1, ask the age? This should be the most common problem. Being the same age as your daughter is the first point. You can be 2 or 3 years older than your daughter, but not too big. Some parents don't like younger daughters. ?
2. Ask your parents what they do. Parents' occupation is also asked by many parents, especially couples who are not in the same city. The woman's parents will definitely ask the man's parents what they do. ?
3. Ask about your family? This is also an inevitable problem. Only by knowing the family members of the prospective son-in-law can we know whether the daughter gets along well when she gets married. Not only that, but also a deeper understanding of the man's situation and convenient communication. ?
4. Ask about work income? Knowing the income of the future son-in-law, you can safely hand over your daughter. If you don't have a relatively stable job, the woman's parents are generally a little dissatisfied.
Second, I first saw my son-in-law's conversation skills.
The first time I met my son-in-law, the conversation was very free. Even though "we basically know his family and work", this is not the first-hand "information", so there is no need to know more. In fact, knowing a son-in-law is not only the basic situation of his family and work, but also other things such as conversation skills, knowledge level, adaptability to others and the scope of making friends. Understand the child's personality, life experience, professional experience, like our girl, but also pay attention to his views on the network, chat, how many netizens there are; Play games. No, I work from home. No, can you cook?
Three. Matters needing attention when meeting the woman's parents for the first time
1. Pay attention to the appearance and image when you meet the woman's parents for the first time.
A clean and fresh natural appearance is a must. Don't make your image artistic, wear long hair and beard, or wear some unfashionable clothes and accessories that can attract others' attention. Although now is the era when personality can be freely displayed, we should pay attention to the occasions when personality is displayed. This kind of dress will never be the image that the woman's parents or other elders like.
2. Pay attention to your manners when you meet the woman's parents for the first time.
Politeness is necessary when you enter your girlfriend's house for the first time. Control your behavior anytime, anywhere. You know, you are being visited by your mother-in-law all the time. Sometimes, a small action and an improper action will affect their impression of you. Therefore, details determine success or failure, and paying attention to details will definitely get twice the result with half the effort.
Pay attention to your words when you meet the woman's parents for the first time.
When you meet the woman's parents, you must remember Chairman Mao's teaching that modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind. Never talk to the woman's parents or say something they don't understand to show your profound knowledge, but find some topics that interest them. Don't forget: girlfriends need to be coaxed, and so does mother-in-law.
4. When you meet the woman's parents for the first time, you should send a meeting gift.
It is necessary to visit the woman's house for the first time. Although the mother-in-law-to-be doesn't care what gift you bring, it is impolite and absolutely impossible to enter the door empty-handed. Usually, the prospective son-in-law needs to prepare grenades (famous wine) and explosives (cigarettes) to conquer the fortress. Of course, if he can attach the title certificate of the property under his name, it will be basically foolproof.
When you meet the woman's parents for the first time, you should give her a beautiful vision.
What are your virtues and abilities? Why did the woman's parents betroth their baby daughter to you? This requires the use of your wisdom. You can discuss your future career ideas with your father-in-law on appropriate occasions, which is a topic that men are usually interested in. You can also let them know what kind of life security you will provide for their baby daughter in the future.