If life is just like the first sight, why is it sad to draw a fan in the autumn wind? If you wait for change, you will lose your heart, but your heart will change easily. What do you mean?

If you get along with the right person, if you have resentment and complaints later, you will not be as beautiful and indifferent as when you first met. It's better to stay at the first meeting. It is easy to change your heart now, but it is also easy to change your heart by pleading for others.

From: Nalanxing Deqing, "Life as First Seen"

What sentence: This is an allusion to abandoning Han Ban Jieyu. Ban Jieyu, the princess of the Han Dynasty, was slandered by Zhao and Zhao Hede and retired to the cold palace. Later, she wrote a poem "Songs of Complaint", using autumn fans as a metaphor to express her resentment of being abandoned.

In the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Liu Liang Xiaozhuo's poem "Ban Jieyu Complain" pointed out that "I am like an autumn fan", and then she used the autumn fan as a metaphor for women's abandonment. Here is to love each other, but it has become today's parting.

An old friend means a lover.

Extended data:

The sentence "What is a sad autumn wind painting fan" uses the allusion of Ban Jieyu being abandoned in Han Dynasty. Use a fan to drive the heat in summer, and no one will care in autumn. Fans are often used in classical poetry to describe women who are left out in the cold. This means that we should love each other, but we have drifted apart. It also dragged the love of words from good memories to cruel reality.

Two words: "When you wait and change, you lose your heart, but you lose your mind." Because this word is written in a feminine tone, the protagonist deeply blames himself and regrets from these two sentences. He was not a heartbreaker, but the teenagers at that time had not yet taken charge of their own destiny. In fact, emperors like Li Longji in the Tang Dynasty could not keep their beloved lover Nalan.