2. "Confucius said: There is no dispute between gentlemen. Will shoot! Let it go up, you can drink it, and it is also a gentleman. " -"The Analects of Confucius" Confucius said: "A gentleman does not dispute. If there is any dispute, it must be an archery competition! The two sides bowed to each other, humbly, and then appeared; After shooting the arrow, he came down to drink water. This dispute is a dispute between gentlemen. "
3. "Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement. -"The Book of Changes Dried Melon Fragrance" Tian's movement is vigorous and powerful, and a gentleman should be like a field, constantly striving for self-improvement, fortitude and perseverance, and never stop.
4. the terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality. -"Yijing Kungua Xiang" The earth is thick and slippery, and a gentleman is virtuous and tolerant of everything. Heaven is vigorous, and a gentleman should consciously forge ahead and never relax.
5. "No husband is no gentleman"-an old saying. It means that people who are narrow-minded and lack measurement are not worthy of being husbands and gentlemen.
2. Is there any ancient prose 1 related to gentlemen and villains? "Gentleman's righteousness, villain's benefit."
From: The Analects of Confucius Liren)
"Righteousness" means "propriety", that is to say, a gentleman is always on the right path. The villain attaches great importance to self-interest, and it is easy to go astray driven by self-interest.
2. "A gentleman likes virtue, while a villain likes earth. The gentleman is pregnant with punishment, and the villain is pregnant. "
From: The Analects of Confucius, Liren
In other words, gentlemen and villains think differently every day. A gentleman cares about his moral restoration every day, while a villain remembers his hometown;
There is always a rule and statute in a gentleman's heart that cannot be surpassed, while a villain is full of small favors.
3, "pity without struggle, group without party"
From: The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong)
In other words, gentlemen are gregarious. Although his heart is solemn and sacred, he never argues among a large group of people. At the same time, he will never pull gangs and seek personal gain. This is what Confucius said, "gentlemen are harmonious but different", while villains are just the opposite. He is "the same but different"
4. "The week of gentlemen is incomparable, and the week of villains is not comprehensive.
From: The Analects of Confucius Governing Politics
Zhou can unite and take care of many people. He associates with people based on morality, so he has many like-minded friends. No matter how many friends a real gentleman has, he will make his friends feel happy and cared for like oxygen in the air.
The glyph "Bi" is like two people standing side by side, indicating that the villain likes to form a small circle and he will not blend into a large group.
5. The sentence is frank, a petty man is anxious and worried.. 》
Said by: The Analects of Confucius, Schur
The villain likes to collude with each other because he has a ghost in his heart and wants to seek personal gain and safeguard vested interests through this collusion. This is what the so-called "nepotism" means.
The gentleman is open-minded, because he is calm and selfless, so he can be peaceful and come together with everyone sincerely.
6. "A gentleman is easy to say, but a villain is hard to say. Don't say it; It also allows people, this device. It's easy for the villain to say something difficult. Although it doesn't matter, it is also said; It also makes people want to be prepared. "
Excerpt from The Analects of Confucius Lutz
Say "Yue" and everyone will be happy. A gentleman is easy for you to get along with, but difficult for you to please. If you try to please him by unfair means, he will be unhappy instead.
Never say that if you give him a small favor, he will give you the green light and open the back door. When he really uses you, he will arrange a suitable seat for you according to your talents. This is the so-called "device"
3. What are the classical Chinese texts describing the virtue of a gentleman? First, wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent.
Vernacular interpretation: wealth cannot confuse his thoughts, poverty cannot change his ethics, and power cannot subdue his will.
Dynasty: Spring and Autumn Period
Author: Mencius
Source: Mencius? Teng Wengong: Wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and powerful people can't be bent.
Second, Germany is not alone. It must have neighbors.
Vernacular interpretation: A moral person will not be isolated, and there will be people with the same ideas.
Dynasty: Zhou
Author: By many people
Source: The Analects of Confucius? Liren: if you are not alone, you must have neighbors.
Third, be quiet to cultivate one's morality, and be frugal to cultivate one's morality.
Interpretation of vernacular Chinese: make yourself perfect through meditation and reflection, and cultivate your noble character through thrift and saving money.
Dynasty: Shu Kingdom of Three Kingdoms
Author: Zhuge Liang
Source:? Book of commandments: cultivate one's morality by quietness and cultivate one's morality by frugality.
Fourth, Dan can be grinded but not taken away from its color, orchid can be burned but not destroyed, jade can be broken but not turned white, and gold can be sold but not easily strengthened.
Interpretation of vernacular: cinnabar can be ground, but it can't take away its red color; Orchids can be burned, but their fragrance cannot be destroyed; Meiyu can be scattered, but it can't change its whiteness; Gold can be melted, but it cannot be hardened.
Dynasty: Northern Qi Dynasty
Author: Liu Zhou
Source:? "Liu Zi? Great quality: Dan can be ground but not taken away from its color, orchid can be burned but not destroyed, jade can be broken but not turned white, and gold can be sold but not hardened.
5. Enjoy the world and worry about it.
Interpretation of vernacular: share happiness with the world and share troubles with the world.
Dynasty: Spring and Autumn Period
Author: Mencius
Source: Mencius? Hui Liang Wang Xia: Happy for the world, worried about the world.
4. The word "gentleman" means 1 in ancient Chinese. Gentleman: A general term for rulers and aristocratic men, often compared with villains or savages.
He is a gentleman. -"Poetry, Feng Wei, Cutting Tan"
A gentleman is contemptuous. -Teacher Tang Hanyu's theory
A gentleman is rigid without desire. -Sima Guang's "Training with Diligence and Health"
A gentleman does not want much.
2. [People with noble character]: In ancient times, it refers to people with high status, and later it refers to people with noble personality and good moral conduct.
Aren't you a gentleman? -The Analects of Confucius
Gentlemen do not dispute. -"Mencius Gong Sunchou"
A gentleman is knowledgeable. -"Xunzi Persuades to Learn"
A playboy. -Qing Zhou Rong's Biography of the Taro Old Man
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Lotus, the gentleman of flowers. -"Ailian said"
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as cucumber. -"Zhuangzi Mark"
3.[ Courtesy of others], Mr. You Yan.
A gentleman's book. -Don Lee Wei Chao's Liu Yichuan
A gentleman climbs a mountain. -Ming Gu Yanwu's "Fu An Ji"
Gentlemen of the same society. -Five Tombstones by Zhang Ming Pu
After the Gentleman —— Liang Qingqichao's Biography of Tan Sitong
The gentleman's promise to tell Renzong about the king can be described as a person who has not neglected his duty. However, Renzong's good governance is often seen in history books, saying that it is ok to start without Wang's counseling. Wang Ruoyue is a philosopher of Renzong. -"Si Ku Quan Shu, Renewing Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital Capital"
4. The old lady calls her husband.
Poem Zhao Nan Cao Chong: "Worry if you don't see a gentleman." "The History of the Later Han Dynasty, Biography of Women and Uncle Cao's Wife": "Increase the shame of parents and retreat the fatigue of gentlemen." Li Xian's Note: "A gentleman is a husband." Tang Li Bai's Antique 27: "How to be a gentleman? * * Take a threesome. " One of Qing Sun Zhiwei's "Lotus Picking Songs": "My concubine picks the lotus and sends it to the monarch."
5. Refers to the gentleman army of Yue State in the Spring and Autumn Period.
"Guoyu Wuyu": The King of Yue took 6,000 private soldiers as the central army. "Note:" A gentleman is a private pawn, and a aspiring person is close to the king, and his virtue is better than that of a warrior. Liang Ming Chen Yu's Biography of the Barber: "The King of Yue led 100,000 soldiers and 6,000 gentlemen to Taihu Lake." See "Junzi Army". Chapter 82 of the History of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty: "When Gou Jian, the King of Yue, heard that the King of Wu had left the country, he consulted with him and sent 2,000 men, 40,000 gentlemen and 6,000 gentlemen across the river to attack Wu. "
6. Good wine.
Volume 43 of Jing Lun quotes Huangfusong's Drunken Hometown Sun and Moon in the Tang Dynasty: "Every wine ... is a gentleman who intoxicates people with glutinous rice."
7. Another name for bamboo.
Su Songzhe's poem "The Resurrection of Sun Lin": "Occasionally, the thunderstorm is one foot deep, and you are a gentleman in Nanyuan." See "Gentleman Bamboo".
The above is from Baidu Encyclopedia
5. Ailian, an ancient prose that shows the wind of a gentleman, said that flowers and plants are all fragrant (fán).
Tao Jinyuan clearly loves chrysanthemums. Since Li Tang came, peonies have been loved all over the world (in some versions).
To (yú) love lotus from the mud without touching it, to (zhuó) be clear without evil, to make direct contact with the outside world without loose, to be fragrant far and clear, to be graceful and pure, and to look at it from a distance without blasphemy (xiè). Want to call chrysanthemum, the hermit of flowers; Peony, blooming with wealth; Lotus, the gentleman of flowers.
Hey (y: and)! "Love between Chrysanthemums and Flowers", Tao (xiaˇn) has heard about it; Who gave the lotus love? Peony love is suitable for many people. The humble mountain is not high, but there are immortals.
The water is not deep, and the dragon is the spirit. I am a humble room, but I am virtuous.
The moss on the stage is green, and the curtain grass is green. There is no Ding Bai who laughs and has a university.
You can tune the pipa and read Jin Dian. No confusion, no job.
Zhuge Lu in Nanyang and Ting Yun Pavilion in West Shu. Kong Ziyun: "What's the matter?" What is the wind of a gentleman? Gentleman's wind) refers to an upright person, an honorable person; People who can communicate deeply in life; People who can rest assured in business; Speak appropriately and do things appropriately.
In ancient times, it was a gentleman's wind not to bend over, and then it was a gentleman's wind to die. Corporal Li Xian is the wind of a gentleman, even my fair lady is the wind of a gentleman. This definition is actually very broad. Meet the following points: Mr. Wang expressed the following points: being interested in Tao, taking morality as the foundation, taking benevolence as the foundation, and wandering in art. According to the original text, "being interested in Tao" can be interpreted as metaphysical Tao, that is, being interested in sublimity and reaching the realm of hope.
This "Tao" includes heaven and humanity, both metaphysical and metaphysical. This is the most basic and highest goal that teaches us to aspire to.
Whether it can be done or not is another matter. Just as everyone had just gone out to work when he was young, he was determined to gain fame and fortune.
As far as making money is concerned, at least I hope to earn tens of millions. But despite my determination, I actually earn thousands of dollars a month.
If you only take a few thousand dollars because you are determined to want tens of millions, "Stop it!" Don't want to go back to work! This shows that whether ambition can be realized is another matter. Therefore, Confucius said that learning should aim high, which is the first meaning of "aiming at Tao"
"Put morality first", aim high, but proceed from human nature. The so-called harmony between man and nature should start with moral behavior.
In other words, "taking Tao as the aim" is philosophical thinking, and "taking morality as the basis" is an act of treating people. The ancients explained that virtue is virtue, and achievement is virtue. It can be seen that Confucius told us that thought is based on Tao and behavior is based on virtue. "Benevolence", as I have said, is useful.
Benevolence's body is internal cultivation, and the so-called life and spiritual learning are internal. External use shows the love of people and things, such as the universal love of Mozi's thought and the universal love of western culture.
"Benevolence" means benevolence, that is to say, how to play Tao and virtue depends on whether you love people or things. With this love, we can love people, things, society, our country and the world, and extend our love to the whole world.
This is the play of benevolence. "Benevolence" and then "swimming in art".
Swimming is a swimming tour, not a game tour. The art of "swimming in art" includes six arts: ritual, music, archery, imperial art, calligraphy and mathematics. Confucius' education in that year was mainly based on six arts.
In modern times, "ceremony" includes all cultures of philosophy, politics, education and society. As for modern art, dance, drama, music, art and so on all belong to music.
Shooting, military and martial arts. It used to be said that archery with bow is equivalent to modern shooting, fighting, sports and so on.
"Royal", driving, in modern times, of course, also includes flying planes and spaceships. "Book", literature and history.
"Number" refers to science. The cultivation of all talents and the enrichment of life must be based on six arts, and art is by no means a narrow art.
There was no such subdivision in ancient China, and the six arts were all arts. In life, we should understand the four cultural ideas of self-cultivation, namely, Taoism, morality, benevolence and art.
The first half of these four key points, "taking Tao as the purpose and taking morality as the basis", contains spiritual thoughts, and takes "taking benevolence as the basis and taking art as the guideline of life and behavior, which is all his principles. At the same time, he told everyone that having these key points is called learning. Without lofty ideas, it would be tacky, and real life would only make you feel bored.
Life is rootless, without a considerable moral foundation, and ultimately cannot be mature. If there is no inner cultivation of benevolence, there is no place to stay psychologically.
Without "wandering in art" and profound knowledge, life will be boring. Therefore, these four points are very important, and future generations are biased towards these four points. In fact, Confucius thought should develop in a balanced way from here.
Confucius said: a gentleman's righteousness is quality, courtesy is behavior, sun is behavior, and faith is success. What a gentleman! Confucius said that a true intellectual should pay attention to his own life responsibility and pay attention to the four words of righteousness, courtesy, grandson and faith. Essentially just.
The meaning here is, first, Mencius' righteousness is appropriate, that is, appropriate and appropriate. The second is the traditional benevolence and righteousness-personality standard.
Third, it refers to "the study of words and chapters" and "the study of remembering and hearing". The so-called philosophy, science and justice in modern times are all about the highest truth in life-truth.
The "righteousness" of "gentleman's righteousness is quality", that is, the meaning of righteousness, takes it as its essence. The act of external expression is a ritual with high cultural accomplishment.
Sun is a very modest man, neither complacent nor proud. Trust people and things everywhere, keep your word, be confident and trust people.
With these four conditions, it is a gentleman's trip, that is, the standard of intellectuals and model personality, which is by no means comparable to "living in groups all day long, not judging right and wrong, being kind and wise". If you can't do this and be clever, it's over.
Confucius said: the benevolent is not for survival, but for death. We used to say, "Kill your body and die", which appeared in the Analects of Confucius and was said by Confucius.
I won't explain this benevolence here. From the above theory, that is to say, "benevolence" is the center of Confucian learning. Now, it is the central idea. The so-called benevolent people are benevolent, but they don't live to harm benevolence. For example, many religious scholars sometimes encounter things that are contrary to their beliefs. They would rather give up their lives and their positions.
6. Describe a gentleman's ancient poems. "("The Analects of Confucius Governing the Country ")
"A gentleman is figurative, and a villain is figurative." ("The Analects of Confucius")
"A gentleman talks but doesn't do it." ("The Analects of Confucius")
"A gentleman takes literature as his friend and benevolence as his help." ("The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan")
"A gentleman is not worried or afraid." ("The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan")
"The beauty of a gentleman's adult is not the evil of an adult." ("The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan")
"A gentleman is nothing more than his words." (The Analects of Confucius Lutz)
"A gentleman is Thai but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not Thai." (The Analects of Confucius Lutz)
"So, gentlemen do their best." (University)
-Ancient poetry
Liu Tang Yuxi tingchu
Dew wash lead powder, wind shake sapphire branches.
Yiyi is like a gentleman, and there is nothing wrong with her.
Tang jiadao has a friend in the rain.
Thinking of rain is king, tasting tea beside bamboo.
Confucianism is adjacent to the ancient temple, and autumn has not yet arrived.
Tang Lixian used the gentleman's line.
A gentleman is cautious, but a villain is suspicious.
Father Ni was a saint, but he was saved.
Li Bai's Yelang heard about it without warning in the Tang Dynasty.
Sang Taikang, a saint in the North Que, and a gentleman in the South Gate fled the wild.
When Qin and Han Dynasties heard Jun Tian's music, I hoped the wind would blow to Yelang.
Don Du Mu and both admired Cao Hui in the imperial court.
Ordinary poems are as smart as spring, and I like the quiet pavilions and new grass.
This smells better than a gentleman. What kind of person is he today?
Song novelty determines the storm.
The moon is high and the water is cold. Leaning on the meditation bed. White hair, self-pity, heart of stone. Romantic. Make a gentleman fine and flat.
I was sentenced to a career. Come and go. But ashamed of the sand bird, laughing and busy. Then leave a sentence of yellow silk. Who gave it to you? Hookgrass is cool at night.
7. In ancient China, all sentences containing the word "gentleman" should kneel down. This word is generally a Confucian concept. I'll give you the Analects of Confucius and Zhouyi. Take a look.
There are sources and translations.
Gentleman in The Analects of Confucius
(1) "A gentleman's righteousness is beneficial to a villain." ("The Analects of Confucius")
"Righteousness" means "propriety", that is to say, a gentleman is always on the right path. The villain attaches great importance to self-interest, and it is easy to go astray driven by self-interest.
(2) "A gentleman is wild, and a villain is pregnant with soil. The gentleman is pregnant with punishment, and the villain is pregnant. " ("The Analects of Confucius")
In other words, gentlemen and villains think differently every day.
A gentleman cares about his moral restoration every day, while a villain remembers his hometown; There is always a rule and statute in a gentleman's heart that cannot be surpassed, while a villain is full of small favors.
(3) "Compassion without dispute, group without party" (The Analects of Wei Linggong).
In other words, gentlemen are gregarious. Although his heart is solemn and sacred, he never argues among a large group of people. At the same time, he will never pull gangs and seek personal gain. This is what Confucius called "gentlemen are harmonious but different" (The Analects of Confucius, Lutz). The villain is just the opposite. He is "harmonious but different" (The Analects of Lutz).
In life, we often see such a scene: when we discuss a thing, before the leader finishes, someone will immediately jump out and say, yes, yes, the leader said it well, and there are a lot of praise words such as strategic thinking and foresight; But after the meeting, he will turn to others and say, hey, what is this leader saying? I totally disagree with him!
Regarding the difference between a gentleman and a villain, Confucius has another expression, which is called "A gentleman is not as good as a week, and a villain is not as good as a villain" ("The Analects of Confucius").
Zhou can unite and take care of many people. He associates with people based on morality, so he has many like-minded friends. No matter how many friends a real gentleman has, he will make his friends feel happy and cared for like oxygen in the air. The glyph "Bi" is like two people standing side by side, indicating that the villain likes to form a small circle and he will not blend into a large group.
(4) the sentence magnanimous, a petty man is anxious and worried.. "(The Analects of Confucius)
The villain likes to collude with each other because he has a ghost in his heart and wants to seek personal gain and safeguard vested interests through this collusion. This is what the so-called "nepotism" means. The gentleman is open-minded, because he is calm and selfless, so he can be peaceful and come together with everyone sincerely.
(5) "A word from a gentleman is a promise. Don't say it; It also allows people, this device. It's easy for the villain to say something difficult. Although it doesn't matter, it is also said; It also makes people want to be prepared. " (The Analects of Confucius Lutz)
Say "Yue" and everyone will be happy. A gentleman is easy for you to get along with, but difficult for you to please. If you try to please him by unfair means, he will be unhappy instead. Never say that if you give him a small favor, he will give you the green light and open the back door. When he really uses you, he will arrange a suitable seat for you according to your talents. This is the so-called "device"
The characteristic of a villain is that you can please him easily, but it is difficult for you to get along with him. There are not a few such people in life. For example, if you give him a little favor, do him a small favor, or even buy him a drink, this person will be very happy. Even if the way you please him is immoral and unfair, he will still be happy. But it is not easy for such people to * * *. Don't think that if you win his favor for a while, he will give you a green light loyally in the future. Although you have spent a lot of effort and money to get through the joints, when he really wants to hire people, he will not arrange a job for you according to your talents. On the contrary, I feel that you are not qualified here and there, and everything you have done before is in vain. He will try his best to make things difficult for you and make you feel embarrassed. So it's hard for you to get along with such people.
The gentleman in Zhouyi: Tian Xingjian, the gentleman constantly strives for self-improvement; The capacity of the earth is limited, so a gentleman must constantly cultivate his own virtue to undertake the world.
The last sentence, "Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement", is more widely circulated. But for two thousand years, many people know and few people can understand. Moreover, there are different explanations in academic circles. At present, there seems to be no recognized correct explanation.
8. I want to write a summary about "gentlemen". Please help me to provide some information. The ideal cultivation of a gentleman's personality-the "benevolence" of a gentleman is the highest realm of Confucianism, but when it comes to personal specific cultivation, "gentleman" is its ideal personality model.
Zeng Shen emphasized that "a gentleman makes friends with his words and helps others with his friends" (The Analects of Confucius? Yan Yuan "). Try to establish a gentleman to help realize the cultivation of benevolence or put the high standard of benevolence into concrete practice-gentleman's personality.
Confucius once said: "A gentleman has Jiu Si: he can see clearly, listen attentively, look gently, look respectfully, speak faithfully, think respectfully, ask questions in doubt, think hard, and see what he thinks." ("The Analects of Confucius Ji's") is relatively extensive, but it only tells the truth in all aspects of words and deeds.
Zeng Shen entered more specific requirements. He said: "gentlemen have three expenses, and diet is not one of them."
A gentleman has three pleasures, and Zhong Qing is not one of them ... It is a pleasure to have an awesome relative, a gentleman who works and a son who is left behind. Having relatives to be afraid, a king to go and a son to be angry are two kinds of pleasures; There are gentlemen to compare with, and friends to help. These three pleasures are also ... It is also a cost to learn less and forget long. If you do something meritorious, you will lose it, and if you do, you will lose both. Keep friends for a long time, and you will never get them. These three expenses are also incurred. "
In addition, Ceng Zi Shili also has many strict requirements for gentlemen, such as: "All gentlemen are happy to enjoy the happiness of others, and are courteous to others. Those who come unprepared and those who leave unintentionally. The deceased does not slander and is innocent, which can be described as loyalty.
A gentleman is respectful but not difficult, comfortable but not comfortable, humble but not flattering, generous but not vertical, generous but not frugal, straight and not forward, which can be described as knowledgeable. He also said: "When a gentleman enters a country, he doesn't say anything taboo, doesn't violate its prohibition, doesn't keep the clothes of Chinese color, and doesn't say that he is afraid of risks. So he said: "It is better to be frugal than to be extravagant; It's better than embarrassment. "
Obviously, the definition of a gentleman is much more specific and strict than "Jiu Si", although it is not beyond the scope of "Jiu Si". In the whole history of China's ideology and culture, this style of mentoring inheritance is very representative.
Because the Zeng Shen school is too strict with the "gentleman", it sometimes reveals some Taoist flavor. The article "Ceng Zi Shili" also said: "A gentleman is never too small, nor is he too small. If people know, they will be willing. If others don't know, they will know. A gentleman should keep it for life. "
"A gentleman sees profit and is ashamed, evil and ashamed, lewd and ashamed, angry and bitter. The gentleman will keep this battle for life. " Although this cautious attitude towards life is basically within the scope of Confucianism, it is obvious that the logic of Taoism is used to demand gentlemen, and its tendency of passive avoidance is obvious.
This tendency may have been avoided by Zeng Shen at the beginning, but the development of ideas, like many others, can be involved, and it will be difficult to grasp its own deformation after a certain degree. Zeng Shen's requirements for gentleman's cultivation.
2. The concept of modern people is original: what is a gentleman should borrow the metaphor of the ancients: Confucius called people "villains" and the famous saying that "a gentleman is righteous and a villain benefits". The oldest meaning of a gentleman mainly refers to people who are educated and have good moral character, while ordinary people have no chance of education, so they are also called "villains" together with people who have no virtue ... What is a gentleman? To borrow a word from a friend: When talking about "What is a good man" at dinner, I asked my friend, do you think you are a good man? He thought for a moment and said, "I don't know what the definition of a good man is, but I am a man of my word and can be called a' gentleman', because the definition of a gentleman is that he has a sense of responsibility and doesn't promise easily, but he can definitely keep his word." Of course, he will say whatever he says and judge the crux of the matter.
In modern society, it is difficult to be responsible for all kinds of interpersonal relationships and roles. "I also thought about it and replied," In fact, you are not the only one who keeps your word. A person who is punctual, does not stand up easily, and does not act arbitrarily easily, such as "drinking crime", can also be included as a gentleman and a good man! "In fact, we girls are shouting every day, to find a good man, to have a gentleman's bearing, to have a general demeanor.
In fact, our requirements are not very high. Unfortunately, it may be difficult for men.
Because people who bear the name of a gentleman must be very considerate of the feelings of people around them and take care of their families. Unfortunately, for gentlemen, the details of life they are used to are definitely a burden that they have never really been free and easy. The advantages of being a fashionable gentleman now are that men are not bad and women don't love them. Some men like to pretend to be "gentlemen", obedient to the women who love them, and let women fall into the gentle trap, making a great change.
Women are naturally curious animals, so they will feel puzzled, pursue, incredible, love and hate! In fact, a careful and keen observation of a man depends not on pure superficial gentlemanly demeanor, but on knowing more about his living conditions, treating people with things and whether everyone is equal. Don't believe that the world only loves you and only pleases you. As long as he is kind to you, he will not consider anything. Disadvantages of a gentleman: If you really fall in love with a gentleman, I advise you to be mentally prepared to accompany him to bear the pressure, because he will have many friends, many social parties and even join in the fun.
At this time, sensitive women will have a very sour taste, secretly admit bad luck, so many men in the world, why choose a gentleman and let themselves pay for him silently? But I believe that the human heart is made of meat, and a gentleman should know how to be grateful and be full of expectations and beautiful fantasies. Because they are the most perfect in their own world, they have been expecting the perfect you to appear beside him and grow old together.
Gentleman = Persistence because a gentleman always treats things with dignity, which is a kind of consciousness that drives him to persist. We can define him as a "persistent" persistent person, who will treat life emotionally and pursue perfection forever. Because the reputation of a gentleman is gorgeous and glamorous, I sincerely wish such people can stand out, find their own goals in life and find a world of their own! "Zhouyi" said: Tian Xingjian, the gentleman constantly strives for self-improvement; The capacity of the earth is limited, so a gentleman must constantly cultivate his own virtue to undertake the world.
The last sentence, "Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement", is more widely circulated. But for two thousand years, many people know and few people can understand.
Moreover, there are different explanations in academic circles. At present, there seems to be no recognized correct explanation. The original book of changes.