If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind. It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.
Lishan language stops midnight, and the rain bell doesn't complain. More importantly, if you are lucky, you will be more willing than before.
2. Origin: Life is like seeing it for the first time. This sentence comes from Nalan Xingde (Nalan Rong Ruo), a famous poet in Qing Dynasty (1655- 1685, Manchu).
The result of things is not as beautiful as people thought at first. In the process of development, its changes often exceed people's initial understanding, and there is no beauty and indifference when they first met.
Then the feeling of staying for the first time is so beautiful, without obstacles and obstacles, everything is so natural. The beauty of love at first sight, the unexpected ending, and the outlined life always have some faint regrets and sorrows. "
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If you get along with the right person, if you have resentment and complaints later, you will not be as beautiful and indifferent as when you first met. It's better to stay at the first meeting. What sentence: This is an allusion to abandoning Han Ban Jieyu.
Ban Jieyu, the princess of the Han Dynasty, was slandered by Zhao and Zhao Hede and retired to the cold palace. Later, she wrote a poem "Songs of Complaint", using autumn fans as a metaphor to express her resentment of being abandoned.
In the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Liu Liang Xiaozhuo's poem "Ban Jieyu Complain" pointed out that "I am like an autumn fan", and then she used the autumn fan as a metaphor for women's abandonment. Here is to love each other, but it has become today's parting. This poem by Xie Shu is also expressed in in my heart forever, and it also uses the allusion of "Sad Fan".
The last two sentences of Xie Shu's poems are "the heart is eternal, so the heart is not seen", and some versions are "the heart is lost", which is basically determined as "the heart is lost", which is the origin of Rong Ruo's sentence "change unintentionally, change without knowledge"
The meaning of the two versions is not very different. Generally speaking, you, an old friend, can easily change your mind, but on the other hand, you said that I have changed too fast-of course, there are other explanations, but it still revolves around this meaning.
Baidu Encyclopedia-If life is just like the first time (Nalan Xingde's poem)