My mother is strong and dizzy this year.
Gu Liu is a guest and especially likes reading grandchildren.
New professional lamp, Jiuli village, Sang Ma.
Taiping customs are beautiful, so you don't have to close Chai Men.
My mother has always been in good health. This year, she suddenly wrote to tell us that her eyes were dim. It turned out that she was thinking of my grandson, a wanderer who wanted to study abroad. Our family stayed up all night in the new house, talking about the previous farming, where peaceful rural people lived in harmony and didn't have to close the door at night.
The poem depicts a beautiful picture of family happiness, harmony or family reunion.
2. Poems about family harmony Throughout the ages, among the complicated family relationships, I am afraid that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with. It is often because these two relationships are not good that a family is uneasy and divided. Here are two interesting couplets.
There was a poetess in the Qing Dynasty who made a couplet to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: women are often cute, and daughter-in-law is often disgusting; Advise the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world to love three points and three points.
Every time my wife listens, every kiss is the opposite; May the son of man be a little obedient to his wife in the world.
This couplet not only exhorts the mother-in-law who prefers her daughter to abuse her daughter-in-law, but also loves her daughter-in-law as much as her daughter. At the same time, I also advise those sons who only honor their wives but not their parents. I hope that all sons in the world will honor their parents as well as their wives. Couplets have profound meanings and are known as admonishing proverbs for a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In addition, during the Tongzhi period of Qing Dynasty, the wife of Shen Baozhen, the governor of Liangjiang, was knowledgeable since childhood, but unfortunately died young. Before he died, he left couplets for his husband and daughter:
I don't want a lover to leave! Why don't men have wives? If he marries again, let alone his dead wife.
You quit strict father! Nizi will eventually have a mother; If you have to raise it in the future, you should know that your stepmother is your mother.
On the couplets, she told her husband how to treat his living wife and dead wife in the future. On the following couplets, she taught her daughter how to deal with the relationship between stepmother and mother. Today, this couplet does not lose its positive practical significance.
3. The ancient prose about "home" or "the way of home and harmony" is to make people understand the importance of home. Pay attention to thrift and housekeeping at home, and the original text is clear. Master Wen stumbled upon Ji Hong's fourth brother: he hasn't sent anyone home for a long time, and he hasn't been heard from since the second day of the Tang Dynasty. I want to be safe, so I want to move to camp on the 9 th, go to Jiayu County on the first day of August, and take a boat on the fifth day. The navy division camp left the camp in the middle camp and entered Jinkou on the third day of July. On the seventh day of the leap, thieves and robbers committed crimes on land and water. Our army failed to stop them, robbed two thief boats, killed dozens of thieves and won a victory. On the sixth day of the eighteenth anniversary of Luoshan, he won four games and lost four points in the first four days. We hereby repay them.
On the third day of the third year, I was awarded three kinds of high hats by imperial edict. Now I'm giving thanks, delivering the imperial edict to my mouth. My mother is in mourning and I am not at home. I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed If I fight against Tianweidi and gradually clear the river, I should give full play to my family background, serve my father, sacrifice my mother and do my best for my brothers, sons and nephews. I should take care of my father's diet. In any family, the word "thrifty housekeeping" can be maintained to a certain extent, and there is no disappointment. If there is no point at all, there is no defeat, and the word "harmony" can be maintained to a certain extent. If you are not invincible, your brothers will try to use these three words in the countryside. When you experience adventure, you will take my words as true.
My brothers are not good at cleaning up, especially me. This is a great shame. We should carefully clean up afterwards, that is, pick up a wisp of paper and bamboo scraps, thinking that the first generation is lazy and the second generation is promiscuous, then there will be sleeping and sitting at night, gradually smoking opium, and the fourth brother Jiu Ge is more diligent and the sixth brother is lazy; The more diligent the logistics personnel are, the more painful the lazy people will be. It is very important not to let sons and nephews learn to be lazy! Sons and nephews are excellent things except reading, teaching them to clean the house, clean tables and stools, collect manure and weed, and they must never do anything to damage the shelf. (August 11th, Xianfeng four years) Note ① Xian Di: Aunt.
Cheng Hou, Wen Fu, Zi Zhi and Ji Hong are the first four brothers. I haven't sent anyone home for a long time, and I haven't heard from home since Tang Er and Wei Wu came. I have to be safe. On the 29th, I moved to a new barracks, went to Jiayu County on the first day of August, went to Pazhou by boat on the fifth day to see the terrain, and moved Mu Ying's camp to Pazhou on the seventh day.
The former battalion, the left battalion and the middle battalion of the navy entered Jinkou on June 23. On June 26th, the enemy invaded by land and water, but our army didn't arrive. The navy blocked and attacked two enemy ships in two ways, killing dozens of people and winning a battle. Luoshan won four battles on the first 18, 23rd, 24th and 26th days, and issued the memorial on the fourth day. It is described in detail. On the third day of the third year, he gave me three hats Now I am writing a memorial to thank the emperor for his kindness and send it back by decree. I'm attending my mother's funeral, and I didn't obey the rules at home. It's really embarrassing to think about it in the dead of night. If I destroy the enemy on the river for the second time by the emperor's power, I will immediately beat the emperor, go home and beat my father and mother, and be a little bit of a son of man. Be considerate of my mind and be very careful in my father's diet and daily life. Don't neglect anything. Sacrifice and etiquette to mother must be clean and sincere, and be respectful to uncle. There is no gap between brothers and sisters. There can be no discord. For a family, to a certain extent, it can abide by the word "frugality and housekeeping", and there is nothing prosperous. To what extent can the word harmony be observed? Nothing is unsuccessful, and nothing is unsuccessful. My brothers will test these three words one by one among the family relatives in the village, and they will definitely think that what I said is right.
My younger brothers don't like to clean up, which is worse than me. This is the ethos of a prodigal family. In the future, we must carefully collect them, that is, a piece of paper, a thread, that is, old bamboo shells and corroded sawdust, and set an example for our sons and nephews. If the first generation is negligent and lazy, then the second generation will be arrogant and extravagant, and then these bad things will gradually appear, such as sleeping during the day, playing cards at night and eating opium! Brother Four and Jiu Ge are diligent, while Brother Six and Brother Four are lazy. It is very important to be diligent, even more diligent, make up your mind to repent, and don't let your children and grandchildren learn bad manners! Besides studying, sons and nephews should also teach them to clean the house, clean tables and chairs, collect manure and weed. These are all good things. They can't put on airs because it's harmful to themselves. (August 11th, Xianfeng four years) First, your brothers live in harmony.
Last year, my brothers didn't know about it. Even the three rivers have changed this winter. Later, my brothers should take last year as a warning. Where did I go wrong? Cheng Yuan and Hong San each said their own rules, and I tried to correct them. If the third brother had it, he should also punish each other and correct it.
The second is filial piety. Push the love of grandparents, uncle and parents.
Love Wendy's wife, concubine and children, and Whelan's family. Parents' graves should be reburied, please ask Yuan's brother to make decisions, and Cheng's brother doesn't have to insist.
Third, we should practice the word thrift. Sister-in-law, don't be extravagant.
The younger generation of children must walk, not ride in a sedan chair. Women are not too lazy, they should learn to cook tea. Books, vegetables, fish, pigs, a family is angry, and a person who sleeps less and does more becomes angry.
Diligent, lively, thrifty and restrained, with these two words, there is no reason why families will prosper. At home last year, I really didn't work hard on this word. I'm sorry so far, but I made this up.
(November 23rd, Xianfeng eight years).
The Chinese nation has always valued and cherished "harmony", and creating characters is as important as eating. Words composed of "harmony" abound, such as: harmony, harmony, harmony, harmony, harmony, harmony and harmony. From the ancient "harmony is precious" to the construction of a harmonious society today, it is in the same strain from the perspective of national character. In folk proverbs, there are also a lot of sayings about harmony, which shows that the concept of harmony is deeply rooted.
The so-called "home and everything prosper", "home is not bullied by outsiders", "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as the opposite", emphasizing the harmony between family and neighbors; "Good words are warm in spring, bad words hurt people", "Friends should make up and don't get married", "Be lenient with others", emphasizing the harmony of interpersonal relationships; "People respect me by a foot, and I respect others by a foot", "The kindness of dripping water is rewarded by a spring". Everyone is courteous, respectful and loving, always grateful, and naturally get along well; In addition, "if you are not afraid of disrespect, you are afraid of being wrong." As long as everyone is self-disciplined, this will definitely enhance the factors of social harmony.
5. The ancient poet who described family harmony was Han Mei in Wang Wei's Miscellaneous Poems. "Before going to bed tomorrow, will she open her first cold flower?" ;
Home is the bright moon in Li Bai's "Thinking of a Quiet Night", "Looking up, I found it was moonlight, and then looking back, I suddenly thought of home".
Home is Li Bai's sultry nocturne "Whose Yu Di flies in the dark and scatters into the spring breeze of Los Angeles" in "A Spring Night in Luoyang";
Home is the nocturne of "Hanshan Temple outside Gusu City, the midnight bell goes to the passenger ship" in Zhang Ji's a night-mooring near maple bridge.
Home is the nine ileum of Ma Zhiyuan's "Qiu Si" in which "the sun sets and heartbroken people are at the end of the world";
Home is Wang Anshi's "Dengguazhou", "Spring breeze is green in Jiang Nanan, when will the bright moon shine on me?"
Home is my homesickness, but I look towards home. The twilight is boundless, and the river waves of the Yellow Crane Tower in Cui Hao are covered with a sad mist.
At home is Li Shangyin's "A Note to a friend in the North on a rainy night", "When I cut candles at the west window, I talk about the rain at night".
I want a poem or famous saying about family harmony. Mother is not a person to rely on, but a person who makes dependence unnecessary. (American female novelist Fisher)
All happy families are similar; Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. (Tolstoy, Russian writer)
Everything about me, everything about me, is due to my angel mother. (American President Lincoln)
As a modern parent, I know very well that what matters is not how much material things you give your child, but the care and love you pour into your child. Caring attitude can not only save you a considerable sum of money, but also make you feel relieved, because you spend less money and pay more attention than gifts. (Noel O, American writer)
A golden nest and a silver nest are not as good as one's own grass nest. (Payne, American playwright and actor)
A brave man goes with the times, and wherever he goes, he is his hometown. (Philip M, British dramatist)
A wise man is at home everywhere-the earth is his fireplace and the blue sky is his living room. (Emerson, American thinker)
In a happy family, parents are in charge by love, and children obey adults out of love for their parents. (Francis Bacon, British philosopher)
Whether a king or a farmer, family harmony is the happiest. Goethe, German playwright and poet
Home is a prison for girls and a reformatory for women. (Bernard Shaw, British dramatist)
No matter when and where, home is always a place to open the door to wanderers. (Robert F, American poet)
Rebels are more ruthless than snakes and scorpions (Shakespeare, British dramatist)
Couples who are divorcing (including couples who are in constant pain) can easily fall into each other's quagmire. The more public this slander is, the better, and the more frequent it is. (Mel H., American writer)
I don't know what kind of person my grandfather is, but I am more concerned about what kind of person his grandson will become. (American President Lincoln)
If you want your children to keep their feet on the ground, you should let them take some responsibility. Benjamin, British essayist
It is wise for educated adults to make children feel that family is the happiest place in the world. This kind of beautiful affection, in my opinion, is as precious as the most exquisite gift that adults give their children. (Washington, the father of American literature. I)
Marriage is like a birdcage, the birds outside want to get in; The birds inside can't figure it out. Montaigne, French thinker and essayist
My father always said that a child needs four things-enough love, nutritious food, regular sleep, enough soap and water-and what he needs most is some wise indulgence. (official pastor of the United States. International bank)
Family is one of the masterpieces created by nature. (Santayana G, American philosopher and poet)
The spirit of scientific fraternity connects people who are scattered all over the world and are passionate about science into a big family. (Ross, President of the United States). . f .)
The family you will have is more important than the family you come from. (Lawrence H, British writer)
The most fundamental shortcoming of a father is that he wants his children to win glory for themselves. (Bertrand Russell, British philosopher)
Everyone's home is like a castle and fortress to himself. (British jurist Kirk)
The sooner you treat your son as a man, the sooner he becomes a man. (John Locke, British novelist)
There is a skeleton in the cupboard. (Thackeray, British novelist)
If you want to have a long marriage, you need to overcome the self-centered consciousness. (Byron, British poet)
If you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' kindness (Beecher, American priest and speaker)