Old people are like each other, and young people are like each other.
The nurturing of a filial son is to be happy with one's heart and not against one's ambitions.
It is important to know the age of your parents. One is for joy, the other is for fear.
Only being filial to your parents can relieve your worries.
The most important thing for a filial son is to respect his relatives.
Old people are like each other, and young people are like each other.
Interpretation: When supporting elders who are filial to oneself, one should not forget other elders who are not related. When raising and educating your own children, you should not forget about other children who are not related by blood.
From "Mencius: King Hui of Liang"
Usage
As predicate, object, attributive; used in written language
Laowu Lao and the oldness of people: the first "老" character is the verb "to support...as an old man", the second and third "老" characters are the nouns "old man" and "elder"; Youwu Young and human beings: the first word "You" means the verb "to raise... as a child", the second and third words "You" mean the nouns "children" and "junior"; The word "ji" in both sentences has the meaning of "regarding oneself and others".
When Mencius described his ideal society, he said: "The old and I are the old and the old of the people, the young and the young and the young of the people." This is consistent with Confucius' understanding of the world of great harmony: "Therefore, people are not alone. The idea of ????loving one's own relatives, not only having one's own children, so that the old will have a good life, the strong will be useful, the young will be able to grow, and the lonely, weak and sick will all be supported."
The nurturing of a filial son is to be happy with one's heart and not against one's ambitions.
Interpretation: The filial piety of a filial son is reflected in making the person being honored happy and not doing things against his wishes.
From "The Book of Rites"
It is important to know the age of your parents. One is for joy, the other is for fear. < /p>
Only being filial to your parents can relieve worries.
Explanation: Parents are our spiritual support. The father is the sky and the mother is the earth. The weather in heaven and earth is smooth, and all things thrive. We are filial to our parents, and our parents are very happy, so why should we worry? From "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng"
Analysis: Confucius believed that the greatest filial piety from children to their parents is that when we are running around, our parents only worry about whether we have enough food, clothing and clothing, and whether we are in good health. Instead of worrying about our character and behavior. The implication of Confucius is that our greatest filial piety to our parents is to cultivate ourselves, make ourselves noble, and let our parents be happy with what you do. If our conduct is despicable, it will bring shame to our parents at home. This should It is the greatest unfilial piety, such as Meng Wubo's martial arts and fighting. In Confucius' view, this is a despicable character and violates benevolence. The parents in the family will be shamed for it. Letting parents worry about their illness instead of worrying about their behavior is filial piety. If we truly achieve this, our parents at home will be happy and our bodies will be healthy. Those of us who are studying or traveling abroad will have no worries, move forward without worries, do things more smoothly, and have less worries. To make relatives less worried is to be filial to relatives; to be filial to relatives is to relieve worries in the heart.
The most important thing for a filial son is to respect his relatives.
Explanation: The ultimate act of filial piety for a filial son is no greater than respecting his parents.
From "Mencius·Wan Zhang Chapter 1"