You must learn to be considerate in the workplace
Girl, you don’t have to be scheming, but you must be considerate! Youchengfu does not teach you to be bad, but allows you to protect yourself.
1. Beware of charlatanism
If you realize that others are trying to charade you, you can throw your problems to the other person. For example: someone maliciously asks you to evaluate a colleague, you can say: "It is very impolite to evaluate a person, don't you think so?"
2. Keep everything in check
Be cautious when working. If you encounter a place where you are asked to sign or seal, be sure to read the document clearly. Keep chat records and transfer records, record when necessary, and take screenshots to retain evidence.
3. Don’t reveal the scenery
Don’t be like the trumpet at a roadside stall, telling people around you when something happens. Even people who are very close to you tell all your secrets. People who live deep in the city always look calm and indifferent towards everything. It's hard to know what she's thinking. Others are unpredictable, so they naturally dare not do anything to you.
4. Keep a low profile and bide your time
Showing your sharpness will only make you resentful by villains. If you have the ability, show it passively little by little, and verbally share the credit with your colleagues if you have the ability. You give people a different feeling when you score 100 points from the beginning and when you go from 60 points to 100 points.
5. Learn to disguise
Maintain an easy-going attitude when facing everyone. You may look harmless and weak, but you must always remain sober and rational. Disguise is a basic law of survival and a necessary means of survival in this society.
6. Insight into people's hearts
Learn to figure out the other person's psychology. After a few contacts, you can roughly understand the other person's language habits and inner thoughts. I have good countermeasures in my mind to deal with them at any time. In this way, unnecessary conflicts can be reduced in interpersonal interactions.
7. Maintain a sense of proportion
Be measured in your actions and maintain a sense of boundaries. People who are deep in the city are very keen and can detect other people's true thoughts, but they don't tell them when they see through. No matter how good the relationship is with people, they still maintain a clear sense of boundaries and give people a comfortable feeling.
8. Emotional management is in place
A truly wise person is not a "sinister" character. In fact, they are always polite in dealing with others, giving people a very comfortable affinity. They never complain when they meet anyone, and they can stay calm even when they are angry.
9. Not afraid of slander
A girl with a good reputation is not afraid of the slander directed at her. They know that other people's ridicule is just to provoke others. So they choose to hide their feelings in subtle ways to make the other person feel uncomfortable. Be broad-minded and know how to advance and retreat.
10. Know how to laugh at yourself
Don’t agree with others when they laugh at themselves. If you take the other person’s modesty seriously, it will only lead to resentment. You have to find some innocuous little things to damage yourself so that others won't be jealous of you and you won't lose face.
11. Improve your own value
The core of any interpersonal communication is actually the exchange of equal value. If you are useful to others, others will be close to you. But! This is not flattering self-promotion. Improving yourself is not for others, but for yourself.
12. Playing dumb
Playing dumb is really important. Letting others know that you don’t know many things is a way of self-protection. If someone explains it to you, it can enhance the other person's sense of satisfaction. Even if the other party doesn't explain, it will reduce your interpersonal threat.