Mentally healthy people always work hard and love others. As long as they can do these two things, there is no difficulty in other things. Freud
What others give is human feelings and dependence. Self-reliance and independence are the sense of security. Mr. Decca
I don't want to make a living, I want to live. Oscar Wilde
The more decisive he is in rejecting this matter, the better. Feelings that can't be responded to, from the beginning, break the other person's thoughts. If you are sure that you can't do it, don't even give hope. Many times we are afraid of rejecting others and think it is a kind of harm. Actually, it's not. It takes a sharp knife to cut the gordian knot. Not hanging others is actually the greatest kindness. Lu Sihao
When people reach a certain stage, life will start to do subtraction for you. Take some of your friends and let you know who your real friends are. Take away some of your dreams and let you know what reality is. When you can watch yourself busy and become a bystander in your life, you can find your own rhythm. It is better to talk less about your loneliness, although it is glorious to be defeated, and
bad emotions. Family members are sad, friends are worried, and opponents snicker, which makes them feel sorry for themselves and lose their fighting spirit. Negative emotions are like pimples on your back. Be careful not to touch them. Just be silent. There is no need to advertise loudly every day. He Jiong
A person's best appearance is probably to be calm, accept all his weaknesses frankly, stop being anxious because others are doing well, and keep the rhythm when no one can see you. This may be a slow walk, but it will be more solid than anyone else. You don't have to be afraid to step on the air, and you don't have to be afraid to go to other people's tracks. I just don't want to be like most people
Everyone has his own way, and every way is right. The misfortune of people is that they don't want to go their own way, but always want to go someone else's way. Thomas bernhard
You never worry that you are not worthy of the excellent person, but you only worry that you are not worthy of the person you like. Liu Tong
Most fears are related to laziness, which I deeply agree with. We are often afraid of change, in fact, because we are too lazy to adapt to the new environment, too lazy to learn new knowledge and set foot in new fields, but how can we mature ourselves if this is always the case?
In your life, if you hope that one day when you look back, every step you take forward, backward, or stop will become a poem, you will take every step of your life in a down-to-earth manner. Wang Han
wish is to hope that something will happen. Faith is believing that it will happen. Courage is making it happen. FEIZHULIU I don't want to make a living, I want to live
1. I don't want to make a living, I want to live.
2. A good beginning may not necessarily lead to a good result. A bad beginning often leads to worse results.
3. A person's greatest weakness is not selfishness, passion, barbarism and willfulness. But a paranoid love for someone who doesn't love himself.
4. Don't ask yourself too general requirements, and don't care too much about some too general things. Aim high, this is the beginning of all beautiful and bright future.
5. The best age is that on that day, you finally know and firmly believe how good you are, not boasting, not being praised by everyone, but knowing clearly in your heart: Yes, I am so good.
6. A person's life is like walking in the fog; Looking from a distance, it's just a blur, and I can't tell the direction and good or bad luck. However, when you summon up courage, put down your fears and doubts and move forward step by step, you will find that with each step, you can see the next step clearly. "Go ahead, don't stand far away and watch!" You can find your direction.
7. See yourself with great joy and great sorrow, and see your friends with great ups and downs.
8. In this world, who makes you feel most secure except your relatives? Who always gives you everything you want; Who loves you the most when you are unwell and in a bad mood; Whoever is in trouble is always the first to come to your side-who loves you the most.
9. Always be yourself no matter where you are.
1. Many things are reluctant to come, especially feelings. If there is no tacit understanding between the two sides, it will be very difficult to even want a kiss, whether you accept your fate or not. However, many things in the world can always get some corresponding changes through hard work, and so can feelings. If you have wisdom, instead of letting you complain about everything you can, you can't complain about everything you want.
11. Don't beg, learn to fight for it. If so, something will be gained.
12. I love you, because you can bring out my true part. I love you, because you walk through the wilderness of my heart as easily as sunlight penetrates the crystal, and my stupidity and weakness hardly exist in your eyes.
13. We go through hardships/to better comfort others.
14. Children, don't deify love. "Love is that even if you are ugly, he thinks you are beautiful." This sentence is wrong. "Love is that he wants to be with you even though he knows you are ugly." This sentence is barely right.
15. Some people, you get along with them all your life, as if you have never touched the skin. Some people, when you first meet them, seem destined to grow old forever.
16. The world is so big that when you grow up, you will be powerful and famous in the world, but you want to find the little girl next door who licked the lollipop for you, but you still haven't heard from her until you die. But the world is small, too. Maybe you ate a bowl of unclean pot-stewed fire, and when you went to the street to squat in the toilet, you suddenly met the shameless scum who competed with you for the lollipop of the neighbor's little girl when you were a child.
17. Love is not learning. You don't need to learn. If you love someone from the heart and it's hard to hide, you naturally value him. This is an instinct and it's effortless.
18. The wrong relationship, like a necrotic muscle, should be removed as soon as possible. Although you know it will be painful, it is the only chance to survive.
19. I only want to smile at the flowers when I wake up, and I only want to sleep at the flowers when I am drunk. From now on, don't ask about human affairs, just be an immortal.
2. Don't worry about love. There is no wasteland and no age, and it's still early.
Classic Quotations: I don't want to make a living, I want to live
Guidance: In life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something to cherish, to yearn for, to guard, to live for, and even to die for. This is value. Love is a religion, and it is more expensive to believe in it than to believe in any other religion.
1. You know, a person's life is neither so good nor so bad as people think. -Mo Bosang
2. Reading until the end is to make us more tolerant to understand how complicated the world is. -Liang Wendao "I Read"
3. People who can't realize their dreams have one thing in common, that is, they want something, but they are not willing to pay for it. -Duanhe Guangji
4. Nobleness is not pure beauty, but detachment after understanding everything, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathetic eyes. -Yu Hua's Living
5. You think people can get feelings for nothing. I can't. Even the most beautiful and self-sacrificing feelings are not delivered to your door for nothing. Strangely, it is this that makes it beautiful. -Oscar Wilde
6. Being born as a person, you will inevitably do a few stupid things and make mistakes. Eat fruits that should not be eaten, and love people who are not worthy of love. But I have my own balance in my heart, and I refuse to reverse right and wrong and kill good and bad to defend myself. He knows that what he should do is not necessarily what he loves to do. This kind of self-division, the divergence of knowledge and practice, produces tragedy when nervous, and turns into irony when loose. -Qian Zhongshu
7. Not every effort will be rewarded, but every effort must be made, which is an unfair and irreversible proposition. -Zhang Ailing
When I was 8 or 16 years old, I went to serve as a soldier in Ali, Tibet. I faced the vast land for 11 years. I repeatedly questioned the meaning of life. The harsh conditions also made me want to commit suicide. But every time I look up at the stars and pinch my intact body, I understand that if I persist in adversity, I should never think that I have no way out. You are still you. As long as my spirit is not broken, my body can follow you. -Bi Shumin
9. Your burden will become a gift, and your suffering will light your way. -Tagore
1. At the age of 3, a person should know himself as well as the palm of his hand. He should know exactly what shortcomings and advantages he has, how far he can go, who he will be in the future, and more importantly, accept all this. -Camus
11, a person's life may burn or decay, I can't decay, I am willing to burn! -ostrovsky
12. The fate with some people is like a flower that blooms in the night, and you can't see the sunshine. It will wither silently before dawn and will never bloom again. It belongs to the love of moonlight and shadow. Out of that section of the city, we still have to continue on our way. Life is so full of illusions. There is always hope, and there is always no hope. -Anne Baby "Lotus"
13. May you have sufficient patience to take responsibility and a pure heart to believe. Please believe that life is reasonable anyway. -Rilke
14. When everyone is born into this world, there must be a most suitable position for him, just waiting for him to claim it one day. Whether a position is the most suitable for him should ask his life and soul to see if they are happy. -Zhou Guoping "The Best Place"
15. Once you stop wanting something, you will get it. I think this is really an absolute truth. -"andy warhol's Philosophy"
16. From the past to the present, I admire and admire those people who can communicate and socialize. I have never been able to learn or feel uncomfortable, and I often blame myself. Now that I think about it, it seems that this is not bad, at least it is much better than finding that there is only one tired, lonely and empty self left at the scene when the crowd is gone, the lights are dim and the cups and plates are messy. -Wu Nianzhen
17. What is the heart like? It is like a maze of thousands of miles, and there is no boat to cross people. Except for self-crossing, others can't help. -San Mao
18. I have experienced a lot. Now, I seem to understand what happiness is: live a quiet and secluded life, do some simple and useful kindness to people as much as possible, do a really useful job, and finally rest, enjoy nature, read books, listen to music and love people around me. This is my interpretation of happiness. -jon krakauer's Into the Wild
19. A person's true happiness does not lie in the light. Staring at the light from a distance and running towards it, it is in that time of desperate selflessness that life is truly fulfilling. -Tadao Ando
2. People border on each other, and all they can tell is one-sided Guang Chen and one or two worldly wisdom. What can be said is not the deepest loneliness. -Jian Zheng
21. Silence is the perfect way to show contempt. -Bernard Shaw
22. I am probably a bird, full of vigilance, and it is not easy to stay, so I have been flying. -Lin Huiyin
23. Life is a mass of desires. If the desires are not satisfied, they will be painful, and if they are satisfied, they will be bored. Life swings between pain and boredom. -Schopenhauer
24. Nobleness is not pure beauty, but detachment after understanding everything, treating good and evil equally, and looking at the world with sympathetic eyes. -Yu Hua
25. Like all the people in the world, all I have exposed to the world are public opinions that have been trimmed, perfumed and carefully beautified, and my private opinions have been carefully and wisely covered up. -Mark Twain
26. How many people, like me, sit in a space of less than 1 square meters and look at the 95, kilometers in the book? Or, like me, I have a heart wider than 95 thousand kilometers, but I sit in a chair less than one square meter. -Yusuke Ishida
If you don't go, you will die. 27. In life, there is always a pursuit, a hope, something to cherish, to yearn for, to guard, to live for, and even to die for. This is value. —— Wang Meng
28. Some people live a peaceful life without a fixed place, while others have fled in luxury houses all their lives. There are many people who are troubled by the pursuit of wealth or who are too busy to live all day. After working hard all my life, I am still unhappy in the end, but my life has passed. -Xi Arongbo Kampo "The Road to Silence"
29. Without love, people's lives would be unimaginable. Love! It turns desolation into prosperity and mediocrity into greatness; Bring the dead back to life and the living shine. Even though love is endless suffering, endless torture, as severe as frost and as burning as fire, love is always so natural to men and women who are mentally and physically healthy, and at the same time it makes us feel novel, mysterious and incredible. -Lu Yao's Ordinary World
3. Beauty, youth, wealth, and even love itself can't keep people who are deeply favored by God from anxiety and pain, from sadness, and from losing what they love most. Because, in life, some rain is bound to fall, and some days are bound to be dark, sad and desolate. -Louisa May Alcott Little Women
31. If the process from desire to satisfaction to new desire is carried out quickly, it will be happy; If it is slow, it will cause pain; If you pause, it is boring. What's even more frightening is that it can make life rigid, showing deadly depression. So the will always knows what it wants now and what it wants here, but it never knows what it wants at all. -Schopenhauer's The World as Will and Representation
32. The dramatization of life is unhealthy. People who grow up in urban culture like us always see the pictures of the sea first and then the sea; Read love novels first, then know love; Our experience of life is often the second round, with the help of man-made drama, so it is difficult to draw a line between life and drama of life. -Zhang Ailing's Children's Words Are Unbridled
33. If you can't do it, it's your own business. When you dream back at midnight, you can finish it as you like, but I want you to pretend that nothing happened. You can do it, we can all do it, that's how people survive. -Yi Shu's Bridge of Sighs
34. I know that love is a task to grope in the dark, and you will definitely get your hands dirty. If you wander around,