to plant willows when he saw evil spirits. Surrounded by ten people, he said, "With all this wood, why can people be inferior!" Climbing branches and hugging sticks, tears streaming down her face.
06, Jie Jiang's "Young Beauty": Teenagers listen to the song building and the rain, and the red candle is faint. In the prime of life, the boat is listening to the rain, and the wild geese in the river are called the west wind. Now listening to the rain monk Lu, there are stars on his temples. Sorrow and joy are always ruthless until dawn.
07. Su Shi mourned the death of his wife "Jiangchengzi": ten years of life and death were ambiguous, and he forgot without thinking. A lonely grave thousands of miles away, desolate and nowhere to talk about. Even if we don't know each other, our faces are dusty and our temples are frosty. At night, I suddenly dreamed of going home, and the window of Xiao Xuan was being decorated. Care for each other without words, only tears thousands of lines are expected to break the heart, and the moon and night are short and loose.
08. Yan's Linjiang Fairy: At that time, the bright moon was like a colorful cloud.
09. Nalanxingde's Huanxisha: At that time, only Tao was unusual.
10, Cui Jiao's "Give a Maid": Xiao Lang was a passer-by as soon as he left Houmen and entered the sea.
1 1, Ouyang Xiu's Life Checker: Last year's Lantern Festival, the flower market was full of lights. The moon rose to the willow tree, and he met me at dusk. On the moonlit night of January this year, the flowers and the moon remain the same. I will never see my old friend last year again, and my tears are soaked through my clothes.
12, Lu You wrote to his ex-wife Tang Wan's hairpin phoenix: red crisp hands, Huang Teng wine. Willow trees on the palace wall in spring in the city. Dong Feng Xie, who is in a bad mood, has been very depressed in recent years. No! No! No! Spring is the same, people are empty, and tears are red and sad. Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to hold books. Mo! Mo! Mo!
13, Yuan Zhen's "Leaving Thinking" in Tang Dynasty: Once the sea was difficult for water, it was amber forever. Hurried through the flowers, lazy to look back; This reason is partly because of the ascetic monk, and partly because of who you used to be.
14, Li Yu's Yu Meiren: When is the Spring Flower and Autumn Moon? How much is known about the past. The small building was easterly again last night, so my country could not bear to look back at the bright moon. Carved fences and jade bricks should still exist, but Zhu Yan changed them. Ask how much sorrow you can have, just like a river flowing eastward.
15, inscription of Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions: If you don't lament for me, I don't know if the flowers will die!
Finally, I really want to say a word to someone: how willing a person is to reveal his soul, including his vulnerability, is actually determined by the trust, care, attention and even intimacy of the relationship between people, but this "degree" is not equal between the two sides, and many times my enthusiasm is just my wishful thinking. In fact, I know that we are not even ordinary friends. Your so-called "friend" is just a word on the table. I don't want such words to appear on the table. I'd rather you hate me than be friends with you. "Friends"-it is a great harm to me.
2. Ancient prose 1. Lose hope; Disappointed.
Mencius said, "People are not disappointed if we can't get out of the way." Zhao Qi's Note: "Think about ways to benefit the people so that they don't lose hope." Biography of Emperor Gaozu in Historical Records: "When Xiang Yu went to the Western Ocean and set fire to Qin Gong in Xianyang, everything was broken. The Qin people were greatly disappointed. " In Wang Shizhen's Talk about Living in Louis in the Qing Dynasty: "When Qiu Cheng is disappointed, it tastes terrible." Cao Yu's Thunderstorm Scene 1: "Her eyes are often filled with the pain and resentment of a young woman who is disappointed."
2. unhappy because there is no hope of realization.
Jin's "The Fourth Period of Emperor Guangwu of Han Dynasty": "You look up at me, greet me and shake my hand, which is different from others. I am sincerely disappointed. " Wu Tongxuan's Biography of Old Tang Books and Wen Yuan: "Xuan Tong is extremely disappointed that he has worshipped Chinese books for a long time without remonstrating." Wang Xiyan's Fish Ghost: "Excessive extravagant hopes can only bring empty disappointment."
The idiom describing women losing confidence in men is disappointing.
dong chuang shi fa
This explanation shows that the initial hope was completely dashed.
The source "Historical Records Biography of Emperor Gaozu": "Qin people are disappointed."
Structural verb-object type.
Usage focuses on promising people; Can be used for people, things and things. Generally used as predicate, attribute and adverbial.
Synonyms are no longer popular.
The antonym is overjoyed, overjoyed, satisfied, satisfied.
~ and "things go against one's wishes"; Both have the meaning of "disappointment". But ~ emphasizes that all hopes have failed: "things go against one's wishes" emphasizes that the development of things goes against one's subjective wishes.
Example: Tonight's basketball exhibition will be cancelled temporarily. Make vermicelli.
4. What should we say to a person who has lost confidence in life, so that he can have unlimited potential for everyone, just as energy is hidden in the seabed and in the mountains, and it needs to be developed to show it. When the Buddha enlightened, he said: All beings in the world have wisdom and virtue, and everyone can become a Buddha. People can become buddhas, so why not? Therefore, everyone has unlimited potential, just to be explored and developed by himself.
How to develop our potential?
First, affirm the value of life: our life has unlimited value. We shouldn't think that we are only five or six feet tall. How capable can we be? How much can you do? In fact, life has unlimited value. A small civilian can spin Kun, and sometimes a soldier can make great contributions. Therefore, we must affirm ourselves and believe in ourselves in order to make great contributions to the country and society and achieve great things for ourselves.
Second, evaluate yourself honestly: we should constantly measure ourselves and evaluate ourselves to see how much potential we can exert and how much strength we can achieve. You don't have to hold back, you don't have to worry, you just need to evaluate yourself objectively and then give full play to yourself.
Third, cultivate a clear mind: people are often addicted to secular material desires, confused by secular emotions, and blinded by their true nature. Now we should get rid of the dust and filth in our hearts and cultivate our pure hearts to show our potential.
4. Face the reality bravely: Some people often lament that the world is cold and human feelings are warm and cold, and feel that it is difficult to gain a foothold in society and that the reality is too cruel. In fact, as long as we live with a normal heart, as long as we give full play to our potential, as long as we do a good job of self-evaluation and then face the reality bravely, how can we live a leisurely life? It depends on whether we have the confidence and courage to face the reality and problems.
Therefore, to develop our potential, we must:
First, affirm the value of life.
Second, evaluate yourself honestly.
Third, cultivate a clear mind.
Fourth, face the reality bravely.
1, raise the target
What really motivates you to make progress is to set a grand and specific goal. Many people are surprised to find that the reason why they can't achieve their goals is because their main goals are too small and vague, which makes them lose their initiative. If your main goal can't stimulate your imagination, then the realization of the goal will be in the foreseeable future.
Step 2 get out of your comfort zone
Constantly seeking challenges, the body will undergo wonderful changes, thus gaining new motivation and strength. However, don't always want to have fun outside yourself. What makes you happy is not elsewhere, but on you. So, find out your high emotional period to constantly motivate yourself.
3. Choose your friends carefully
Stay away from "friends" who don't support your goals. The people you associate with will change your life. Make friends with people who wish you happiness and success, and you will gain more on the road of life. Passion for life is infectious. Therefore, with optimistic people, we can see more hope in life.
4. Face the crisis bravely
Crisis can inspire us to do our best. Ignoring this phenomenon, we often foolishly create a comfortable lifestyle and make our life calm. Of course, we don't have to wait for the crisis or tragedy, and challenging ourselves from the heart is the source of our life strength.
5, Seiko fine pen
Creating yourself is like painting a huge picture. Don't be afraid to be meticulous. If you think you are a masterpiece in creation, you will be happy to make changes in a subtle way. Doing a little thing differently will also make you excited. In short, no matter how small you change, a little bit is very important to you.
6. Dare to make mistakes
Sometimes we don't do something because we are not sure to do it well. When we feel "out of shape" or lack of energy, we often put aside what we have to do or wait for inspiration. If there is something you know you need to do, but you are not excited, then do it, and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Give yourself a little self-deprecating humor. Treat things that you can't do well with a playful mood. Once you do it, you will definitely enjoy it.
7. Strengthen rehearsal
Rehearse a battle that is more complicated than the situation you have to face. If you have a difficult job and you are hesitant, you might as well choose a more difficult one in advance. What does life challenge you? You can definitely use it to challenge yourself. In this way, you can open up a road to success. The true meaning of success is: the harder you are to yourself, the more tolerant life will be to you; The more tolerant you are to yourself, the harsher life will be to you.
8. Meet your fears
The most secret experience in the world is that after overcoming fear, something safe and beneficial will happen. Even overcoming a little fear will enhance your confidence in creating your own life ability. If you try to escape from fear, they will run after you like a mad dog. At this point, the most terrible thing is to close your eyes and pretend not to exist.
9, grasp the mood
When people are happy, their bodies will undergo wonderful changes, thus gaining new motivation and strength. However, don't always want to have fun outside yourself. What makes you happy is not elsewhere, but on you. So, find out your high emotional period to constantly motivate yourself.
5. What profound words do you tell a person who has lost confidence in love? 1. People who have lost confidence in love must have been deeply hurt and have knots. Find the knots in their hearts and help them untie them one by one.
2. Re-face your sense of security. People who lose confidence in love have two manifestations: either let go or avoid it. Letting go means that you will dispose of your feelings casually in the future, and escaping means that you are unwilling to face up to new feelings again. To sum up, they all have a low sense of self-security and think that others are unreliable and they are not safe. In fact, a sense of security is a feeling, a promise and a promise for the other party, which cannot be taken away from the other party unilaterally.
3. "Welcome" and "bitter separation". These two are two of the seven pains in life, both of which are emotional problems. People who can't let go will not be happy, because it is difficult for them to start over; Happiness lies in letting go, because he will have a new life. Looking at life, everyone lives for happiness. It is selfish to consider only one person's happiness, so two of a kind is the happiest happiness.
4, lost in the east corner, harvesting mulberries. You don't have to worry about the past, let alone use it to harm the future. People who are always full of confidence in life are like sunshine. Where they shine, they will give others warmth and get the favor of others. Don't always want it, or you are determined to win it. Nothing is born for you. You must pay first and make the other person happy for you, then you can be really happy.
5. Love yourself and those who can make you happy. If you are happy, the other party can be happy!