Betraying this demon is always hidden in our hearts, and we will grow infinitely when we have the opportunity. What is particularly frightening is the most complete betrayal in the dream of "believing in beauty".
Of course, there is another sentence: the deepest betrayal comes from the longest trust.
Every time I think of betrayal, it's like a snake wrapped around my heart, cold and disgusting. People hate betrayal so much that they often use the name of Judas, the most famous traitor in human history, to describe betrayal, "judas kiss".
This kind of behavior is especially hard to accept in China, a "state of etiquette" that pays attention to benevolence, righteousness, loyalty and sincerity. For this kind of behavior, China people usually try their best to use the essence of words, and use various names to spit on and despise it, such as traitors, traitors for glory, disloyalty and unfilial, and slaves with three surnames. There is also a saying, "Mountains and rivers rise easily, streams retreat easily, people's hearts change easily, and people's hearts change easily." Villain, two words is a summary of this behavior and people.
Of course, I'm a little puzzled. The "villains, traitors and traitors" recorded in history are usually "losers", and those in power use "counterexamples and penalties" to warn their subjects. What about those successful "traitors"
Looking through the history books, the records of them are always the same in history. For example, pearls were covered with dust in the early stage, and no one knew pearls, or Zhongliang was framed for no reason. Later, it was discovered by the wise "First Emperor" of SHEN WOO. After some persuasion, Corporal Lixian, who "abandoned the darkness for the bright future", made great achievements under the new boss. The most classic is the entrepreneurial team of Liu Bang and Zhu Yuanzhang. Many roles in the team have basically had the experience of "job hopping".
So are some of these people's behaviors considered "betrayal"?
Therefore, it is really terrible for scholars to have pens, and public opinion is too important.
Of course, there are also comments from some historical figures, and we are just talking after dinner. In our ordinary life, we pay more attention to the betrayal in reality, such as the betrayal of friends' friendship and the betrayal of love between lovers. We can't stand these betrayals, let alone talk about who is right and who is wrong.
There is a saying that betrayal is of little value without loyalty and disloyalty. Aside from those high-sounding modifiers, most people are more concerned about the pursuit of fame and wealth and selfish desires, or that betrayal of career or emotion is always to get something.
This is generally the case in the world. So, don't hate those traitors, because they can't get what they want from you, just as you will do the same "betrayal" one day.
So one aspect of avoiding betrayal is that you can give him (her) what he (she) desires. Nothing can be consumed for free without business training.
To sum up, the root of betrayal lies in people, so they are human beings and have "privacy".
That makes sense, but we did it on purpose. So it is understandable in reason, but it is still difficult to betray such a thing emotionally.
Whether it is a traitor or a betrayed person, it will be very uncomfortable emotionally. Betrayers are the most painful when they are betrayed by the closest people. Betrayers are more afraid and helpless when they make up their minds to betray and do betrayed things.
Unless the betrayer has no idea of "loyalty to you" from the beginning, he has no scruples about "loyalty" to you; Maybe ta just wants to stimulate, who knows.
A fragment in the novel Godfather 2, I think, is a classic about psychological details of betraying both sides.
Giuliano saw Pieciuta take down the gun and thought he was going to put it aside. He stood up and reached out to give him a hand. At this moment, he suddenly found that his friend had pointed the gun at him. He was shocked. This is the first time in seven years that he was caught off guard.
Piechotta was afraid that giuliano would ask him. He would ask, "Piechotta, who is Judas in our team? Who tipped Croce off? Castel, who led the police to Vitrano? Piechotta, why did you meet Croce? " Of course, what he fears most is that giuliano will say, "Piechotta, you are my brother." It was his fear that prompted Pussiau Tower to pull the trigger. A bullet knocked off Gianno's hand and pierced many holes in him. . . . . . Giuliano, who was dying, always believed in her happy destiny and sincere love of her friends. But the merciful god of death sent him a message: he was betrayed by his friends. He died in his dream.
It's really sad Because of intention, people learn to love, and because of intention, they regenerate original sin and breed the devil of betrayal.
Also because, with heart, some people will have more courage to accept betrayal. If betrayal is a kind of courage, then it takes more courage to accept betrayal.
The deepest betrayal comes from the longest trust. Because you have exposed everything, these may be the reasons for others to slander you; But whether you will be betrayed or not, or you have been betrayed, trusting others and being honest with others don't need to be thrown away. If a person can't even be honest with each other, he is doomed to live in an absurd world full of self-deception and deception, and can never really face life.
Honesty is the most important thing in getting along with people. Save a kindness and keep a quiet heart; Leave a tolerance and more relief; There is no fear of betrayal, because betrayal actually lies in your impatience, your haggle over every ounce, and your self-distrust that you can't bear the "risk".